The keenest sorrow is to recognize ourselves as the sole cause of all our adversities.

Sophocles (496-406 BC) Greek tragic playwright
Oedipus Rex, l. 1231

Alt. trans. "The greatest griefs are those we cause ourselves."
 
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O my son!
These are no trifles! Think: all men make mistakes,
But a good man yields when he knows his course is wrong,
And repairs the evil. The only crime is pride.

Sophocles (496-406 BC) Greek tragic playwright
Antigone, l. 1022ff [Tiresias] (441 BC) [tr. Fitts/Fitzgerald (1939), ll. 803ff]
    (Source)

Alt. trans.:

Then take these things to heart, my son: for error
Is as the universal lot of man;
But whenso'er he errs, that man no longer
Is witless or unblessed, who, having fallen
Into misfortune, seeks to mend his ways
And is not obstinate: the stiffneckt temper
Must oft plead guilty to the charge of folly.
[tr. Donaldson (1848)]

Now, then, my son, take thought. A man may err;
But he is not insensate or foredoomed
To ruin, who, when he hath lapsed to evil,
Stands not inflexible, but heals the harm.
The obstinate man still earns the name of fool.
[tr. Campbell (1873)]

O ponder this, my son. To err is common
To all men, but the man who having erred
Hugs not his errors, but repents and seeks
The cure, is not a wastrel nor unwise.
No fool, the saw goes, like the obstinate fool.
[tr. Storr (1859)]

Think, therefore, on these things, my son. All men are liable to err. But when an error is made, that man is no longer unwise or unblessed who heals the evil into which he has fallen and does not remain stubborn. Self-will, we know, invites the charge of foolishness.
[tr. Jebb (1891)]

Consider this, my son! and, O remember,
To err is human; 'tis the common lot
Of frail mortality; and he alone
Is wise and happy, who, when ills are done,
Persists not, but would heal the wound he made.
[tr. Werner (1892)]

Think, then, on these things, my son. All men are liable to err; but when an error hath been made, that man is no longer witless or unblest who heals the ill into which he hath fallen, and remains not stubborn. Self-will, we know, incurs the charge of folly.
[tr. Jebb (1917)]

Mark this, my son: all men fall into sin.
But sinning, he is not forever lost
Hapless and helpless, who can make amends
And has not set his face against repentance.
Only a fool is governed by self-will.
[tr. Watling (1939)]

Think of these things, my son. All men may err
but error once committed, he's no fool
nor yet unfortunate, who gives up his stiffness
ad cures the trouble he has fallen in.
Stubbornness and stupidity are twins.
[tr. Wyckoff (1954)]

Be warned, my son, No man alive is free
From error, but the wise and prudent man
When he has fallen into evil courses
Does not persist, but tries to find amendment ....
[tr. Kitto (1962)]

Take these things to heart, my son, I warn you.
All men make mistakes, it is only human.
But once the wrong is done, a man
can turn his back on folly, misfortune too,
if he tries to make amends, however low he's fallen,
and stops his bullnecked ways. Stubbornness
brands you for stupidity -- pride is a crime
[tr. Fagles (1982), l. 1131ff]

Therefore, think about this, child. For men,
all of them, it is common to make mistakes.
Whenever he does make a mistake, that man is still not
foolish or unhappy who, fallen into evil,
applies a remedy and does not become immovable.
Stubborn self-will incurs a charge of stupidity.
[tr. Tyrell/Bennett (2002)]

Understand this: All men make mistakes. But when they do, it would be a wise and well acting man who corrected that mistake and moved on rather than stayed there stubbornly and unrepentant. The stubborn man is rewarded with more errors.
[tr. Theodoridis (2004)]

Consider this, my son.
All men make mistakes -- that's not uncommon.
But when they do, they’re no longer foolish
or subject to bad luck if they try to fix
the evil into which they’ve fallen,
once they give up their intransigence.
Men who put their stubbornness on show
invite accusations of stupidity.
[tr. Johnston (2005), l. 1138ff]

Therefore, think on these things, my child; for every human being makes mistakes, but when he has made a mistake, that man is no longer foolish and unhappy who remedies the evil into which he has fallen and is not stubborn. Obstinacy brings the charge of stupidity.
[tr. Thomas (2005)]

 
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Well one must learn
By doing the thing; for though you think you know it
You have no certainty, until you try.

