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		<title>Dante Alighieri -- The Divine Comedy [Divina Commedia], Book 1 &#8220;Inferno,&#8221; Canto  2, l.  37ff (2.37-42) (1309) [tr. Sayers (1949)]</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[As one who wills, and then unwills his will, Changing his mind with every changing whim, Till all his best intentions come to nil, So I stood havering in that moorland dim, While through fond rifts of fancy oozed away The first quick zest that filled me to the brim. [E qual è quei che [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As one who wills, and then unwills his will,<br />
<span class="tab">Changing his mind with every changing whim,<br />
<span class="tab">Till all his best intentions come to nil,<br />
So I stood havering in that moorland dim,<br />
<span class="tab">While through fond rifts of fancy oozed away<br />
<span class="tab">The first quick zest that filled me to the brim.</p>
<p><em>[E qual è quei che disvuol ciò che volle<br />
<span class="tab">e per novi pensier cangia proposta,<br />
<span class="tab">sì che dal cominciar tutto si tolle,<br />
tal mi fec’ïo ’n quella oscura costa,<br />
<span class="tab">perché, pensando, consumai la ’mpresa<br />
<span class="tab">che fu nel cominciar cotanto tosta.]</span></span></span></span></em></span></span></span></span></p>
<br><b>Dante Alighieri</b> (1265-1321) Italian poet<br><i>The Divine Comedy [Divina Commedia]</i>, Book 1 <i>&#8220;Inferno,&#8221;</i> Canto  2, l.  37ff (2.37-42) (1309) [tr. Sayers (1949)] 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://archive.org/details/divinecomedy00peng/page/78/mode/2up?q=unwills" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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(<a href="https://it.wikisource.org/wiki/Divina_Commedia/Inferno/Canto_II#:~:text=E%20qual%20%C3%A8,cominciar%20cotanto%20tosta.">Source (Italian)</a>). Alternate translations:<br><br>

