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		<title>Ephron, Nora -- Essay (2006), &#8220;What I Wish I&#8217;d Known,&#8221; I Feel Bad About My Neck (2007)</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2026 08:14:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When your children are teenagers, it&#8217;s important to have a dog so that someone in the house is happy to see you.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When your children are teenagers, it&#8217;s important to have a dog so that someone in the house is happy to see you. </p>
<br><b>Nora Ephron</b> (1941-2012) American screenwriter, author, journalist, director<br>Essay (2006), &#8220;What I Wish I&#8217;d Known,&#8221; <i>I Feel Bad About My Neck</i> (2007) 
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		<title>Millay, Edna St. Vincent -- Poem (1940), &#8220;I must not die of pity; I must live,&#8221; ll. 12-14, Make Bright the Arrows, ch. 5 &#8220;Sonnets,&#8221; No. 6</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[If I would help the weak, I must be fed In wit and purpose, pour away despair And rinse the cup, eat happiness like bread.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If I would help the weak, I must be fed<br />
In wit and purpose, pour away despair<br />
And rinse the cup, eat happiness like bread.</p>
<br><b>Edna St. Vincent Millay</b> (1892-1950) American poet<br>Poem (1940), &#8220;I must not die of pity; I must live,&#8221; ll. 12-14, <i>Make Bright the Arrows</i>, ch. 5 &#8220;Sonnets,&#8221; No. 6 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://archive.org/details/makebrightarrows0000mill/page/62/mode/2up?q=%22pour+away+despair%22" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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		<title>Stevenson, Robert Louis -- Essay (1878-03), &#8220;Crabbed Age and Youth,&#8221; Cornhill Magazine, Vol. 38</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Now I know that in thus turning Conservative with years, I am going through the normal cycle of change and travelling in the common orbit of men&#8217;s opinions. I submit to this, as I would submit to gout or grey hair, as a concomitant of growing age or else of failing animal heat; but I [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Now I know that in thus turning Conservative with years, I am going through the normal cycle of change and travelling in the common orbit of men&#8217;s opinions. I submit to this, as I would submit to gout or grey hair, as a concomitant of growing age or else of failing animal heat; but I do not acknowledge that it is necessarily a change for the better &#8212; I dare say it is deplorably for the worse.</p>
<br><b>Robert Louis Stevenson</b> (1850–1894) Scottish essayist, novelist, poet<br>Essay (1878-03), &#8220;Crabbed Age and Youth,&#8221; <i>Cornhill Magazine</i>, Vol. 38 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://digital.nls.uk/rlstevenson/browse/archive/78694169?mode=transcription#:~:text=Now%20I%20know,for%20the%0Aworse%2C" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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<a href="https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Virginibus_Puerisque_and_Other_Papers/Crabbed_Age_and_Youth#:~:text=Now%20I%20know,for%20the%20worse.">Collected</a> in <i>Virginibus Puerisque and Other Papers</i>, ch. 2 (1881).

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		<title>Billings, Josh -- Everybody&#8217;s Friend, Or; Josh Billing&#8217;s Encyclopedia and Proverbial Philosophy of Wit and Humor, ch. 281 &#8220;Variety: Bred and Butter&#8221; (1874)</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jul 2025 16:48:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Cheerfullness makes the plainest features butiful, the severest winter agreeable; it elevates the lowly, and adds a charm tew grateness, all its own. [Cheerfulness makes the plainest features beautiful, the severest winter agreeable; it elevates the lowly, and adds a charm to greatness.]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cheerfullness makes the plainest features butiful, the severest winter agreeable; it elevates the lowly, and adds a charm tew grateness, all its own.</p>
<p>[Cheerfulness makes the plainest features beautiful, the severest winter agreeable; it elevates the lowly, and adds a charm to greatness.]</p>
<br><b>Josh Billings</b> (1818-1885) American humorist, aphorist [pseud. of Henry Wheeler Shaw]<br><i>Everybody&#8217;s Friend, Or; Josh Billing&#8217;s Encyclopedia and Proverbial Philosophy of Wit and Humor</i>, ch. 281 &#8220;Variety: Bred and Butter&#8221; (1874) 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Everybody_s_Friend_Or_Josh_Billing_s_Enc/7rA8AAAAYAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=Cheerfullness" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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		<title>Addison, Joseph -- Essay (1712-10-17), The Spectator, No. 512</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jun 2025 15:54:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The truth is, the person who pretends to advise, does, in that particular, exercise a superiority over us, and can have no other reason for it, but that, in comparing us with himself, he thinks us defective either in our conduct or our understanding. For these reasons, there is nothing so difficult as the art [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The truth is, the person who pretends to advise, does, in that particular, exercise a superiority over us, and can have no other reason for it, but that, in comparing us with himself, he thinks us defective either in our conduct or our understanding. For these reasons, there is nothing so difficult as the art of making advice agreeable; and indeed all the writers, both ancient and modern, have distinguished themselves among one another, according to the perfection at which they have arrived in this art.</p>
<br><b>Joseph Addison</b> (1672-1719) English essayist, poet, statesman<br>Essay (1712-10-17), <i>The Spectator</i>, No. 512 
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		<title>Barrie, James -- Peter Pan, Act 1 (1904, pub. 1928)</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Dec 2024 18:37:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[PETER: You just think lovely wonderful thoughts and they lift you up in the air. In Barrie&#8217;s novelization, Peter and Wendy, ch. 3 &#8220;Come Away, Come Away!&#8221; (1911), Peter uses the same words.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="hangingindent">PETER: You just think lovely wonderful thoughts and they lift you up in the air.</p>
<p></p>
<br><b>J. M. Barrie</b> (1860-1937) Scottish novelist and dramatist [James Matthew Barrie]<br><i>Peter Pan</i>, Act 1 (1904, pub. 1928) 
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In Barrie's novelization, <i><a href="https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Peter_and_Wendy_(1911)/Chapter_3#:~:text=%E2%80%9CYou%20just%20think%20lovely%20wonderful%20thoughts%2C%E2%80%9D%20Peter%20explained%2C%20%E2%80%98%E2%80%98and%20they%20lift%20you%20up%20in%20the%20air.%E2%80%9D">Peter and Wendy</a></i>, ch.  3 "Come Away, Come Away!" (1911), Peter uses the same words.						</span>
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		<title>Martin, Judith -- Miss Manners on Painfully Proper Weddings, ch.  1 &#8220;General Principles&#8221; (1995)</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Dec 2024 17:53:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Precision marching is less important for the bridal party than maintaining the proper facial expressions: The bridegroom must look awed; the bridesmaids, happy and excited; the father of the bride, proud; and the bride, demure. If the bridegroom feels doubtful, the bridesmaids, sulky, the father, worried, and the bride, blasé, nobody wants to know. Caption [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Precision marching is less important for the bridal party than maintaining the proper facial expressions: The bridegroom must look awed; the bridesmaids, happy and excited; the father of the bride, proud; and the bride, demure. If the bridegroom feels doubtful, the bridesmaids, sulky, the father, worried, and the bride, blasé, nobody wants to know.</p>
<br><b>Judith Martin</b> (b. 1938) American author, journalist, etiquette expert [a.k.a. Miss Manners]<br><i>Miss Manners on Painfully Proper Weddings</i>, ch.  1 &#8220;General Principles&#8221; (1995) 
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Caption for an illustration of the Processional.<br><br>

