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		<title>Bible, Vol. 1. Old Testament -- Book 22b. Sirach (Ecclesiasticus) 28: 3ff (Sir 28:3–5) [tr. CEB (2011)]</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Can people hold on to their anger against others, and then look for healing from the Lord? Can they refuse to have mercy on people like themselves, and then pray about their own sins? If they, who are just flesh, hold on to anger, who will secure pardon for their own sins? [ἄνθρωπος ἀνθρώπῳ συντηρεῖ [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Can people hold on to their anger<br />
against others, and then look for healing from the Lord?<br />
<span class="tab">Can they refuse to have mercy<br />
<span class="tab">on people like themselves,<br />
<span class="tab">and then pray about their own sins?<br />
<span class="tab">If they, who are just flesh,<br />
<span class="tab">hold on to anger,<br />
<span class="tab">who will secure pardon<br />
<span class="tab">for their own sins?</p>
<p>[ἄνθρωπος ἀνθρώπῳ συντηρεῖ ὀργήν,<br />
<span class="tab">καὶ παρὰ κυρίου ζητεῖ ἴασιν;<br />
ἐπ᾽ ἄνθρωπον ὅμοιον αὐτῷ οὐκ ἔχει ἔλεος,<br />
<span class="tab">   καὶ περὶ τῶν ἁμαρτιῶν αὐτοῦ δεῖται;<br />
αὐτὸς σὰρξ ὢν διατηρεῖ μῆνιν,<br />
<span class="tab">τίς ἐξιλάσεται τὰς ἁμαρτίας αὐτοῦ;]</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></p>
<br><b>The Bible (The Old Testament)</b> (14th - 2nd C BC) Judeo-Christian sacred scripture [Tanakh, Hebrew Bible], incl. the Apocrypha (Deuterocanonicals) <br>Book 22b. <i>Sirach (Ecclesiasticus)</i> 28: 3ff (Sir 28:3–5) [tr. CEB (2011)] 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Sirach%2028%3A3-5&version=CEB" target="_blank">Source</a>)
										<br><br><span class="cite">
						

More on the history and acceptance of this Apocryphal book <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Book_of_Sirach">here</a> and <a href="https://archive.org/details/thejerusalembible1966/page/1034/mode/2up">here</a>.<br><br>

(<a href="https://tips.translation.bible/tip_verse/sir-283/">Source (Greek)</a>). Alternate translations:<br><br>

<blockquote><span class="tab">One man beareth hatred against another, and doth he seek pardon from the Lord?<br>
<span class="tab">He sheweth no mercy to a man, which is like himself: and doth he ask forgiveness of his own sins?<br>
<span class="tab">If he that is but flesh nourish hatred, who will intreat for pardon of his sins?<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Ecclesiasticus-Chapter-28/#3">KJV</a> (1611)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote><span class="tab">Man to man reserveth anger, and doth he seek remedy of God?<br>
<span class="tab">He hath no mercy on a man like himself, and doth he entreat for his own sins?<br>
<span class="tab">He that is but flesh, nourisheth anger, and doth he ask forgiveness of God? who shall obtain pardon for his sins?<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Sirach%2028%3A3-5&version=DRA">DRA</a> (1899)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>If a man nurses anger against another, <br>
<span class="tab">can he then demand compassion from the Lord?<br>
Showing no pity for a man like himself, <br>
<span class="tab">can he then plead for his own sins?<br>
Mere creature of flesh, he cherishes resentment; <br>
<span class="tab">who will forgive him his sins?<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.seraphim.my/bible/jb/JB-OT28%20SIRACH%20(GK).htm#:~:text=If%20a%20man%20nurses,forgive%20him%20his%20sins%3F">JB</a> (1966)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>If anyone nurses anger against another, <br>
<span class="tab">can one then demand compassion from the Lord?<br>
Showing no pity for someone like oneself, <br>
<span class="tab">can one then plead for one's own sins?<br>
Mere creature of flesh, yet cherishing resentment!<br>