<blockquote>As he who what he first resolv'd rejects,<br>
And by some fresher reasons is induc'd<br>
Wholly to lay aside his first intent;<br>
So I, now in the mountain's shade arriv'd,<br>
Refus'd th' attempt which I at first desir'd.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_Inferno_of_Dante_Translated/1ARcAAAAQAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22%20he%20who%20what%20he%22">Rogers</a> (1782), ll. 34-38]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Like one, who, some imagin'd peril near, <br>
Feels his warm wishes chill'd by wint'ry fear,<br>
<span class="tab">And resolution sicken at the view, <br>
Thus I perceiv'd my sinking spirits fail, <br>
Thus trembling, I survey'd the gloomy vale,<br>
<span class="tab">As near the moment of decision drew. <br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/divinacommediaof01dantuoft/page/102/mode/2up?q=%22imagin%27d+peril%22">Boyd</a> (1802), st. 8] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote><span class="tab"><span class="tab">As one, who unresolves<br>
What he hath late resolv'd, and with new thoughts<br>
Changes his purpose, from his first intent<br>
Remov'd; e'en such was I on that dun coast,<br>
Wasting in thought my enterprise, at first<br>
So eagerly embrac'd.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.gutenberg.org/files/8789/8789-h/8789-h.htm#link2:~:text=As%20one%2C%20who%20unresolves%0AWhat%20he%20hath%20late%20resolv%27d%2C%20and%20with%20new%20thoughts%0AChanges%20his%20purpose%2C%20from%20his%20first%20intent%0ARemov%27d%3B%20e%27en%20such%20was%20I%20on%20that%20dun%20coast%2C%0AWasting%20in%20thought%20my%20enterprise%2C%20at%20first%0ASo%20eagerly%20embrac%27d.">Cary</a> (1814)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>As one that what he wished unwisheth now, <br>
<span class="tab">And, changing purpose in a newer drift. <br>
<span class="tab">Doth his first motion wholly disallow;<br>
So wrought I then beneath that gloomy cliff, <br>
<span class="tab">Who, meditating, quenched the venturous hope <br>
<span class="tab">That in her first beginning rose so swift. <br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/infernodanteali02daymgoog/page/n18/mode/2up?q=unwisheth">Dayman</a> (1843)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote><span class="tab">And as one who unwills what he willed, and with new thoughts changes his purpose, so that he wholly quits the thing he commenced,<br>
<span class="tab">such I made myself on that dim coast: for with thinking I wasted the enterprise, that had been so quick in its commencement.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_Inferno/WqpEAAAAYAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22unwills%20what%20he%20willed%22">Carlyle</a> (1849)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Like one unwilling for the thing he wills,<br>
Whose second thoughts have made his purpose pale,<br>
And everything upon the threshold fail;<br>
So did I with myself obscure that coast<br>
With thinking much -- the enterprise gave o'er<br>
With vehemence I had embraced before.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/comedyofdanteal00dant/page/6/mode/2up?q=%22one+unwilling%22">Bannerman</a> (1850)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>And as with him unwishing what he wish'd,<br>
<span class="tab">Who changes purpose as new thoughts arise,<br>
<span class="tab">So that his first intentions pass away;<br>
It was with me when on that coast obscure;<br>
<span class="tab">For as thought grew, the enterprise was lost,<br>
<span class="tab">Which at the first so quickly I desir'd.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/A_Translation_of_Dante_s_Inferno/dzvcz2MMLLMC?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22him%20unwishing%22">Johnston</a> (1867)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>And as he is, who unwills what he willed,<br>
<span class="tab">And by new thoughts doth his intention change,<br>
<span class="tab">So that from his design he quite withdraws,<br>
Such I became, upon that dark hillside,<br>
<span class="tab">Because, in thinking, I consumed the emprise,<br>
<span class="tab">Which was so very prompt in the beginning.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Divine_Comedy_(Longfellow_1867)/Volume_1/Canto_2#:~:text=And%20as%20he,in%20the%20beginning.">Longfellow</a> (1867)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>And as is he who ceases to will that he willed, and by reason of new thoughts changes purpose, so that he withdraws himself wholly from his beginning, so became I on that dark hillside; so that in my thought I made an end of the enterprise which in its commencement had been so hasty.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/dli.granth.92729/page/18/mode/2up">Butler</a> (1885)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Like unto one who wills not that he would,<br>
<span class="tab">And shifts his purpose with thought's changing tide,<br>
<span class="tab">So that he dare not make commencement good,<br>
Thus acted I on that hill's darkened side;<br>
<span class="tab">In idle thought I wasted the emprise.<br>
<span class="tab">To which so swiftly I first had hied.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/divinecomedyofda00dantrich/page/6/mode/2up?q=%22wills+not+that+he+would%22">Minchin</a> (1885)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>And as is he who unwills what he willed, and because of new thoughts changes his design, so that he quite withdraws from beginning, such I became on that dark hillside: wherefore in my thought I abandoned the enterprise which had been so hasty in the beginning.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.gutenberg.org/files/1995/1995-h/1995-h.htm#cantoI.II:~:text=And%20as%20is%20he%20who%20unwills%20what%20he%20willed%2C%20and%20because%20of%20new%20thoughts%20changes%20his%20design%2C%20so%20that%20he%20quite%20withdraws%20from%20beginning%2C%20such%20I%20became%20on%20that%20dark%20hillside%3A%20wherefore%20in%20my%20thought%20I%20abandoned%20the%20enterprise%20which%20had%20been%20so%20hasty%20in%20the%20beginning.">Norton</a> (1892)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>And as one who wisheth not that which he wished, and for new fancies changeth his resolve, so that he turns him wholly from his undertaking; even in such state was I on that dark slope; for, while I pondered, I brought to naught the enterprise, that was at first so readily embraced.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/comedydantealig00sullgoog/page/n22/mode/2up?q=%22which+he+wished%22">Sullivan</a> (1893)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>And as one is who what he wished unwishes, <br>