Book also titled in later editions <i>Miss Manners on Weddings</i> and <i>Miss Manners' Guide to a Surprisingly Dignified Wedding</i>.						</span>
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		<title>Antrim, Minna -- Naked Truth and Veiled Allusions (1902)</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Nov 2024 15:26:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Life is a madrigal or a dirge, according to the singer&#8217;s temperament.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Life is a madrigal or a dirge, according to the singer&#8217;s temperament.</p>
<br><b>Minna Antrim</b> (1861-1950) American epigrammatist, writer<br><i>Naked Truth and Veiled Allusions</i> (1902) 
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		<title>Ullman, Samuel -- &#8220;Youth&#8221; (1918)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Youth is not a time of life; it is a state of mind; it is not a matter of rosy cheeks, red lips and supple knees; it is a matter of the will, a quality of the imagination, a vigor of the emotions; it is the freshness of the deep springs of life. Youth means [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Youth is not a time of life; it is a state of mind; it is not a matter of rosy cheeks, red lips and supple knees; it is a matter of the will, a quality of the imagination, a vigor of the emotions; it is the freshness of the deep springs of life. </p>
<p>Youth means a temperamental predominance of courage over timidity of the appetite, for adventure over the love of ease. This often exists in a man of sixty more than a boy of twenty. Nobody grows old merely by a number of years. We grow old by deserting our ideals.</p>
<p>Years may wrinkle the skin, but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul. Worry, fear, self-distrust bows the heart and turns the spirit back to dust. </p>
<p>Whether sixty or sixteen, there is in every human being&#8217;s heart the lure of wonder, the unfailing child-like appetite of what&#8217;s next, and the joy of the game of living.</p>
<p>When the aerials are down, and your spirit is covered with snows of cynicism and the ice of pessimism, then you are grown old, even at twenty, but as long as your aerials are up, to catch the waves of optimism, there is hope you may die young at eighty.</p>
<br><b>Samuel Ullman</b> (1840-1924) German-American businessman, poet, humanitarian, religious leader<br>&#8220;Youth&#8221; (1918) 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://www.uab.edu/ullmanmuseum/" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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This poem was a favorite of Douglas MacArthur, who had a copy hung in his office in Tokyo, and was responsible for much of the author's subsequent fame in Japan.
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		<title>Farjeon, Eleanor -- Gypsy and Ginger, &#8220;Gypsy and Ginger Take Things Seriously&#8221; [Gypsy] (1920)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[It’s no use crying over spilt evils. It’s better to mop them up laughing.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It’s no use crying over spilt evils. It’s better to mop them up laughing.</p>
<br><b>Eleanor Farjeon</b> (1881-1965) English author <br><i>Gypsy and Ginger</i>, &#8220;Gypsy and Ginger Take Things Seriously&#8221; [Gypsy] (1920) 
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		<title>Havel, Vaclav -- Speech, accepting the &#8220;Open Society&#8221; Prize, Central European University (24 Jun 1999)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are no exact directions. There are probably no directions at all. The only things that I am able to recommend at this moment are: a sense of humour; an ability to see the ridiculous and the absurd dimensions of things; an ability to laugh about others as well as about ourselves; a sense of [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are no exact directions. There are probably no directions at all. The only things that I am able to recommend at this moment are: a sense of humour; an ability to see the ridiculous and the absurd dimensions of things; an ability to laugh about others as well as about ourselves; a sense of irony; and, of everything that invites parody in this world. In other words: rising above things, or looking at them from a distance; sensibility to the hidden presence of all the more dangerous types of conceit in others, as well as in ourselves; good cheer; an unostentatious certainty of the meaning of things; gratitude for the gift of life and courage to assume responsibility for it; and, a vigilant mind.</p>
<br><b>Václav Havel</b> (1936-2011) Czech playwright, essayist, dissident, politician<br>Speech, accepting the &#8220;Open Society&#8221; Prize, Central European University (24 Jun 1999) 
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		<title>Marquis, Don -- archy and mehitabel, &#8220;mehitabel sees paris&#8221; (1927)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[but whotthehell archy whotthehell jamais triste archy jamais triste that is my motto. &#8220;Jamais triste&#8221; means &#8220;never sad&#8221; in French.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>but whotthehell archy whotthehell<br />
jamais triste archy jamais triste<br />
that is my motto.</p>
<br><b>Don Marquis</b> (1878-1937) American journalist and humorist<br><i>archy and mehitabel</i>, &#8220;mehitabel sees paris&#8221; (1927) 
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"Jamais triste" means "never sad" in French.						</span>
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		<title>Ennius -- Annales, Fragment 485</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[He who has conquered is not conqueror Unless the conquered one confesses it. [Qui vincit non est victor nisi victus fatetur.] Quoted by Marcus Servius Honoratus, Commentaries on the Poems of Virgil [In Vergilii Carmina Comentarii], Book 11. Alt. trans.: &#8220;He who conquers is not the conqueror unless the conquered admits it.&#8221; [Source, 493 (Vahlen)] [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>He who has conquered is not conqueror<br />
Unless the conquered one confesses it.</p>
<p><em>[Qui vincit non est victor nisi victus fatetur.]</em></p>
<br><b>Ennius</b> (239-169 BC) Roman poet, writer [Quintus Ennius]<br><i>Annales</i>, Fragment 485 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Delphi_Collected_Fragments_of_Ennius_Ill/_RdqDwAAQBAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&pg=PA485&printsec=frontcover&bsq=%22conquered%20one%20confesses%22" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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<a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20141219124307/http://www.perseus.tufts.edu/hopper/text?doc=Perseus%3Atext%3A1999.02.0053%3Abook%3D11%3Acommline%3D306">Quoted</a> by Marcus Servius Honoratus, <i>Commentaries on the Poems of Virgil [In Vergilii Carmina Comentarii]</i>, Book 11. Alt. trans.:<ul>
	<li>"He who conquers is not the conqueror unless the conquered admits it." [<a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Ennius_and_the_Architecture_of_the_Annal/HadZAQAAQBAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&dq=%22Qui%20vincit%20non%20est%20victor%22&pg=PA139&printsec=frontcover&bsq=%22Qui%20vincit%20non%20est%20victor%22">Source</a>, 493 (Vahlen)]</li>
	<li>"He who conquers is no conqueror unless the conquered admits it." [<a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Ennius_and_the_Architecture_of_the_Annal/HadZAQAAQBAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&dq=%22Qui%20vincit%20non%20est%20victor%22&pg=PA139&printsec=frontcover&bsq=%22Qui%20vincit%20non%20est%20victor%22">Source</a>, 513]</li>
	<li>"The victor is not victorious if the vanquished does not consider himself so." [<a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_Roman_Republic_A_Very_Short_Introduc/5VGdtcjrozAC?hl=en&gbpv=1&dq=%22Qui%20vincit%20non%20est%20victor%22&pg=PT78&printsec=frontcover&bsq=%22Qui%20vincit%20non%20est%20victor%22">Source</a>]</li>
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		<title>Wittgenstein, Ludwig -- Culture and Value, 1946 (1977) [tr. Winch (1980)]</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[If life becomes hard to bear we think of a change in our circumstances. But the most important and effective change, a change in our own attitude, hardly even occurs to us, and the resolution to take such a step is very difficult for us.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If life becomes hard to bear we think of a change in our circumstances. But the most important and effective change, a change in our own attitude, hardly even occurs to us, and the resolution to take such a step is very difficult for us.</p>
<br><b>Ludwig Wittgenstein</b> (1889-1951) Austrian-English philosopher<br><i>Culture and Value</i>, 1946 (1977) [tr. Winch (1980)] 
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		<title>~Proverbs and Sayings -- Chinese proverb</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you can&#8217;t change your fate, change your attitude. Quoted by Amy Tan, The Kitchen God’s Wife (1992).]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you can&#8217;t change your fate, change your attitude. </p>
<br><b>Proverbs, Sayings, and Adages</b><br>Chinese proverb 
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<a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_Kitchen_God_s_Wife/CJsd1OU_Pf0C?hl=en&gbpv=1&pg=PP1&printsec=frontcover&bsq=%22change%20your%20fate%22">Quoted</a> by Amy Tan, <em>The Kitchen God’s Wife</em> (1992).						</span>
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		<title>Dalai Lama, The -- &#8220;The Dalai Lama in Depth,&#8221; Interview with Catherine Ingram, Yoga Journal (Jan/Feb 1990)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The essence of spiritual practice is your attitude toward others.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The essence of spiritual practice is your attitude toward others.</p>
<br><b>The Dalai Lama</b> (b. 1935) Tibetan Buddhist spiritual leader [The 14th Dalai Lama; a/k/a Lhama Thondup / Lhama Dhondrub; b. Tenzin Gyatso]<br>&#8220;The Dalai Lama in Depth,&#8221; Interview with Catherine Ingram, <i>Yoga Journal</i> (Jan/Feb 1990) 
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		<title>De Botton, Alain -- The Consolations of Philosophy, ch. 3 &#8220;Consolation for Frustration&#8221;(2000)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Reason allows us to determine when our wishes are in irrevocable conflict with reality, and then bids us to submit ourselves willingly, rather than angrily or bitterly, to necessities. We may be powerless to alter certain events, but we remain free to choose our attitude towards them, and it is in our spontaneous acceptance of [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Reason allows us to determine when our wishes are in irrevocable conflict with reality, and then bids us to submit ourselves willingly, rather than angrily or bitterly, to necessities. We may be powerless to alter certain events, but we remain free to choose our attitude towards them, and it is in our spontaneous acceptance of necessity that we find our distinctive freedom. </p>
<br><b>Alain de Botton</b> (b. 1969) Swiss-British author<br><i>The Consolations of Philosophy</i>, ch. 3 &#8220;Consolation for Frustration&#8221;(2000) 
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		<title>Twain, Mark -- Note (1896-11-26), Mark Twain&#8217;s Notebook, ch. 27 &#8220;England&#8221; (1935) [ed. Albert Bigelow Paine]</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The best way to cheer yourself is to try to cheer somebody else up. Written while in Guilford, England, shortly after the death of his daughter Susy in America. Often given as &#8220;The best way to cheer yourself up is to try to cheer somebody else up.&#8221; More discussion here.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The best way to cheer yourself is to try to cheer somebody else up.</p>
<p><img fetchpriority="high" decoding="async" src="https://wist.info/wp/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/Twain-cheer-somebody-else-up-wist_info-quote.jpg" alt="Twain - cheer somebody else up - wist_info quote" width="605" height="340" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-34787" srcset="https://wist.info/wp/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/Twain-cheer-somebody-else-up-wist_info-quote.jpg 605w, https://wist.info/wp/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/Twain-cheer-somebody-else-up-wist_info-quote-300x169.jpg 300w, https://wist.info/wp/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/Twain-cheer-somebody-else-up-wist_info-quote-60x34.jpg 60w" sizes="(max-width: 605px) 100vw, 605px" /></p>
<br><b>Mark Twain</b> (1835-1910) American writer [pseud. of Samuel Clemens]<br>Note (1896-11-26), <i>Mark Twain&#8217;s Notebook</i>, ch. 27 &#8220;England&#8221; (1935) [ed. Albert Bigelow Paine] 
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Written while in Guilford, England, shortly after the death of his daughter Susy in America.<br><br>