Sophocles (496-406 BC) Greek tragic playwright
Trachiniae [The Women of Trachis], [First Lady] [tr. Young]

Full text.
 
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Ever negotiate with lawyers at a huge company? If they saw you drowning 100 feet from the shore, they’d through you a 51-foot rope and say they went more than halfway.

Paul Somerson (1950-2018) American technology writer
PC Computing (1996)
 
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If only it were all so simple! If only there were evil people somewhere insidiously committing evil deeds, and it were necessary only to separate them from the rest of us and destroy them. But the line dividing good and evil cuts through the heart of every human being. And who is willing to destroy a part of his own heart?

Alexander Solzhenitsen (1918-2008) Russian novelist, emigre [Aleksandr Isayevich Solzhenitsyn]
The Gulag Archipelago (1973)
 
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For to fear death, my friends, is only to think ourselves wise without really being wise, for it is to think that we know what we do not know. For no one knows whether death may not be the greatest good that can happen to man. But men fear it as if they knew quite well that it was the greatest of evils.

Socrates (c.470-399 BC) Greek philosopher
In Plato, Apology, sec. 29
 
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If all our misfortunes were laid in one common heap, whence everyone must take an equal portion, most people would be content to take their own and depart.

Socrates (c.470-399 BC) Greek philosopher
In Plutarch, Consolation to Apollonius

Alt trans.: "If all misfortunes were laid in one common heap, whence everyone must take an equal portion, most persons would be contented to take their own and depart."
 
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By all means marry. If you get a good wife, you’ll be happy. If you get a bad one, you’ll become a philosopher.

Socrates (c.470-399 BC) Greek philosopher
(Attributed)
 
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No man undertakes a trade he has not learned, even the meanest; yet everyone thinks himself sufficiently qualified for the hardest of all trades — that of government.

Socrates (c.470-399 BC) Greek philosopher
Paraphrased from Plato, Protagoras, 319b-d

In Henry St. John Bolingbroke, Political Writings (1736). Original Plato passage (tr. Jowett) here (search).
 
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If the whole world depends on today’s youth, I can’t see the world lasting another 100 years.

Socrates (c.470-399 BC) Greek philosopher
(Attributed)
 
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Well I am certainly wiser than this man. It is only too likely that neither of us has any knowledge to boast of; but he thinks that he knows something which he does not know, whereas I am quite conscious of my ignorance. At any rate it seems that I am wiser than he is to this small extent, that I do not think that I know what I do not know.

Socrates (c.470-399 BC) Greek philosopher
In Plato, Apology, sec. 19
 
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Regard your good name as the richest jewel you can possibly be possessed of — for credit is like fire; when once you have kindled it you may easily preserve it, but if you once extinguish it, you will find it an arduous task to rekindle it again. The way to gain a good reputation is to endeavor to be what you desire to appear.

Socrates (c.470-399 BC) Greek philosopher
(Attributed)

Compare to here.
 
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We must remember that the test of courage comes when we are in the minority, but the test of tolerance comes when we are in the majority.

Ralph W. Sockman (1889-1970) American Methodist clergyman
“The Open Mind,” Protestantism: A Symposium, ed. William K. Anderson (1944)

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Red meat is not bad for you. Now blue-green meat, that’s bad for you!

Tommy Smothers (b. 1937) American comedian, folk musician, winemaker [Thomas Bolyn Smothers III]
(Attributed)
 
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Diplomacy has rarely been able to gain at the conference table what cannot be gained or held on the battlefield.

Walter Bedell "Beetle" Smith (1895-1961) American soldier, diplomat
Comments on the Geneva Conference on French Indochina (23 Jul 1954)

Quote in The Pentagon Papers (1971).
 
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Sometimes the majority only means that all the fools are on the same side.

Michael W. Smith (b. 1959) American Christian singer
(Attributed)
 
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There are few sorrows, however poignant, in which a good income is of no avail.

Logan Pearsall Smith (1865-1946) American-English essayist, editor, anthologist
Afterthoughts, “Life and Human Nature” (1931)
 
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All Reformers, however strict their social conscience, live in houses just as big as they can pay for.

Logan Pearsall Smith (1865-1946) American-English essayist, editor, anthologist
Afterthoughts, “Other People” (1931)
 
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To deny we need and want power is to deny that we hope to be effective.