<span class="tab">And for new thoughts exchanges his set purpose, <br>
<span class="tab">So that he quite departs from his beginnings, <br>
Such I became upon that gloomy hillside; <br>
<span class="tab">Because in thought the enterprise I wasted <br>
<span class="tab">Which had at the beginning been so eager.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/infernodanteali00grifgoog/page/n20/mode/2up?q=%22wished+unwishes%22">Griffith</a> (1908)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>And as one who unwills what he willed and with new thoughts changes his purpose so that he quite withdraws from what he has begun, such I became on that dark slope; for by thinking of it I brought to naught the enterprise that was so hasty in its beginning.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_Divine_Comedy/7I7_cvKw8xkC?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=unwills">Sinclair</a> (1939)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>And like one who unwills what he willed first<br>
<span class="tab">And new thoughts change the intention that he had,<br>
<span class="tab">So that his resolution is reversed,<br>
So on that dim slope did my purpose fade<br>
<span class="tab">For I with thinking had dulled down the zest<br>
<span class="tab">That at the outset sprang so prompt and glad.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/portabledante00dant/page/10/mode/2up?q=unwills">Binyon</a> (1943)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>As one who unwills what he wills, will stay <br>
<span class="tab">strong purposes with feeble second thoughts<br>
<span class="tab">until he spells all his first zeal away --<br>
so I hung back and balked on that dim coast<br>
<span class="tab">till thinking had worn out my enterprise,<br>
<span class="tab">so stout at starting and so early lost.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/infernoverserend00dantrich/page/36/mode/2up?q=unwills">Ciardi</a> (1954)] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>And like one who unwills what he has willed and with new thoughts changes his resolve, so that he quite gives up the thing he had begun, such did I become on that dark slope, for by thinking on it I rendered null the undertaking that had been so suddenly embarked upon.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/inferno0000dant/page/n25/mode/2up?q=unwills">Singleton</a> (1970)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>As one who unwills what he willed, will change<br>
<span class="tab">his purposes with some new second thought, <br>
<span class="tab">completely quitting what he first had started,<br>
so I did, standing there on that dark slope,<br>
<span class="tab">thinking, ending the beginning of that venture<br>
<span class="tab">I was so quick to take up at the start.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/dantesinferno00dant/page/12/mode/2up?q=unwills">Musa</a> (1971)] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote><span class="tab">And just as he who unwills what he wills<br>
and shifts what he intends to seek new ends<br>
so that he's drawn from what he had begun,<br>
<span class="tab">so was I in the midst of that dark land,<br>
because, with all my thinking, I annulled<br>
the task I had so quickly undertaken.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/lccn_83048678/page/14/mode/2up?q=unwills">Mandelbaum</a> (1980)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>And just like somebody who shilly-shallies,<br>
And thinks again about what he has decided,<br>
So that he gives up everything he has started,<br>
I found I was on that obscure hillside:<br>
By thinking about it I spoiled the undertaking<br>
I had been so quick to enter in the first place.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/divinecomedy0000dant/page/52/mode/2up?q=shilly-shallies">Sisson</a> (1981)] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>And then, like one who unchooses his own choice<br>
<span class="tab">And thinking again undoes what he has started,<br>
<span class="tab">So I became: a nullifying unease<br>
Overcame my soul on that dark slope and voided<br>
<span class="tab">The undertaking I had so quickly embraced.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/infernoofdantene00dant/page/12/mode/2up?q=unchooses">Pinsky</a> (1994), ll. 31-35]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote><span class="tab">And like one who unwills what he just now willed and with new thoughts changes his intent, so that he draws back entirely from beginning:<br>
<span class="tab">so did I become on that dark slope, for, thinking, I gave up the undertaking that I had been so quick to begin.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/divinecomedyofda0001dant_u1l7/page/42/mode/2up?q=unwills">Durling</a> (1996)] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>And I rendered myself, on that dark shore, like one who un-wishes what he wished, and changes his purpose, in new thinking, so that he leaves off what he began, completely, since in thought I consumed action, that had been so ready to begin.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.poetryintranslation.com/PITBR/Italian/DantInf1to7.php#anchor_Toc64090914:~:text=And%20I%20rendered%20myself%2C%20on%20that%20dark%20shore%2C%20like%20one%20who%20un%2Dwishes%20what%20he%20wished%2C%20and%20changes%20his%20purpose%2C%20in%20new%20thinking%2C%20so%20that%20he%20leaves%20off%20what%20he%20began%2C%20completely%2C%20since%20in%20thought%20I%20consumed%20action%2C%20that%20had%20been%20so%20ready%20to%20begin.">Kline</a> (2002)]</blockquote><br>