<span class="tab">-- who will forgive one for sinning?<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.bibliacatolica.com.br/en/new-jerusalem-bible/ecclesiasticus/28/#:~:text=If%20anyone%20nurses,one%20for%20sinning%3F">NJB</a> (1985)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>You cannot expect the Lord to pardon you while you are holding a grudge against someone else. You yourself are a sinner, and if you won't forgive another person, you have no right to pray that the Lord will forgive your sins.  If you cannot get rid of your anger, you have no hope of forgiveness — you are only a human being.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Sirach%2028%3A3-5&version=GNT">GNT</a> (1992 ed.)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Does anyone harbor anger against another<br>
<span class="tab">and expect healing from the Lord?<br>
If people have no mercy toward those like themselves,<br>
<span class="tab">can they then seek pardon for their own sins?<br>
If mere mortals harbor wrath,<br>
<span class="tab">who will make an atoning sacrifice for their sins?<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Sirach%2028%3A3-5&version=NRSVUE">NRSV</a> (2021 ed.)]</blockquote><br>						</span>
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		<title>Marcus Aurelius -- Meditations [To Himself; Τὰ εἰς ἑαυτόν], Book  6, ch. 33 (8.33) (AD 161-180) [tr. Staniforth (1964)]</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Accept modestly; surrender gracefully. [Ἄτύφως μὲν λαβεῖν, εὐλύτως δὲ ἀφεῖναι.] (Source (Greek)). Other translations: Receive temporal blessings without ostentation, when they are sent and thou shalt be able to part with them with all readiness and facility when they are taken from thee again. [tr. Casaubon (1634), 8.31] As to the Case of good Fortune; [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Accept modestly; surrender gracefully.</p>
<p>[Ἄτύφως μὲν λαβεῖν, εὐλύτως δὲ ἀφεῖναι.]</p>
<br><b>Marcus Aurelius</b> (AD 121–180) Roman emperor (161–180), Stoic philosopher<br><i>Meditations [To Himself; Τὰ εἰς ἑαυτόν]</i>, Book  6, ch. 33 (8.33) (AD 161-180) [tr. Staniforth (1964)] 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://archive.org/details/meditations0000marc_g6h3/page/128/mode/2up?q=%22accept+modestly%22" target="_blank">Source</a>)
										<br><br><span class="cite">
						

(<a href="http://data.perseus.org/citations/urn:cts:greekLit:tlg0562.tlg001.perseus-grc1:8.33.1">Source (Greek)</a>). Other translations:<br><br>

<blockquote>Receive temporal blessings without ostentation, when they are sent and thou shalt be able to part with them with all readiness and facility when they are taken from thee again.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Marcus_Aurelius_Antoninus_-_His_Meditations_concerning_himselfe#THE_EIGHTH_BOOK:~:text=Receive%20temporal%20blessings%20without%20ostentation%2C%20when%20they%20are%20sent%20and%20thou%20shalt%20be%20able%20to%20part%20with%20them%20with%20all%20readiness%20and%20facility%20when%20they%20are%20taken%20from%20thee%20again.">Casaubon</a> (1634), 8.31]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>As to the Case of good Fortune; Take it without Pride, and Resign without Reluctance.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/The_Emperor_Marcus_Antoninus:_His_Conversation_with_Himself/Book_8#:~:text=As%20to%20the%20Case%20of%20good%20Fortune%C2%A0%3B%20Take%20it%20without%20Pride%2C%20and%20Resign%20without%20Reluctance.">Collier</a> (1701)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Receive the gifts of fortune, without pride; and part with them, without reluctance.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/457829267955022580052/page/100/mode/2up?q=%22receive+the+gifts%22">Hutcheson/Moor</a> (1742); <a href="https://gutenberg.org/cache/epub/55317/pg55317-images.html#:~:text=Receive%20the%20gifts%20of%20fortune%20without%20pride%3B%20and%20part%20with%20them%20without%20reluctance.">Hutcheson/Chrystal</a> (1902)] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Receive any good fortune which falls to your lot, without being too much elated; and resign it, if necessary, without being dejected.