<i>Parerga and Paralipomena</i>, Vol. 1, "Aphorisms on the Wisdom of Life <i>[Aphorismen zur Lebensweisheit]</i>," ch. 4 "Counsels and Maxims <i>[Paränesen und Maximen]</i>," § 3.29 (1851) [tr. Payne (1974)]