<blockquote>As one who unwills what he willed,<br>
<span class="tab">and eyes another half-baked project,<br>
<span class="tab">so I bore away from my initial enterprise<br>
and shilly-shallied on that twilit shore,<br>
<span class="tab">while dim thoughts flitted through my cranium<br>
<span class="tab">obscuring what I'd once been eager for.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_Inferno_of_Dante_Alighieri/B8DHyhZK8ZQC?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22one%20who%20unwills%22">Carson</a> (2002)]</blockquote><br>






<blockquote><span class="tab">And so -- as though unwanting every want,<br>
so altering all at every altering thought<br>
now drawing back from everything begun --<br>
<span class="tab">I stood there on the darkened slope, fretting<br>
away from thought to thought the bold intent<br>
that seemed so very urgent at the outset.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/divinecomedy0000dant_l7y1/page/8/mode/2up?q=unwanting">Kirkpatrick</a> (2006)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote><span class="tab">And as one who unwills what he has willed,<br>
changing his intent on second thought<br>
so that he quite gives over what he has begun,<br>
<span class="tab">such a man was I on that dark slope.<br>
With too much thinking I had undone<br>
the enterprise so quick in its inception.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://dante.princeton.edu/cgi-bin/dante/campuscgi/mpb/GetCantoSection.pl?LANG=2&INP_POEM=Inf&INP_SECT=2&INP_START=37&INP_LEN=6">Hollander/Hollander</a> (2007)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Like someone half regretting what once seemed knowledge,<br>
<span class="tab">intention shifted around by fresh ideas,<br>
<span class="tab">Starting to throw all old ones overboard,<br>
I stood on that dark slope, pulled by feelings<br>
<span class="tab">So murky they dissipated whatever I'd thought<br>
<span class="tab">I knew, surrendering what once seemed real.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_Divine_Comedy/WZyBj-s9PfsC?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22half%20regretting%22">Raffel</a> (2010)] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Just so, obeying the unwritten rule<br>
That one who would unsieh that which he wished,<br>
Having thought twice about what he first sought,<br>
Must put fish back into the pool he fished,<br>
So they, set free, may once again be caught,<br>
Just so did I in that now shadowy fold -- <br>
Because, by thinking, I'd consumed the thought<br>
I started with, that I had thought so bold.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/inferno0000dant_y2l4/page/8/mode/2up?q=%22unwritten+rule%22">James</a> (2013)]</blockquote><br>						</span>
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		<title>Martial -- Epigrams [Epigrammata], Book  7, epigram  43 (7.43) (AD 92) [tr. Pott &#038; Wright (1921)]</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The best you can do is grant my demand, Your second-best course to refuse it off-hand; I welcome assent and denial excuse &#8212; But, Cinna, you neither consent nor refuse. [Primum est ut praestes, si quid te, Cinna, rogabo; illud deinde sequens, ut cito, Cinna, neges. Diligo praestantem; no odi, Cinna, negantem: sed tu nec [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The best you can do is grant my demand,<br />
<span class="tab">Your second-best course to refuse it off-hand;<br />
I welcome assent and denial excuse &#8212;<br />
<span class="tab">But, Cinna, you neither consent nor refuse.</p>
<p><em>[Primum est ut praestes, si quid te, Cinna, rogabo;<br />
illud deinde sequens, ut cito, Cinna, neges.<br />
Diligo praestantem; no odi, Cinna, negantem:<br />
sed tu nec praestas nec cito, Cinna, negas.]</em></span></span></p>
<br><b>Martial</b> (AD c.39-c.103) Spanish Roman poet, satirist, epigrammatist [Marcus Valerius Martialis]<br><i>Epigrams [Epigrammata]</i>, Book  7, epigram  43 (7.43) (AD 92) [tr. Pott &#038; Wright (1921)] 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://archive.org/details/martialtwelveboo0000tran/page/210/mode/2up?q=%22best+you+can+do%22" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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<a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Selected_Epigrams_of_Martial/n3lfAAAAMAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22Primum%20est%20ut%20praestes%22&pg=PA169&printsec=frontcover">Source (Latin)</a>. Alternate translations:<br><br>



<blockquote>My iust demands soone graunt or soone deny,<br>
Th' one friendship showes, and th' other curtesie.<br>
But who nor soon doth graunt, nor soone say noe,<br>
Doth not true friendship, nor good manners know.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/martialinenglish00mart/page/24/mode/2up?q=%22my+iust+demands%22">Davison</a> (1602)]</blockquote><br>





<blockquote>The first love, Cinna, is to grant what I<br>
<span class="tab">Request; the second quickly to deny.<br>
I love the one, the other hate not I;<br>
<span class="tab">But thou nor grant'st, nor quickly dost deny.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://quod.lib.umich.edu/e/eebo/A07090.0001.001/1:5.87?rgn=div2;view=fulltext">May</a> (1629), 7.42]</blockquote><br>



