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		<title>Spenser, Edmund -- The Faerie Queene, Book 6, Canto 3, st. 1 (1589-96)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[True is, that whilome that good poet sayd, The gentle minde by gentle deeds is knowne: For a man by nothing is so well bewrayd, As by his manners. Spender is referencing Chaucer&#8217;s &#8220;Wife of Bath&#8217;s Tale&#8221; in the Canterbury Tales: &#8220;he is gentil that doth gentil dedis.&#8221;]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>True is, that whilome that good poet sayd,<br />
The gentle minde by gentle deeds is knowne:<br />
For a man by nothing is so well bewrayd,<br />
As by his manners.</p>
<br><b>Edmund Spenser</b> (c. 1552–1599) English poet<br><i>The Faerie Queene</i>, Book 6, Canto 3, st. 1 (1589-96) 
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Spender is referencing Chaucer's "Wife of Bath's Tale" in the <em>Canterbury Tales:</em> "he is gentil that doth gentil dedis."

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		<title>Chesterfield (Lord) -- Letter to his son, #298, enclosed maxims (15 Jan 1758)</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2015 12:12:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[An able man shows his Spirit by gentle words and resolute actions. Labeled as letter #297 in the linked source, but #298 in the volume I am using as reference, which does not include the maxims.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>An able man shows his Spirit by gentle words and resolute actions.</p>
<br><b>Lord Chesterfield</b> (1694-1773) English statesman, wit [Philip Dormer Stanhope]<br>Letter to his son, #298, enclosed maxims (15 Jan 1758) 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_Letters_of_the_Earl_of_Chesterfield/j_wkAAAAMAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22able%20man%22" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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Labeled as letter #297 in the linked source, but #298 in the volume I am using as <a href="https://archive.org/details/letterstohisson00ches/page/488/mode/2up?q=%22for+lady+hervey%22">reference</a>, which does not include the maxims.						</span>
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		<title>Keillor, Garrison -- &#8220;The Meaning of Life,&#8221; We Are Still Married (1989)</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Even in a time of elephantine vanity and greed, one never has to look far to see the campfires of gentle people.</p>
<br><b>Garrison Keillor</b> (b. 1942) American entertainer, author<br>&#8220;The Meaning of Life,&#8221; <i>We Are Still Married</i> (1989) 
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		<title>~Proverbs and Sayings -- Latin proverb</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Gentle in manner, strong in deed. [Suaviter in modo, fortirer in re.] Pres. Dwight Eisenhower kept a small wooden sign with this proverb on his desk at the White House.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gentle in manner, strong in deed.</p>
<p><em>[Suaviter in modo, fortirer in re.]</em></p>
<br><b>Proverbs, Sayings, and Adages</b><br>Latin proverb 
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Pres. Dwight Eisenhower kept a small wooden sign with this proverb on his desk at the White House.
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		<title>Roosevelt, Theodore -- Letter (1900-01-26) to Henry L. Sprague</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have always been fond of the West African proverb &#8220;Speak softly and carry a big stick; you will go far.&#8221; The letter to Sprague is is the first known use by Roosevelt of his future catch phrase.  It attained more fame when he used it in a speech at the Minnesota State Fair (1901-09-02) (two [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have always been fond of the West African proverb &#8220;Speak softly and carry a big stick; you will go far.&#8221;</p>
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<br><b>Theodore Roosevelt</b> (1858–1919) American politician, statesman, conservationist, writer, US President (1901–1909)<br>Letter (1900-01-26) to Henry L. Sprague 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://www.loc.gov/resource/mss38299.mss38299-322_0787_1168/?sp=300&q=%22west+african+proverb%22&r=0.305,0.077,0.702,0.419,0" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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The letter to Sprague is is the first known use by Roosevelt of his future catch phrase.  It attained more fame when he used it in a speech at the Minnesota State Fair (1901-09-02) (two versions found):<br><br>

<blockquote>There is a homely adage which runs "Speak softly and carry a big stick; you will go far." If the American nation will speak softly and yet build and keep at a pitch of highest training a thoroughly efficient Navy, the Monroe Doctrine will go far.<br>
[<a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Masterpieces_of_Eloquence/6G8CAAAAYAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&dq=%22blusters,+if+he+lacks+civility%22&pg=PA10896&printsec=frontcover">Speech (1901-09-02)</a>, "A Nation of Pioneers," Minnesota State Fair, Minneapolis]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>A good many of you are probably acquainted with the old proverb "Speak softly and carry a big stick -- you will go far."<br>
[<a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_Quote_Verifier/d6JZryGvfxYC?gbpv=1&bsq=%22old%20proverb%20speak%20softly%22">Minneapolis <i>Tribune</i> (1901-09-03)</a>]</blockquote><br>

Other significant references: <br><br>

<blockquote>Right here let me make as vigorous a plea as I know how in favor of saying nothing that we do not mean, and of acting without hesitation up to whatever we say. A good many of you are probably acquainted with the old proverb, 'Speak softly and carry a big stick -- you will go far.' If a man continually blusters, if he lacks civility, a big stick will not save him from trouble, and neither will speaking softly avail, if back of the softness there does not lie strength, power.<br>
[<a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Respectfully_Quoted/91IFAYFhtOMC?hl=en&gbpv=1&dq=%22Navy,+the+Monroe+Doctrine+will+go+far%22&pg=PA123&printsec=frontcover">Speech (1903-04-02)</a>, Chicago]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>One the main lessons to learn from this war is embodied in the homely proverb: "Speak softly and carry a big stick."<br>
<i>[<a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/America_and_the_World_War/ogs2AAAAMAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22and%20carry%20a%20big%20stick%22">America and the World War</a></i>, ch. 2 "The Belgian Tragedy" (1915)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>The only safe rule [in foreign policy] is to promise little, and faithfully keep to every promise; to "speak softly and carry a big stick."<br>
<i>[<a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/_/rzshAAAAMAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22carry%20a%20big%20stick%22">Theodore Roosevelt: An Autobiography</a></i>, ch. 15 "The Peace of Righteousness" (1913)]</blockquote><br>

More discussion here:<br>
<ul>
	<li><a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_Quote_Verifier/d6JZryGvfxYC?gbpv=1&bsq=%22big%20stick%22">The Quote Verifier</a></li>
	<li><a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Respectfully_Quoted/91IFAYFhtOMC?gbpv=1&bsq=%22speak%20softly%22">Respectfully Quoted</a></li>
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