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_meditations_of_Marcus_Aurelius_Anton/3uQIAAAAQAAJ?gbpv=1&bsq=%22receive%20any%20good%20fortune%22">Graves</a> (1792), 8.32]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Receive [wealth or prosperity] without arrogance; and be ready to let it go.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/The_Thoughts_of_the_Emperor_Marcus_Aurelius_Antoninus/Book_VIII#:~:text=Receive%20%5Bwealth%20or%20prosperity%5D%20without%20arrogance%3B%20and%20be%20ready%20to%20let%20it%20go.">Long</a> (1862)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>As to the case of good fortune, take it without pride, and resign it without reluctance.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_Meditations_of_Marcus_Aurelius/5qcAEZZibB0C?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%2233%20as%20to%22">Collier/Zimmern</a> (1887)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Modestly take, cheerfully resign.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Marcus_Aurelius_Antoninus_to_Himself/0X2BxfXnXKcC?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22modestly%20take%22">Rendall</a> (1898)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Accept without arrogance, surrender without reluctance.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Marcus_Aurelius_(Haines_1916)/Book_8#:~:text=Accept%20without%20arrogance%2C%20surrender%20without%20reluctance.">Haines</a> (Loeb) (1916)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Accept without pride, relinquish without a struggle.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/The_Meditations_of_the_Emperor_Marcus_Antoninus/Book_8#:~:text=Accept%20without%20pride%2C%20relinquish%20without%20a%20struggle.">Farquharson</a> (1944)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Accept without arrogance, relinquish without demur.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Meditations/VVsmU-4YwFsC?gbpv=1&bsq=%228.33%22">Hard</a> (1997 ed.)] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>To accept it without arrogance, to let it go with indifference.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/meditation-GeorgeHays/page/n197/mode/2up?q=%2233+to+accept%22">Hays</a> (2003)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Accept humbly; let go easily.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/marcus-aurelius-emperor-of-rome-martin-hammond-diskin-clay-meditations/page/77/mode/2up?q=%22accept+humbly%22">Hammond</a> (2006)] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Accept without arrogance, relinquish without a struggle.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/meditations0000marc_m5f0/page/74/mode/2up?q=%22accept+without%22">Hard</a> (2011 ed.)] </blockquote><br>						</span>
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		<title>Euripides -- Medea [Μήδεια], l.  520ff (431 BC) [tr. Vellacott (1963)]</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[CHORUS: The fiercest anger of all, the most incurable is that which rages in the place of dearest love. [ΚΥΚΛΩΨ: Δεινή τις ὀργὴ καὶ δυσίατος πέλει, ὅταν φίλοι φίλοισι συμβάλωσ᾽ ἔριν.] Of the estrangement Jason and Medea. Some translations say this line is given by the chorus leader, not the chorus as a whole. (Source [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="hangingindent">CHORUS: The fiercest anger of all, the most incurable<br />
is that which rages in the place of dearest love.</p>
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<p class="hangingindent">[ΚΥΚΛΩΨ: Δεινή τις ὀργὴ καὶ δυσίατος πέλει,<br />
ὅταν φίλοι φίλοισι συμβάλωσ᾽ ἔριν.]</p>
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<br><b>Euripides</b> (485?-406? BC) Greek tragic dramatist<br><i>Medea</i> [Μήδεια], l.  520ff (431 BC) [tr. Vellacott (1963)] 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://archive.org/details/medeaotherplays0000euri/page/32/mode/2up?q=%22fiercest+anger%22" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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Of the estrangement Jason and Medea. Some translations say this line is given by the chorus leader, not the chorus as a whole.<br><br>