Often given as "The best way to cheer yourself up is to try to cheer somebody else up." More discussion <a href="http://quoteinvestigator.com/2012/12/21/cheer-somebody/">here</a>.						</span>
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		<title>Winfrey, Oprah -- &#8220;Words of the Week,&#8221; Jet (27 Oct 1986)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I live my life in celebration and in praise of the life I&#8217;m living. What you focus on expands. The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate. The more you complain, the more you find fault, the more misery and fault you will have to find.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I live my life in celebration and in praise of the life I&#8217;m living. What you focus on expands. The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate. The more you complain, the more you find fault, the more misery and fault you will have to find.</p>
<br><b>Oprah Winfrey</b> (b. 1954) American TV personality, actress<br>&#8220;Words of the Week,&#8221; <i>Jet</i> (27 Oct 1986) 
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		<title>Carlyle, Thomas -- (Attributed)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Every day that is born into the world comes like a burst of music, and rings itself all the way through; and thou shalt make of it a dance, a dirge, or a grand life-march as thou wilt. Variant: &#8220;Every day that is born into the world comes like a burst of music and rings [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Every day that is born into the world comes like a burst of music, and rings itself all the way through; and thou shalt make of it a dance, a dirge, or a grand life-march as thou wilt.</p>
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<br><b>Thomas Carlyle</b> (1795-1881) Scottish essayist and historian<br>(Attributed) 
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Variant: "Every day that is born into the world comes like a burst of music and rings itself the way through, and you make of it a dance, a dirge, or a life-march, as thou wilt."<br><br>