<blockquote>The kindest thing of all is to comply;<br>
<span class="tab">The next kind thing is quickly to deny:<br>
I love performance; nor denial hate:<br>
<span class="tab">Your "Shall I, Shall I?" is the cursed state.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Select_Epigrams_of_Martial/guUNAAAAYAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&dq=martial%20epigrams%20hay&pg=PA87&printsec=frontcover&bsq=%22kindest%20thing%22">Hay</a> (1755)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>To grant must doubtless be the primal boon:<br>
<span class="tab">The next, my Cinna, to deny me soon.<br>
I love the former, nor the latter hate:<br>
<span class="tab">But thou not grantest, and deniest late.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_Epigrams_of_M_Val_Martial/vksOAAAAQAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&pg=PA235&printsec=frontcover&bsq=%22to%20deny%20me%20soon%22">Elphinston</a> (1782), Book 5, ep. 53]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>The greatest favour that you can do me, Cinna, if I ask anything of you, is to give it me; the next, Cinna, to refuse it at once. I love one who gives, Cinna; I do not hate one who refuses; but you, Cinna, neither give nor refuse.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_Epigrams_of_Martial/LzXgAAAAMAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22greatest%20favour%20that%20you%20can%20do%20me%22&pg=PA324&printsec=frontcover">Bohn's Classical</a> (1859)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Cinna, grant me my request:<br>
(I warmly hope you'll choose to!)<br>
Or do what I think second best,<br>
<span class="tab">In haste refuse to.<br>
Patrons I esteem, nor hate<br>
The man I can't bamboozle:<br>
But you give naught, yet make me wait<br>
<span class="tab">A slow refusal.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/romanwitepigrams00mart/page/66/mode/2up?q=%22grant+me+my+request%22">Nixon</a> (1911)]</blockquote><br>



<blockquote>The first thing is that you should hand it over if I ask anything of you, Cinna; the next thing after that, Cinna, is that you should refuse quickly. I like a man who hands over; I do not hate, Cinna, a man who refuses; but you neither hand over, nor do you, Cinna, quickly refuse.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Epigrams/w4ZfAAAAMAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22the%20first%20thing%22&pg=PA453&printsec=frontcover">Ker</a> (1919)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>'Tis best to grant me, Cinna, what I crave;<br>
<span class="tab">And next best, Cinna, is refusal straight.<br>
Givers I like: refusal I can brave;<br>
<span class="tab">But you don't give -- you only hesitate!<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.gutenberg.org/files/44640/44640-h/44640-h.htm#:~:text=%27Tis%20best%20to%20grant,give%E2%80%94you%20only%20hesitate!">Duff</a> (1929)]</blockquote><br>


<blockquote>Cinna, the best thing would be if you lent<br>
Me anything I asked for. The next best<br>
<span class="tab">Would be for you to say no then and there.<br>
I like good givers, and I don't resent<br>
A straight refusal of a small request.<br>
<span class="tab">It's ditherers like you that I can't bear.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/epigrams0000mart/page/94/mode/2up?q=cinna">Michie</a> (1972)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Best is that you give me anything I ask, Cinna; next best, Cinna, is that you refuse promptly. I like a man who gives; I don't hate a man who refuses, Cinna. But you, Cinna, neither give nor promptly refuse.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://dokumen.pub/martial-epigrams-books-6-10-2-0674995562-9780674995567.html">Shackleton Bailey</a> (1993)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Cinna, to give me what I ask is best;<br>
next best is to refuse without delay.<br>
I love a giver, don't resent refusers.<br>
<span class="tab">You neither give nor tell me no straightway.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/selectedepigrams0000mart_b6d3/page/58/mode/2up?q=%22ask+is+best%22">McLean</a> (2014)] </blockquote><br>


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		<title>Amiel, Henri-Frédéric -- Journal entry (1856-12-17), Journal Intime (1882) [tr. Ward (1884)]</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The man who insists upon seeing with perfect clearness before he decides, never decides. Accept life, and you must accept regret. &#160; [Qui veut voir parfaitement clair avant de se déterminer ne se détermine jamais. Qui n&#8217;accepte pas le regret n&#8217;accepte pas la vie.] (Source (French))]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The man who insists upon seeing with perfect clearness before he decides, never decides. Accept life, and you must accept regret.<br />
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<em>[Qui veut voir parfaitement clair avant de se déterminer ne se détermine jamais. Qui n&#8217;accepte pas le regret n&#8217;accepte pas la vie.]</em></p>
<br><b>Henri-Frédéric Amiel</b> (1821-1881) Swiss philosopher, poet, critic<br>Journal entry (1856-12-17), <i>Journal Intime</i> (1882) [tr. Ward (1884)] 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Amiel_s_Journal/zqoNAQAAMAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22perfect%20clearness%22" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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(<a href="https://archive.org/details/fragmentsdunjou02amie/page/118/mode/2up?q=%22Qui+veut+voir%22">Source (French)</a>)
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