(<a href="https://www.perseus.tufts.edu/hopper/text?doc=Perseus%3Atext%3A1999.01.0113%3Acard%3D492#:~:text=%CE%B4%CE%B5%CE%B9%CE%BD%CE%AE%20%CF%84%CE%B9%CF%82%20%E1%BD%80%CF%81%CE%B3%E1%BD%B4%20%CE%BA%CE%B1%E1%BD%B6%20%CE%B4%CF%85%CF%83%CE%AF%CE%B1%CF%84%CE%BF%CF%82%20%CF%80%CE%AD%CE%BB%CE%B5%CE%B9%2C%0A%E1%BD%85%CF%84%CE%B1%CE%BD%20%CF%86%CE%AF%CE%BB%CE%BF%CE%B9%20%CF%86%CE%AF%CE%BB%CE%BF%CE%B9%CF%83%CE%B9%20%CF%83%CF%85%CE%BC%CE%B2%CE%AC%CE%BB%CF%89%CF%83%E1%BE%BD%20%E1%BC%94%CF%81%CE%B9%CE%BD.">Source (Greek)</a>). Other translations: <br><br>

<blockquote>How sharp their wrath, how hard to be appeas'd<br>
When friends with friends begin the cruel strife.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/nineteentragedi01wodhgoog/page/272/mode/2up?q=%22How+sharp+their+wrath%22">Wodhull</a> (1782)] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>When friends with friends at variance kindle strife,<br>
Fierce is their anger and immedicable.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_Bacch%C3%A6_Ion_Alcestis_Medea_Hippolytu/L8tCAQAAMAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&pg=PA188&printsec=frontcover">Potter</a> (1814)]  </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Terrible is that anger, and to assuage<br>
Most difficult, when friends with friends join battle.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Medea_(Webster_1868)#:~:text=Terrible%20is%20that%20anger%2C%20and%20to%20assuage%0AMost%20difficult%2C%20when%20friends%20with%20friends%20join%20battle.">Webster</a> (1868)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>There is a something terrible and past all cure, when quarrels arise 'twixt those who are near and dear.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/The_Plays_of_Euripides_(Coleridge)/Medea#:~:text=There%20is%20a%20something%20terrible%20and%20past%20all%20cure%2C%20when%20quarrels%20arise%20%27twixt%20those%20who%20are%20near%20and%20dear.">Coleridge</a> (1891)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Dreadful is that anger and irremediable, when friends with friends kindle strife.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.gutenberg.org/cache/epub/15081/pg15081-images.html#MEDEA:~:text=Dreadful%20is%20that%20anger%20and%20irremediable%2C%20when%20friends%20with%20friends%20kindle%20strife.">Buckley</a> (1892)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Awful is wrath, and past all balm of healing,<br>
When they that once loved clash in feud of hate.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Tragedies_of_Euripides_(Way)/Medea#:~:text=Awful%20is%20wrath,feud%20of%20hate.">Way</a> (Loeb) (1894)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Dire and beyond all healing is the hate<br>
When hearts that loved are turned to enmity.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.gutenberg.org/cache/epub/35451/pg35451-images.html#:~:text=Dire%20and%20beyond%20all%20healing%20is%20the%20hate%0AWhen%20hearts%20that%20loved%20are%20turned%20to%20enmity.">Murray</a> (1906)] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>It is a strange form of anger, difficult to cure, when two friends turn upon each other in hatred.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/euripides-medea-warner.ocr/page/74/mode/2up?q=%22strange+form%22">Warner</a> (1944)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>A terrible thing is temper and knows no cure <br>
When dear ones wrangle and fall to fighting each other.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/euripides-medea-podlecki_20220818/page/35/mode/2up?q=%22terrible+thing+is%22">Podlecki</a> (1989)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Terrible and hard to heal is the wrath that comes when kin join in conflict with kin.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/euripides00euri_0/page/340/mode/2up">Kovacs</a> (Loeb) (1994)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Terrible is the anger and almost beyond cure, when strife severs those whom love once joined.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/medeaotherplays0000euri_d3q9/page/64/mode/2up?q=%22terrible+is+the+anger%22">Davie</a> (1996)] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Friend against friend!  An anger most implacable!<br>