The earliest reference I can find to this is its quotation in (or perhaps adjacent to) Kate W. Hamilton, "Ariel Seaton's Rainy Day," <a href="http://quod.lib.umich.edu/m/moajrnl/acg2248.2-01.001?node=acg2248.2-01.001:21&view=text&seq=26"><i>The Ladies' Repository</i></a> (Jan 1868).						</span>
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		<title>Kasdan, Lawrence -- The Empire Strikes Back (1980) [with George Lucas and Leigh Brackett]</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>YODA: No! Try not. Do &#8212; or do not. There is no try.</p>
<br><b>Lawrence Kasdan</b> (b. 1949) American screenwriter, director, producer<br><i>The Empire Strikes Back</i> (1980) [with George Lucas and Leigh Brackett] 
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		<title>Chesterfield (Lord) -- Letter to his son, #128 (9 Oct 1747)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[As I have often told you, politeness and good beeding are absolutely necessary to adorn any, or all other good qualities or talents. Without them, no knowledge, no perfection whatever, is seen in its best light. The scholar, without good breeding, is a pedant; the philosopher, a cynic; the soldier, a brute; and every man [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As I have often told you, politeness and good beeding are absolutely necessary to adorn any, or all other good qualities or talents. Without them, no knowledge, no perfection whatever, is seen in its best light. The scholar, without good breeding, is a pedant; the philosopher, a cynic; the soldier, a brute; and every man disagreeable.</p>
<br><b>Lord Chesterfield</b> (1694-1773) English statesman, wit [Philip Dormer Stanhope]<br>Letter to his son, #128 (9 Oct 1747) 
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		<title>Holmes, Oliver Wendell, Sr. -- Reply to an invitation from Maud Howe to Julia Ward Howe&#8217;s birthday (1889-05-27)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[To be seventy years young is sometimes far more cheerful and hopeful than to be forty years old. This is the long form version of the quotation, today usually rendered, &#8220;It is better to be seventy years young than forty years old.&#8221; Other variants: To be seventy years young is sometimes far more cheerful than [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To be seventy years <i>young</i> is sometimes far more cheerful and hopeful than to be forty years <i>old</i>.</p>
<br><b>Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr.</b> (1809-1894) American poet, essayist, scholar<br>Reply to an invitation from Maud Howe to Julia Ward Howe&#8217;s birthday (1889-05-27) 
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This is the long form version of the quotation, today usually rendered, "It is better to be seventy years young than forty years old."<br><br>

Other variants:
<ul>
<li>To be seventy years young is sometimes far more cheerful than to be forty years old.</li>
<li>To feel seventy years young is far more cheerful than to feel forty years old.</li>
<li>It is possible to be seventy years young, instead of forty years old.</li>
</ul>

The first references to this quotation are within the first few months of the event, which argues for its authenticity, including <i><a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_Unitarian/TOJAAAAAYAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&dq=holmes+%22seventy+years+young%22&pg=PA319&printsec=frontcover">The Unitarian</a></i> Magazine, Vol. 4, No.  7 (1889-07) and even <a href="https://www.loc.gov/collections/chronicling-america/?q=holmes+howe+%22seventy+years+young%22&dl=page&sb=date">newspaper blurbs</a>, e.g., <a href="https://www.loc.gov/resource/sn82015679/1889-05-30/ed-1/?sp=4&q=holmes+howe+%22seventy+years+young%22&r=0.44,0.728,0.275,0.164,0">1889-05-30</a>. This last has a more expanded quotation:<br><br>

<blockquote>As for your mothers's age, I am bound to believe her own story, but I can only say that to be seventy years young is sometimes far more cheerful and hopeful than to be forty years old.</blockquote><br>

In a <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Machinists_Monthly_Journal/YerNAAAAMAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&dq=holmes+%22seventy+years+young%22&pg=PA1075&printsec=frontcover">1910 obituary article</a> for Howe, the story and the full quote are again given.<br><br>

Howe and Holmes (who was eighty when he gave this) were good friends, and Howe and her daughter Laura frequently visited the elder poet. In <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Julia_Ward_Howe_1819_1910/nRYsZi9zytEC?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22seventy%20years%20young%20than%22"><i>Julia Ward Howe, 1819-1910</i></a>, ch. 23 (1915), a biography of Howe by Laura and another daughter, Maud, it expands the anecdote:<br><br>

<blockquote><span class="tab">The seventieth birthday was a great festival. Maud, inviting Oliver Wendell Holmes to the party, had written, "Mamma will be <i>seventy years young</i> on the 27th, Come and play with her!"<br>
<span class="tab">The Doctor in his reply said, "It is better to be seventy years young than forty years old!"</blockquote><br>

Note that uses the short form, and give at least partial credit to the phrase to Maud.<br><br>

References to the quotation, or even just to "seventy years young" (crediting it to Holmes) are common in the 1890s (e.g., <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/William_E_Dodge_the_Christian_Merchant/w_oCAAAAMAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&dq=holmes+%22seventy+years+young%22&pg=PA311&printsec=frontcover">1890</a>, <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_Northwestern_Journal_of_Homeopathy_V/BJjd4rbBWQQC?hl=en&gbpv=1&dq=holmes+%22seventy+years+young%22&pg=PA88&printsec=frontcover">1892</a>, <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Unity_Pulpit/kvmjPTms0OAC?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22seventy%20years%20young%22">1894</a>, <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Werner_s_Magazine/VCAeX7FiN0QC?hl=en&gbpv=1&dq=holmes+%22seventy+years+young%22&pg=PA92&printsec=frontcover">1899</a>) and into the new millennium . Emily Bishop titled her 1907 self-help book, <i>The Road to "Seventy Years Young"; or The Unhabitual Way</i> after this phrase (which she used as <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/_/VFlJAAAAYAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22than%20forty%20years%20old%22">the epigraph on the title page</a>; ironically, she died in 1916 at age 58). Its appearance (in short form) in Howe's 1915 biography, and (in long form) in <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Familiar_Quotations/qOIcLN6tWpIC?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22seventy%20years%20young%22">the 1919 Bartlett's</a> were at its peak popularity.<br><br>
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		<title>Miller, Henry -- Letter to Anaïs Nin (24 May 1933)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I don&#8217;t want to be bitter about life &#8212; about love and friendship and all the human emotional entanglements. I&#8217;ve had more than my share of human disappointments, deprivations, disillusionment. I want to love people and life above all; I want to be able to say always, &#8220;if you feel bitter or disillusioned, there is [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t want to be bitter about life &#8212; about love and friendship and all the human emotional entanglements. I&#8217;ve had more than my share of human disappointments, deprivations, disillusionment. I want to love people and life above all; I want to be able to say always, &#8220;if you feel bitter or disillusioned, there is something wrong with yourself, not with people, not with life.&#8221;</p>
<br><b>Henry Miller</b> (1891-1980) American novelist<br>Letter to Anaïs Nin (24 May 1933) 
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<br><b>Charles Buxton</b> (1823-1871) English  brewer, philanthropist, writer, politician<br><i>Notes of Thought</i> #560 (1873) 
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		<title>Shaftesbury, Earl of -- &#8220;An Inquiry Concerning Virtue, or Merit&#8221;</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One ship drives east and another drives west,<br />
With the self-same winds that blow,<br />
<span class="tab">&#8216;Tis the set of the sails<br />
<span class="tab">And not the gales<br />
That tell them way to go.<br />
&nbsp;<br />
Like the winds of the sea are the winds of fate,<br />
As we journey along through life,<br />
<span class="tab">&#8216;Tis the set of the soul,<br />
<span class="tab">That determines the goal,<br />
And not the calm or the strife.</span></span></span></span></p>
<br><b>Ella Wheeler Wilcox</b> (1850-1919) American author, poet, temperance advocate, spiritualist<br>Poem (1913), &#8220;The Winds of Fate,&#8221; <i>Poems of Optimism</i> (1915) 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Poems_of_Optimism/The_Winds_of_Fate" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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Sometimes called "'Tis the Set of the Sail."<br><br>