Liz Smith (1923-2017) American entertainment journalist [Mary Elizabeth Smith]
(Attributed)
 
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Faith and doubt both are needed — not as antagonists, but working side by side — to take us around the unknown curve.

Lillian Smith (1897-1966) American author
(Attributed)
 
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BETHANY: What’s he like? God?
METATRON: Lonely. But funny. He’s got a great sense of humor.

Kevin Smith (b. 1970) American writer, film director, actor
Dogma (1999)
 
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SERENDIPITY: I have issues with anyone who treats faith as a burden instead of a blessing. You people don’t celebrate your faith; you mourn it.

Kevin Smith (b. 1970) American writer, film director, actor
Dogma (1999)
 
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METATRON: You people! If it hasn’t been made into a movie, it’s not worth knowing about, is that it?

Kevin Smith (b. 1970) American writer, film director, actor
Dogma (1999)
 
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METATRON: Human beings have neither the aural nor the psychological capacity to withstand the awesome power of God’s true voice. Were you to hear it, your mind would cave in and your heart would explode within your chest. We went through five Adams before we figured that out.

Kevin Smith (b. 1970) American writer, film director, actor
Dogma (1999)
 
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The mother eagle teaches her little ones to fly by making their nest so uncomfortable that they are forced to leave it and commit themselves to the unknown world of air outside. And just so does our God to us. He stirs up our comfortable nests, and pushes us over the edge of them, and we are forced to use our wings to save our selves from fatal falling. Read your trials in this light, and see if you cannot begin to get a glimpse of their meaning. Your wings are being developed.

Hannah Whitall Smith (1832-1911) American evangelist, suffragist, author
A Christian’s Secret of a Happy Life, “The Life on Wings,” (1875)

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A man gazing on the stars is proverbially at the mercy of the puddles on the road.

Alexander Smith (1830-1867) Scottish poet
“Men of Letters”
 
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The real price of everything, what everything really costs to the man who wants to acquire it, is the toil and trouble of acquiring it.

Adam Smith (1723-1790) Scottish economist
The Wealth of Nations
 
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Virtue is more to be feared than vice, because its excesses are not subject to the regulation of conscience.

Adam Smith (1723-1790) Scottish economist
The Wealth of Nations Introduction (1776)
 
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Beware of pretty faces that you find.
A pretty face can hide an evil mind.

P. F. Sloan (1945-2015) American singer-songwriter [Philip Gary "Flip" Sloan, b. Philip Gary Schlein]
Secret Agent Man

(with Steve Barri, sung by Johnny Rivers)
 
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If I told you how I really felt about you it would probably sound like a medley of clichés from popular songs.

Bernard Slade (1930-2019) Canadian-American playwright and screenwriter
Same Time, Next Year (1978)

Slade wrote the screenplay and original stage play (1975).
 
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Our principles are the springs of our actions; our actions the springs of our happiness or misery. Too much care, therefore, cannot be taken in forming our principles.

Philip Skelton (1707-1787) Irish clergyman, philosopher, scholar
“Hylema” #92

Source. Sometimes attributed to Red Skelton.
 
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I am patient with stupidity, but not with those who are proud of it.

Edith Sitwell (1887-1964) English poet
(Attributed)

Quoted in Elizabeth Salter, The Last Years of a Rebel : A Memoir of Edith Sitwell (1967).
 
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Even in the worm that crawls in the earth there glows a divine spark. When you slaughter a creature, you slaughter God.

Isaac Bashevis Singer (1904-1991) Polish-American writer, Nobel laureate (b. Icek-Hersz Zynger)
(Attributed)
 
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Democracy encourages the majority to decide things about which the majority is blissfully ignorant.

John A. Simon (1873-1954) English statesman and politician
(Attributed)

Unsourced, but attributed in several locations. Sometimes misattributed (?) to Serbian-American critic John (Ivan) Simon (b. 1925).
 
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The great atrocities of our civilization have rarely been the acts of generals or presidents or kings. They have been the doings of petty bureaucrats acting within the strict confines of the law.

(Other Authors and Sources)
Alain Simon
 
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Easy enough to talk of soul and spirit and essential worth, but not when you’re three feet high.

Richard Alan Simmons (1924-2004) American screenwriter, producer
The Incredible Shrinking Man (1957)

(with Richard Matheson)
 
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I’m not happy. I’m cheerful. There’s a difference. A happy woman has no cares at all. A cheerful woman has cares but has learned how to deal with them.