[tr. <a href="https://bacchicstage.wpcomstaging.com/euripides/medea/#:~:text=Friend%20against%20friend!%C2%A0%20An%20anger%20most%20implacable!">Theodoridis</a> (2004)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Anger is frightening and hard to remedy<br>
when loved ones join in strife with loved ones. <br>
[tr. <a href="https://diotima-doctafemina.org/translations/greek/euripides-medea/#:~:text=Anger%20is%20frightening%20and%20hard%20to%20remedy520%0Awhen%20loved%20ones%20join%20in%20strife%20with%20loved%20ones.%C2%A0">Luschnig</a> (2007)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>When members of a family fight like this,   <br>
rage pushes them beyond all compromise.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://johnstoniatexts.x10host.com/euripides/medeahtml.html#:~:text=When%20members%20of%20a%20family%20fight%20like%20this%2C%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%20%5B520%5D%0Arage%20pushes%20them%20beyond%20all%20compromise.">Johnston</a> (2008)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>It is a <em>deinē</em> anger and past all cure, whenever <em>philoi</em> fall to strife <em>[eris]</em> with <em>philoi</em>.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://chs.harvard.edu/primary-source/euripides-medea/#:~:text=It%20is%20a%20dein%C4%93%20anger%20and%20past%20all%20cure%2C%20whenever%20philoi%20fall%20to%20strife%20%5Beris%5D%20with%20philoi.">Coleridge / Ceragioli / Nagy / Hour25</a>]</blockquote><br>
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		<title>Euripides -- Medea [Μήδεια], l.  119ff (431 BC) [tr. Podlecki (1989)]</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[NURSE: Terrible is the temperament of royalty, Who are rarely controlled, always imperious; It is hard for them to give up their wrath. To get used to living like everybody else Is better. [ΤΡΟΦΌΣ: δεινὰ τυράννων λήματα καί πως ὀλίγ᾽ ἀρχόμενοι, πολλὰ κρατοῦντες χαλεπῶς ὀργὰς μεταβάλλουσιν. τὸ γὰρ εἰθίσθαι ζῆν ἐπ᾽ ἴσοισιν κρεῖσσον.] (Source (Greek)). [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="hangingindent">NURSE: Terrible is the temperament of royalty,<br />
Who are rarely controlled, always imperious;<br />
It is hard for them to give up their wrath.<br />
To get used to living like everybody else<br />
Is better.</p>
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<p class="hangingindent">[ΤΡΟΦΌΣ: δεινὰ τυράννων λήματα καί πως<br />
ὀλίγ᾽ ἀρχόμενοι, πολλὰ κρατοῦντες<br />
χαλεπῶς ὀργὰς μεταβάλλουσιν.<br />
τὸ γὰρ εἰθίσθαι ζῆν ἐπ᾽ ἴσοισιν<br />
κρεῖσσον.] </p>
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<br><b>Euripides</b> (485?-406? BC) Greek tragic dramatist<br><i>Medea</i> [Μήδεια], l.  119ff (431 BC) [tr. Podlecki (1989)] 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://archive.org/details/euripides-medea-podlecki_20220818/page/19/mode/2up?q=%22temperament+of+royalty%22" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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(<a href="https://www.perseus.tufts.edu/hopper/text?doc=Perseus%3Atext%3A1999.01.0113%3Acard%3D96#:~:text=%CE%B4%CE%B5%CE%B9%CE%BD%E1%BD%B0%20%CF%84%CF%85%CF%81%CE%AC%CE%BD%CE%BD%CF%89%CE%BD%20%CE%BB%CE%AE%CE%BC%CE%B1%CF%84%CE%B1,%E1%BC%90%CF%80%E1%BE%BD%20%E1%BC%B4%CF%83%CE%BF%CE%B9%CF%83%CE%B9%CE%BD%0A%CE%BA%CF%81%CE%B5%E1%BF%96%CF%83%CF%83%CE%BF%CE%BD">Source (Greek)</a>). Other translations: <br><br>

<blockquote><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab">For the souls <br>
Of Kings are prone to cruelty, so seldom <br>
Subdued, and over others wont to rule,<br>
That it is difficult for such to change <br>
Their angry purpose. Happier I esteem <br>
The lot of those who still are wont to live <br>
Among their equals.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/nineteentragedi01wodhgoog/page/254/mode/2up?q=%22for+the+souls%22">Wodhull</a> (1782)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Kings have a fiery quality of soul,<br>
Accustom'd to command, if once they feel<br>