There is a <a href="https://www.poeticous.com/ella-wheeler-wilcox/tis-the-set-of-the-sail">longer variant of the poem</a>, sometimes called "One Ship Sails East," that includes two stanzas in front, and has slightly different words in the analogous stanzas. I have not found a primary source for this version:<br><br>

<blockquote>But to every mind there openeth,<br>
A way, and way, and away,<br>
A high soul climbs the highway,<br>
And the low soul gropes the low,<br>
And in between on the misty flats,<br>
The rest drift to and fro.<br>
<br>
But to every man there openeth,<br>
A high way and a low,<br>
And every mind decideth,<br>
The way his soul shall go.<br>
<br>
One ship sails East,<br>
And another West,<br>
By the self-same winds that blow,<br>
'Tis the set of the sails<br>
And not the gales,<br>
That tells the way we go.<br>
<br>
Like the winds of the sea<br>
Are the waves of time,<br>
As we journey along through life,<br>
'Tis the set of the soul,<br>
That determines the goal,<br>
And not the calm or the strife.</blockquote><br>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The best thing to give to your enemy is forgiveness; to an opponent, tolerance; to a friend, your heart; to your child, a good example; to a father, deference; to your mother, conduct that will make her proud of you; to yourself, respect; to all men, charity.</p>
<br><b>Clara Lucas Balfour</b> (1808-1878) English novelist, lecturer, temperance campaigner<br><i>Sunbeams for All Seasons: Counsels, Cautions, and Precepts</i> (1861 ed.) 
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		<title>Heywood, John -- Ballad (1576), &#8220;Be Merry Friends,&#8221; st. 17</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Let the world slide, let the world go: A fig for care, and a fig for woe! If I can&#8217;t pay, why, I can owe; And death makes equal the high and low. Be merry, friends! Collected in John Payne Collier (ed.), A Book of Roxburghe Ballads (1847), which includes more history about it. This [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Let the world slide, let the world go:<br />
A fig for care, and a fig for woe!<br />
If I can&#8217;t pay, why, I can owe;<br />
And death makes equal the high and low.<br />
<span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab">Be merry, friends!</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></p>
<br><b>John Heywood</b> (1497?-1580?) English playwright and epigrammist<br>Ballad (1576), &#8220;Be Merry Friends,&#8221; st. 17 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://babel.hathitrust.org/cgi/pt?id=loc.ark:/13960/t9863sh7k&seq=180&q1=%22fig+for+woe%22" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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Collected in John Payne Collier (ed.), <i>A Book of Roxburghe Ballads</i> (1847), which includes <a href="https://babel.hathitrust.org/cgi/pt?id=loc.ark:/13960/t9863sh7k&seq=177">more history</a> about it.<br><br>

This quote from the final stanza of the ballad (as reconstructed) was popularized when <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/A_Collection_of_Familiar_Quotations_with/aCFYAAAAcAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&dq=heywood+%22fig+for+care%22&pg=PA140&printsec=frontcover">quoted in <i>Bartlett's Familiar Quotations</i></a>, 5th Ed. (1870) and subsequent editions.<br><br>

The ballad also shows up in a collection of James Orchard Halliwell (ed.), <a href="https://babel.hathitrust.org/cgi/pt?id=mdp.39015049193108&seq=625"><i>The Moral Play of Wit and Science</i></a> (1848) for the Shakespeare Society. This has an <a href="https://babel.hathitrust.org/cgi/pt?id=mdp.39015049193108&seq=742">earlier version of the ballad</a>, which does not include this stanza.  (It also wavers in spelling between "mery" / "merye" and "frends" / "freendes.") This is in turn endnoted with five contemporary English stanzas, replacing the last two given, which <a href="https://babel.hathitrust.org/cgi/pt?id=mdp.39015049193108&seq=765&q1=%22fig+for+woe%22">includes that quoted above</a>. <br><br>

"Let the world slide" is used by the Beggar (Sly) in Shakespeare's <a href="https://www.folger.edu/explore/shakespeares-works/the-taming-of-the-shrew/read/#:~:text=let%C2%A0the%C2%A0world%0A%C2%A0slide"><i>Taming of the Shrew</i></a>, Induction, sc. 1 (c. 1590).<br><br>



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		<title>Horace -- Odes [Carmina], Book 2, #  3, l.   1ff (2.3.1-8) (23 BC) [tr. Marshall (1908)]</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brace thee, my friend, when times are hard, to show<br />
A mind unmoved; nor less, when fair thy state,<br />
<span class="tab">A sober joy. For Death doth wait<br />
<span class="tab"><span class="tab">As surely, whether woe<br />
Dogs all thy days, or fortune bids thee bask<br />
On peaceful lawn reclined while life goes well,<br />
<span class="tab">And quaff thy wine, from inner cell<br />
<span class="tab"><span class="tab">Drawn at Falernian cask.</p>
<p><em>[Aequam memento rebus in arduis<br />
servare mentem, non secus in bonis<br />
ab insolenti temperatam<br />
laetitia, moriture Delli,<br />
seu maestus omni tempore vixeris<br />
seu te in remoto gramine per dies<br />
festos reclinatum bearis<br />
interiore nota Falerni.]</em></span></span></span></span></span></span></p>
<br><b>Horace</b> (65–8 BC) Roman poet, satirist, soldier, politician [Quintus Horatius Flaccus]<br><i>Odes [Carmina]</i>, Book 2, #  3, l.   1ff (2.3.1-8) (23 BC) [tr. Marshall (1908)] 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://archive.org/details/horacescompletew00hora/page/36/mode/2up?q=%22Brace+thee%2C+my+friend%22" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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Generally believed to be addressed to Quintus Dellius, but <a href="https://archive.org/details/cu31924026490726/page/n135/mode/2up?q=%22the+name+in+the+first+stanza%22">some scholars</a> point to an older manuscript that refers to "Gelli" rather than "Delli," which then fits into various theories about themes in in Horace's works.<br><br>

