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		<title>Kerr, Jean -- Essay (1970 ca.), &#8220;Partying Is Such Sweet Sorrow,&#8221; Penny Candy</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[To me having a party is something like having a baby. The fact that you got through the last one alive is not somehow sufficiently reassuring now. This essay appeared in the Ladies Home Journal prior being collected in the book, but I have not been able to determine the issue / date.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To me having a party is something like having a baby. The fact that you got through the last one alive is not somehow sufficiently reassuring now.</p>
<br><b>Jean Kerr</b> (1922–2003) American author and playwright [b. Bridget Jean Collins]<br>Essay (1970 ca.), &#8220;Partying Is Such Sweet Sorrow,&#8221; <i>Penny Candy</i> 
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This essay appeared in the <i>Ladies Home Journal</i> prior being collected in the book, but I have not been able to determine the issue / date.

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		<title>Horace -- Satires [Saturae, Sermones], Book 2, #  8 &#8220;Ut Nasidieni,&#8221; l.  73ff (2.8.73-74) (30 BC) [tr. Matthews (2002)]</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[But like a general, a host displays his genius best under disaster. [Sed convivatoris uti ducis ingenium res Adversae nudare solent, celare secundae.] Balatro speaking somewhat sarcastically to the host, Nasidienus (Rufus), about the misfortunes that are &#8220;ruining&#8221; his dinner party. (Source (Latin)). Other translations: But (General-like) Masters of Feasts reveal That temper by cross [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>But like a general, a host displays<br />
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<p><em>[Sed convivatoris uti ducis ingenium res<br />
Adversae nudare solent, celare secundae.]</em></p>
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<br><b>Horace</b> (65–8 BC) Roman poet, satirist, soldier, politician [Quintus Horatius Flaccus]<br><i>Satires [Saturae, Sermones]</i>, Book 2, #  8 <i>&#8220;Ut Nasidieni,&#8221;</i> l.  73ff (2.8.73-74) (30 BC) [tr. Matthews (2002)] 
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Balatro speaking somewhat sarcastically to the host, Nasidienus (Rufus), about the misfortunes that are "ruining" his dinner party.<br><br>

(<a href="https://www.perseus.tufts.edu/hopper/text?doc=Perseus%3Atext%3A1999.02.0062%3Abook%3D2%3Apoem%3D8%3Acard%3D54#:~:text=sed%20convivatoris%2C%20uti%20ducis%2C%20ingenium%20res%0Aadversae%20nudare%20solent%2C%20celare%20secundae.">Source (Latin)</a>). Other translations:<br><br>

<blockquote>But (General-like) Masters of Feasts reveal<br>
That temper by cross hits, the good conceal.<br>
[tr. "<a href="https://quod.lib.umich.edu/cgi/t/text/text-idx?cc=eebo;c=eebo;idno=a44478.0001.001;node=A44478.0001.001:7;seq=1;rgn=div1;view=text#:~:text=But%20(General%2Dlike,the%20good%20conceal">I. W. Esq</a>"; ed. Brome (1666)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>But as in Captains oft ill chance reveals<br>
The Entertainers Wit, which good conceals.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://quod.lib.umich.edu/cgi/t/text/text-idx?cc=eebo;c=eebo;idno=a44471.0001.001;node=A44471.0001.001:7;seq=1;rgn=div1;view=text#:~:text=But%20as%20in,which%20good%20conceals">Creech</a> (1684)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Good fortune hides, adversity calls forth, <br>
A landlord's genius, and a general's worth.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/satiresepistlesi00hora/page/158/mode/2up?q=%22Good+fortune+hides%22">Francis</a> (1747)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>But then a host's, like a commander's, skill,<br>
Obscured by good success, shines forth in ill.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_Epodes_Satires_and_Epistles_of_Horac/TPgDAAAAQAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22like%20a%20commander%27s%22">Howes</a> (1845)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>But adversity is wont to disclose, prosperity to conceal, the abilities of a host as well as of a general.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/The_works_of_Horace/Second_Book_of_Satires#:~:text=But%20adversity%20is%20wont%20to%20disclose%2C%20prosperity%20to%20conceal%2C%20the%20abilities%20of%20a%20host%20as%20well%20as%20of%20a%20general.">Smart/Buckley</a> (1853)] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>But yet misfortune will bring forth to view the talents of a host as of a general, as will success conceal the same.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/satiresofhoracei00hora/page/128/mode/2up?q=%22fortune+will+bring%22">Millington</a> (1870)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Adversity has the effect of eliciting talents, which in prosperous circumstances would have lain dormant.<br>
[<a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Treasury_of_Thought/09M4AQAAIAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22effect%20of%20eliciting%20talents%22">E.g.</a> (1872)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>But gifts, concealed by sunshine, are displayed<br>
In hosts, as in commanders, by the shade.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/The_Satires,_Epistles_%26_Art_of_Poetry_of_Horace/Sat2-8#:~:text=But%20gifts%2C%20concealed%20by%20sunshine%2C%20are%20displayed%0AIn%20hosts%2C%20as%20in%20commanders%2C%20by%20the%20shade.">Conington</a> (1874)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>But as with a commander, so with a host -- it is rough weather that discovers the genius, fair weather puts it out of sight.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Horace_for_English_Readers/fB8MAAAAIAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22as%20with%20a%20commander%22">Wickham</a> (1903)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>But one who entertains is like a general: mishaps oft reveal his genius, smooth going hides it.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/satiresepistlesa00horauoft/page/244/mode/2up?q=%22one+who+entertains%22">Fairclough</a> (Loeb) (1926)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab">But the host plays a role like the general's:<br>
when things go wrong, his genius comes most into play;<br>
When the going is smooth, you'd never know he had any.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/satiresanndepist0000hora/page/152/mode/2up?q=%22but+the+host+plays%22">Palmer Bovie</a> (1959)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>But a party-giver's talent, like a general's, comes out<br>
in case of trouble, lies hidden when the going's good.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/horacessatiresep0000hora/page/46/mode/2up?q=%22but+a+party-giver%27s%22">Fuchs</a> (1977)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab">But giving a banquet is like fighting a battle:<br>
A general's real talents show when he's losing, not winning in a walk.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/essentialhoraceo0000hora/page/194/mode/2up?q=%22fighting+a+battle%22">Raffel</a> (1983)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>But such adversities reveal,<br>
while prosperities conceal, the true qualities<br>
of a host which are like those of a general.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/completeodessati0000hora/page/310/mode/2up?q=%22such+adversities%22">Alexander</a> (1999)] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>But as with a general so with a host: adverse fortune<br>
has a way of revealing his genius; good fortune obscures it.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/satiresofhoracep00hora/page/72/mode/2up?q=%22as+with+a+general%22">Rudd</a> (2005 ed.)] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>But as with a general, so a host: adversity<br>
Often reveals his genius, success conceals it.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.poetryintranslation.com/PITBR/Latin/HoraceSatiresBkIISatVIII.php#anchor_Toc98155285:~:text=But%20as%20with,success%20conceals%20it.">Kline</a> (2015)]</blockquote><br>


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