Beverly Sills (1929-2007) American opera singer [b. Belle Silverman]
(Attributed)
 
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I really do believe I can accomplish a great deal with a big grin. I know some people find that disconcerting, but that doesn’t matter.

Beverly Sills (1929-2007) American opera singer [b. Belle Silverman]
(Attributed)
 
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There are no shortcuts to any place worth going.

Beverly Sills (1929-2007) American opera singer [b. Belle Silverman]
(Attributed)
 
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Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last — more than passion or even sex!

Simone Signoret (1921-1985) German-French actress [b. Simone Kaminker]
Daily Mail (London) (4 Jul 1978)
 
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Don’t expect perfect products unless you are willing to pay for perfection.

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Robert Siegmeister
 
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COLE: I once drew a picture of a man being stabbed in the neck by another man with a screwdriver. They had a meeting over it. My mama cried. I don’t draw pictures like that anymore.
MALCOLM: What do you draw pictures of?
COLE: Men smiling, dogs running, rainbows. They don’t have meetings about rainbows.

M. Night Shyamalan (b. 1970) Indian-American screenwriter, director
The Sixth Sense (1999)
 
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One very important ingredient of success is a good, wide-awake, persistent, tireless enemy.

Frank B. Shutts (1870-1947) American attorney, publisher
(Attributed)
 
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Trouble is a part of your life, and if you don’t share it, you don’t give the person who loves you enough chance to love you enough.

Dinah Shore (1917-1994) American actress, singer
(Attributed)
 
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The game of life is a game of boomerangs. Our thoughts, deeds and words return to us sooner or later, with astounding accuracy.

Florence Scovel Shinn
Florence Scovel Shinn (1870-1940) American illustrator, metaphysicist
The Game of Life and How to Play It (1925)
 
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When you meet your antagonist, do everything in a mild and agreeable manner. Let your courage be as keen, but at the same time as polished, as your sword.

Richard Brinsley Sheridan (1751-1816) Irish dramatist, satirist, politician
(Attributed)
 
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A rain came along last night and gently wet San Diego. It cleaned off my car except for a stubborn bird blessing on the hood. I had been staring at it for several days and the rain cleaned everything except that single spot. (sigh) For the most part, things take care of themselves if we just let them, but every now and again we’ve got to get involved, and dirty our hands.

(Other Authors and Sources)
Jeff Shepherd, Jeff’s Weekly Quotations, #39 (1994)
 
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It’s a very sobering feeling to be up in space and realize that one’s safety factor was determined by the lowest bidder on a government contract.

Alan B. Shepherd, Jr. (1923-1998) American astronaut
(Attributed)
 
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A liar begins with making falsehood appear like truth, and ends with making truth itself appear like falsehood.

William Shenstone (1714-1763) English poet
(Attributed)
 
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Love withers under constraint: its very essence is liberty: it is compatible neither with obedience, jealousy, nor fear.

Percy Bysshe Shelley (1792-1822) English poet
“Queen Mab” (1813)

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Familiar acts are beautiful through love.

Percy Bysshe Shelley (1792-1822) English poet
Prometheus Unbound, “The Earth,” Act IV, l. 403 (1819)
 
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Our sincerest laughter
With some pain is fraught;
Our sweetest songs
Are those that tell of saddest thought.

Percy Bysshe Shelley (1792-1822) English poet
“To a Skylark” (1821)

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Whether one has natural talent or not, any learning period requires the willingness to suffer uncertainty and embarrassment.

Gail Sheehy
Gail Sheehy (1936-2020) American writer, journalist, editor
(Attributed)
 
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If we don’t change, we don’t grow. If we don’t grow, we are not really living. Growth demands a temporary surrender of security.

Gail Sheehy
Gail Sheehy (1936-2020) American writer, journalist, editor
Passages (1976)
 
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A ship in harbor is safe, but that is not what ships are built for.

John Augustus Shedd (1859-1928) American writer, educator
Salt from My Attic (1928)

    Variants:
  • "Ships in harbor are safe, but that is not what ships are built for."
  • "A ship in port is safe. But that’s not what ships were built for." (used by Grace Hopper)
  • "A ship is always safe at shore, but that is not what it is built for." (frequently misattributed to Albert Einstein)
More information on this quotation here. Sometimes (mis)attributed to William Greenough Thayer Shedd.
 
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