(<a href="https://www.perseus.tufts.edu/hopper/text?doc=Perseus%3Atext%3A1999.02.0024%3Abook%3D2%3Apoem%3D3#:~:text=Aequam%20memento%20rebus,nota%20Falerni.">Source (Latin)</a>). Alternate translations:<br><br>

<blockquote>Keep still an equal minde, not sunk<br>
<span class="tab">With stormes of adverse chance, not drunk<br>
With sweet Prosperitie,<br>
<span class="tab">O Dellius that must die,<br>
Whether thou live still melancholy,<br>
<span class="tab">Or stretcht in a retired valley;<br>
Make all thy howers merry<br>
<span class="tab">With bowls of choicest Sherrie.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://quod.lib.umich.edu/e/eebo/A44478.0001.001/1:6?rgn=div1;view=fulltext#:~:text=KEep%20still%20an,a%20retired%20valley">Sir R. Fanshaw</a>; ed. Brome (1666)] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>An even mind in every State,<br>
Amidst the Frowns and Smiles of Fate,<br>
<span class="tab">Dear mortal Delius always show;<br>
Let not too much of cloudy Fear,<br>
Nor too intemperate joys appear<br>
<span class="tab">Or to contract, or to extend thy Brow:<br>
Whether thy dull unhappy Years<br>
Run slowly clog'd with Hopes and Fears,<br>
<span class="tab">And sit too heavy on thy Soul;<br>
Or whether crown'd on Beds of Flowers<br>
Mirth softly drives thy easy hours<br>
<span class="tab">And cheers thy Spirits with the choicest Bowl.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://quod.lib.umich.edu/e/eebo/A44471.0001.001/1:5?rgn=div1;view=fulltext#:~:text=AN%20even%20mind,the%20choicest%20Bowl%3A">Creech</a> (1684)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>An equal mind, when storms o'ercloud,<br>
<span class="tab">Maintain, nor 'neath a brighter sky<br>
Let pleasure make your heart too proud,<br>
<span class="tab">O Dellius, Dellius! sure to die,<br>
Whether in gloom you spend each year,<br>
<span class="tab">Or through long holydays at ease<br>
In grassy nook your spirit cheer<br>
<span class="tab">With old Falernian vintages.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.perseus.tufts.edu/hopper/text?doc=Perseus%3Atext%3A1999.02.0025%3Abook%3D2%3Apoem%3D3#:~:text=An%20equal%20mind%2C%20when%20storms%20o%27ercloud%2C%0AMaintain%2C%20nor%20%27neath%20a%20brighter%20sky%0ALet%20pleasure%20make%20your%20heart%20too%20proud%2C%0AO%20Dellius%2C%20Dellius!%20sure%20te%20die%2C%0AWhether%20in%20gloom%20you%20spend%20each%20year%2C%0AOr%20through%20long%20holydays%20at%20ease%0AIn%20grassy%20nook%20your%20spirit%20cheer%0AWith%20old%20Falernian%20vintages">Conington</a> (1872)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>O Dellius, since thou art born to die, be mindful to preserve a temper of mind even in times of difficulty, as well an restrained from insolent exultation in prosperity: whether thou shalt lead a life of continual sadness, or through happy days regale thyself with Falernian wine of the oldest date, at ease reclined in some grassy retreat.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/The_works_of_Horace/Second_Book_of_Odes#cite_ref-21:~:text=O%20Dellius%2C,some%20grassy%20retreat">Smart/Buckley</a> (1853)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Let not the frowns of fate<br>
<span class="tab">Disquiet thee, my friend, <br>
Nor, when she smiles on thee, do thou, elate<br>
<span class="tab">With vaunting thoughts, ascend <br>
Beyond the limits of becoming mirth, <br>
For, Dellius, thou must die, become a clod of earth!<br>
&nbsp;<br>
Whether thy days go down<br>
<span class="tab">In gloom, and dull regrets. <br>
Or, shunning life's vain struggle for renown,<br>
<span class="tab">Its fever and its frets, <br>
Stretch'd on the grass, with old Falernian wine. <br>
Thou giv'st the thoughtless hours a rapture all divine.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/odesofhoracetran00horarich/page/102/mode/2up?q=%22Let+not+tlie+frowns%22">Martin</a> (1864)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>With a mind undisturbed take life's good and life's evil, <br>
Temper grief from despair, temper joy from vainglory; <br>
<span class="tab">For, through each mortal change, equal mind,<br>
<span class="tab"><span class="tab">O my Dellius, befits mortal-born,<br>
Whether all that is left thee of life be but trouble, <br>
Or, reclined at thine ease amid grassy recesses, <br>
<span class="tab">Thy Falernian, the choicest, records <br>
<span class="tab"><span class="tab">How serenely the holidays glide.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/odesandepodesho05horagoog/page/170/mode/2up?q=%22With+a+mind+undisturbed%22">Bulwer-Lytton</a> (1870)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>An even mind in days of care, <br>
<span class="tab">And in thy days of joy to bear <br>
A chastened mood, remember: why? <br>
<span class="tab">'Tis, Dellius, that thou hast to die.<br>
Alike, if all thy life be sad, <br>
<span class="tab">Or festal season find thee glad, <br>
On the lone turf at ease recline, <br>
<span class="tab">And quaff thy best Falernian wine.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/a587951400horauoft/page/n67/mode/2up?q=%22mind+in+days+of+care%22">Gladstone</a> (1894)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>See thou preserve a true equanimity <br>
In seasons adverse, and in prosperity <br>
<span class="tab">A mind restrain'd from overweening <br>
<span class="tab"><span class="tab">Joy, for, my Dellius, thou art mortal!<br>
Whether in sorrow all thy life long thou live, <br>
Or in a distant glade on some holiday, <br>
<span class="tab">Thou lie at ease, the summer day long, <br>
<span class="tab"><span class="tab">Quaffing the specially-mark'd Falernian.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/odesofhoraceinen00horarich/page/38/mode/2up?q=%22preserve+a+true+equanimity%22">Phelps</a> (1897)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>An even mind remember to preserve <br>
In arduous times, conversely, in the good <br>
<span class="tab">One tinctured with no overweening joy. <br>
<span class="tab"><span class="tab">For you will die (Gillo) <br>
Whether you live at all times sad,<br>
Or whether on distant lawn reclined<br>
<span class="tab">Through days of feast you are made glorious<br>
<span class="tab"><span class="tab">From inmost cellar of Falernian.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/cu31924026490726/page/n135/mode/2up?q=%22An+even+mind+remember%22">Garnsey</a> (1907)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Remember, when life’s path is steep, to keep an even mind, and likewise, in prosperity, a spirit restrained from over-weening joy, Dellius, seeing thou art doomed to die, whether thou live always sad, or reclining in grassy nook take delight on holidays in some choice vintage of Falernian wine.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/in.ernet.dli.2015.98705/page/n139/mode/2up?q=%22Remembfr%2C+when+life%E2%80%99s+path+is+steep%22">Bennett</a> (Loeb) (1912)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Remember, Dellius, doomed to die <br>
<span class="tab">Some day, to keep a level mind <br>
When times are hard, nor pridefully<br>
<span class="tab">Exalt your horn when Fate seems kind -- <br>
Aye, doomed to die, whether each dawn<br>
<span class="tab">Renews your griefs, or days of rest <br>
Comfort you, couched on some far lawn,<br>
<span class="tab">With old Falernian of the best.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/odesofhoracemills00horaiala/page/42/mode/2up?q=dellius">Mills</a> (1924)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Maintain an unmoved poise in adversity;<br>
Likewise in luck one free of extravagant<br>
<span class="tab">Joy. Bear in mind my admonition,<br>
<span class="tab"><span class="tab">Dellius. Whether you pass a lifetime<br>
Prostrate with gloom, or whether you celebrate<br>
Feast-days with choice old brands of Falernian,<br>
<span class="tab">Stretched out in some green, unfrequented<br>
<span class="tab"><span class="tab">Meadow, remember your death is certain.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/odesofhorace0000hora/page/94/mode/2up?q=dellius">Michie</a> (1963)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote><span class="tab">  Remember, Dellius: keep yourself in <br>
Balance when it’s hard, keep yourself in <br>
Balance when all of it comes your way, <br>
All of us destined to die<br>
<span class="tab">Whether we live forever sad<br>
Or always lying in some grassy spot,<br>
Celebrating life away<br>
With a jug of choice Falernian.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/essentialhoraceo0000hora/page/38/mode/2up?q=%22keep+yourself+in+Balance+when+it%E2%80%99s+hard%22">Raffel</a> (1983)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>When things are bad, be steady in your mind;<br>
<span class="tab">Dellius, don't be<br>
Too unrestrainedly joyful in good fortune.<br>
<span class="tab">  You are going to die.<br>
It doesn't matter at all whether you spend<br>
<span class="tab">Your days and nights in sorrow,<br>
Or, on the other hand, in holiday pleasure,<br>
<span class="tab">Drinking Falernian wine<br>
Of an excellent vintage year, on the river bank.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/odesofhorace00hora_1/page/108/mode/2up?q=%22when+things+are+bad%22">Ferry</a> (1997)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Remember, entrapped in life’s bitter maze, <br>
to keep an even mind. Even in prosperity <br>
<span class="tab">do not give way to unbridled joy.<br>
<span class="tab"><span class="tab">Remember, you must die, O Dellius,<br>
Whether you live always embrued in melancholy<br>
or languidly laying in a far-off meadow<br>
<span class="tab">on festive days, you take delight in<br>
<span class="tab"><span class="tab">some choice vintage of Falernian wine.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/completeodessati0000hora/page/60/mode/2up?q=%22remember+entrapped%22">Alexander</a> (1999)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>When things are troublesome, always remember,<br>
keep an even mind, and in prosperity<br>
<span class="tab">be careful of too much happiness:<br>
<span class="tab"><span class="tab">since my Dellius, you’re destined to die,<br>
whether you live a life that’s always sad,<br>
or reclining, privately, on distant lawns,<br>
<span class="tab">in one long holiday, take delight<br>
<span class="tab"><span class="tab">in drinking your vintage Falernian.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.poetryintranslation.com/PITBR/Latin/HoraceOdesBkII.php#:~:text=When%20things%20are,your%20vintage%20Falernian.">Kline</a> (2015)]</blockquote><br>
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		<title>Addison, Joseph -- Essay (1712-05-17), The Spectator, No. 381</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cheerfulness keeps up a kind of daylight in the mind, and fills it with a steady and perpetual serenity.</p>
<br><b>Joseph Addison</b> (1672-1719) English essayist, poet, statesman<br>Essay (1712-05-17), <i>The Spectator</i>, No. 381 
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		<title>Tan, Amy -- The Kitchen God&#8217;s Wife, ch. 17 (1991)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[And this made me remember that common saying everyone in China was raised with: &#8220;If you can&#8217;t change your fate, change your attitude.&#8221;Usually quoted without the attribution to a common saying.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And this made me remember that common saying everyone in China was raised with: &#8220;If you can&#8217;t change your fate, change your attitude.&#8221;</p>
<br><b>Amy Tan</b> (b. 1952) American novelist<br><i>The Kitchen God&#8217;s Wife</i>, ch. 17 (1991) 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="http://books.google.com/books?id=WGWVk_MAVDAC" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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		<title>Shaw, George Bernard -- The Doctor&#8217;s Dilemma, Act 5 [Ridgeon] (1906)</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Life does not cease to be funny when people die any more than it ceases to be serious when people laugh.</p>
<br><b>George Bernard Shaw</b> (1856-1950) Irish playwright and critic<br><i>The Doctor&#8217;s Dilemma</i>, Act 5 [Ridgeon] (1906) 
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		<title>Berlin, Irving -- (Attributed)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Life is 10 percent what you make it and 90 percent how you take it. Attributed as a comment made by Berlin during a performance of the show This is the Army, Mr. Jones at the Palladium in London in 1943. Also sometimes attributed to Benjamin Franklin.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Life is 10 percent what you make it and 90 percent how you take it.</p>
<br><b>Irving Berlin</b> (1888-1989) American songwriter [b.  Isidore Beilin]<br>(Attributed) 
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Attributed as a comment made by Berlin during a performance of the show <i>This is the Army, Mr. Jones</i> at the Palladium in London in 1943.<br><br>

Also sometimes attributed to Benjamin Franklin.


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		<title>Milne, A. A. -- Winnie-the-Pooh, ch.  6 &#8220;Eeyore Has a Birthday&#8221; (1926)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[“Good morning, Eeyore,” said Pooh. “Good morning, Pooh Bear,” said Eeyore gloomily. “If it is a good morning,” he said. “Which I doubt,” said he.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="tab">“Good morning, Eeyore,” said Pooh.<br />
<span class="tab">“Good morning, Pooh Bear,” said Eeyore gloomily. “If it <i>is</i> a good morning,” he said. “Which I doubt,” said he.</p>
<br><b>A. A. Milne</b> (1882-1956) English poet and playwright [Alan Alexander Milne]<br><i>Winnie-the-Pooh</i>, ch.  6 &#8220;Eeyore Has a Birthday&#8221; (1926) 
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		<title>Stevenson, Robert Louis -- Essay (1877-07), &#8220;An Apology for Idlers,&#8221; Cornhill Magazine, Vol. 36</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is no duty we so much underrate as the duty of being happy. By being happy, we sow anonymous benefits upon the world, which remain unknown even to ourselves, or when they are disclosed, surprise nobody so much as the benefactor. Collected in Virginibus Puerisque and Other Papers, ch. 3 (1881)]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is no duty we so much underrate as the duty of being happy. By being happy, we sow anonymous benefits upon the world, which remain unknown even to ourselves, or when they are disclosed, surprise nobody so much as the benefactor.</p>
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<br><b>Robert Louis Stevenson</b> (1850–1894) Scottish essayist, novelist, poet<br>Essay (1877-07), &#8220;An Apology for Idlers,&#8221; <i>Cornhill Magazine</i>, Vol. 36 
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<a href="https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Virginibus_Puerisque_and_Other_Papers/An_Apology_for_Idlers#:~:text=There%20is%20no%20duty%20we%20so%20much%20underrate%20as%20the%20duty%20of%20being%20happy.%20By%20being%20happy%2C%20we%20sow%20anonymous%20benefits%20upon%20the%20world%2C%20which%20remain%20unknown%20even%20to%20ourselves%2C%20or%20when%20they%20are%20disclosed%2C%20surprise%20nobody%20so%20much%20as%20the%20benefactor.">Collected</a> in <i>Virginibus Puerisque and Other Papers</i>, ch.  3 (1881)
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		<title>Washington, Martha -- Letter to Mercy Otis Warren (1789-12-26)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Every body and every thing conspire to make me as contented as possible in it; yet I have seen too much of the vanity of human affairs, to expect felicity from the splendid scenes of public life. I am still determined to be cheerful and to be happy, in whatever situation I may be; for [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Every body and every thing conspire to make me as contented as possible in it; yet I have seen too much of the vanity of human affairs, to expect felicity from the splendid scenes of public life. I am still determined to be cheerful and to be happy, in whatever situation I may be; for I have also learnt, from experience, that the greater part of our happiness or misery depends upon our dispositions, and not upon our circumstances. We carry the seeds of the one or the other about with us, in our minds, wheresoever we go.</p>
<br><b>Martha Washington</b> (1731-1802) American socialite, wife of George Washington, First Lady (1789-1797)<br>Letter to Mercy Otis Warren (1789-12-26) 
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		<title>Saint-Exupery, Antoine -- Citadelle [The Wisdom of the Sands], ch.   5 (1948) [tr. Gilbert (1950)]</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The meaning of things lies not in the things themselves but in our attitude towards them.</p>
<br><b>Antoine de Saint-Exupéry</b> (1900-1944) French writer, aviator<br><i>Citadelle [The Wisdom of the Sands]</i>, ch.   5 (1948) [tr. Gilbert (1950)] 
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		<title>Bible, Vol. 1. Old Testament -- Book 20. Proverbs 16:18 (Prov 16:18) [tr. KJV (1611)]</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall. לִפְנֵי־שֶׁ֥בֶר גָּא֑וֹן וְלִפְנֵ֥י כִ֝שָּׁל֗וֹן גֹּ֣בַהּ רֽוּחַ׃ Source of the common elided version, &#8220;Pride goeth before a fall.&#8221; (Source (Hebrew)). Alternate translations: Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall. [JB (1966), NJB (1985)] Pride leads to destruction, and arrogance to downfall. [GNT [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall.</p>
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לִפְנֵי־שֶׁ֥בֶר גָּא֑וֹן וְלִפְנֵ֥י כִ֝שָּׁל֗וֹן גֹּ֣בַהּ רֽוּחַ׃</p>
<br><b>The Bible (The Old Testament)</b> (14th - 2nd C BC) Judeo-Christian sacred scripture [Tanakh, Hebrew Bible], incl. the Apocrypha (Deuterocanonicals) <br>Book 20. <i>Proverbs</i> 16:18 (Prov 16:18) [tr. KJV (1611)] 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs+16%3A18&version=KJV" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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Source of the common elided version, "Pride goeth before a fall."<br><br>

(<a href="https://www.sefaria.org/Proverbs.16.18?lang=bi&with=all&lang2=en">Source (Hebrew)</a>). Alternate translations:<br><br>

<blockquote>Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.<br>
[<a href="https://bibledoctrine.us/proverbs/#:~:text=Pride%20goes%20before%20destruction%2C%20a%20haughty%20spirit%20before%20a%20fall.">JB</a> (1966), <a href="https://www.bibliacatolica.com.br/en/new-jerusalem-bible/proverbs/16/#:~:text=Pride%20goes%20before%20destruction%2C%20a%20haughty%20spirit%20before%20a%20fall.">NJB</a> (1985)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Pride leads to destruction, and arrogance to downfall.<br>
[<a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs+16%3A18&version=GNT">GNT</a> (1976)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Pride comes before disaster,<br>
<span class="tab">and arrogance before a fall.<br>
[<a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs+16%3A18&version=CEB">CEB</a> (2011)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Pride goes before destruction<br>
<span class="tab">and a haughty spirit before a fall.<br>
[<a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs+16%3A18&version=NRSVUE">NRSV</a> (2021 ed.)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Pride goes before ruin,<br>
Arrogance, before failure.<br>
[<a href="https://www.sefaria.org/Proverbs.16.18?lang=bi&with=all&lang2=en">RJPS</a> (2023 ed.)]</blockquote><br>
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		<title>Frankl, Viktor -- Man&#8217;s Search for Meaning, Part 1 (1959)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[We who lived in concentration camps can remember the men who walked through the huts comforting others, giving away their last piece of bread. They may have been few in number, but they offer sufficient proof that everything can be taken away from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms &#8212; [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We who lived in concentration camps can remember the men who walked through the huts comforting others, giving away their last piece of bread. They may have been few in number, but they offer sufficient proof that everything can be taken away from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms &#8212; to choose one&#8217;s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one&#8217;s own way.</p>
<br><b>Viktor Frankl</b> (1905-1997) German-American psychologist, writer<br><i>Man&#8217;s Search for Meaning</i>, Part 1 (1959) 
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		<title>~Other -- Cynthia Nelms</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nobody really cares if you&#8217;re miserable, so you might as well be happy.</p>
<br>(Other Authors and Sources)<br>Cynthia Nelms 
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		<title>~Proverbs and Sayings -- Chinese proverb</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[We cannot prevent the birds of sorrow from flying over our heads, but we can refuse to let them build their nests in our hair.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We cannot prevent the birds of sorrow from flying over our heads, but we can refuse to let them build their nests in our hair.</p>
<br><b>Proverbs, Sayings, and Adages</b><br>Chinese proverb 
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