control, though small, their anger blazes out<br>
Not easily extinguish'd: hence I deem<br>
An equal mediocrity of life<br>
More to be wish'd.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_Bacch%C3%A6_Ion_Alcestis_Medea_Hippolytu/L8tCAQAAMAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22fiery%20quality%22">Potter</a> (1814)] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Dread are the humours of princes: as wont<br>
To be ruled in few things and in many to lord,<br>
It is hard to them to turn from their wrath.<br>
But to lead one's life in the level ways<br>
Is best.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Medea_(Webster_1868)#:~:text=Dread%20are%20the%20humours%20of%20princes%3A%20as%20wont%0ATo%20be%20ruled%20in%20few%20things%20and%20in%20many%20to%20lord%2C%0AIt%20is%20hard%20to%20them%20to%20turn%20from%20their%20wrath.%0ABut%20to%20lead%20one%27s%20life%20in%20the%20level%20ways%0AIs%20best.">Webster</a> (1868)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Strange are the tempers of princes, and maybe because they seldom have to obey, and mostly lord it over others, change they their moods with difficulty. 'Tis better then to have been trained to live on equal terms.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/The_Plays_of_Euripides_(Coleridge)/Medea#:~:text=Strange%20are%20the%20tempers%20of%20princes%2C%20and%20maybe%20because%20they%20seldom%20have%20to%20obey%2C%20and%20mostly%20lord%20it%20over%20others%2C%20change%20they%20their%20moods%20with%20difficulty.%20%27Tis%20better%20then%20to%20have%20been%20trained%20to%20live%20on%20equal%20terms.">Coleridge</a> (1891)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Dreadful are the dispositions of tyrants, and somehow in few things controlled, in most absolute, they with difficulty lay aside their passion. The being accustomed then to live in mediocrity of life is the better.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.gutenberg.org/cache/epub/15081/pg15081-images.html#MEDEA:~:text=Dreadful%20are%20the%20dispositions%20of%20tyrants%2C%20and%20somehow%20in%20few%20things%20controlled%2C%20in%20most%20absolute%2C%20they%20with%20difficulty%20lay%20aside%20their%20passion.%20The%20being%20accustomed%20then%5B7%5D%20to%20live%20in%20mediocrity%20of%20life%20is%20the%20better">Buckley</a> (1892)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Ah princes -- how fearful their moods are! --<br>
Long ruling, unschooled to obey, --<br>
Unforgiving, unsleeping their feuds are.<br>
Better life's level way.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Tragedies_of_Euripides_(Way)/Medea#:~:text=Ah%20princes%E2%80%94how,life%27s%20level%20way.">Way</a> (Loeb) (1894)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Rude are the wills of princes: yea,<br>
<span class="tab">Prevailing alway, seldom crossed,<br>
<span class="tab">On fitful winds their moods are tossed:<br>
'Tis best men tread the equal way.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.gutenberg.org/cache/epub/35451/pg35451-images.html#:~:text=Rude%20are%20the%20wills%20of%20princes%3A%20yea%2C%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20Prevailing%20alway%2C%20seldom%20crossed%2C%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20On%20fitful%20winds%20their%20moods%20are%20tossed%3A%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%27Tis%20best%20men%20tread%20the%20equal%20way.">Murray</a> (1906)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Great people’s tempers are terrible, always <br>
Having their own way, seldom checked, <br>
Dangerous they shift from mood to mood. <br>
How much better to have been accustomed <br>
To live on equal terms with one’s neighbors.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/euripides-medea-warner.ocr/page/62/mode/2up?q=%22Great+people%E2%80%99s+tempers%22">Warner</a> (1944)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab">Oh, it's a bad thing<br>
<span class="tab">To be born of high race, and brought up wilful and powerful in a great house, unruled <br>
<span class="tab">And ruling many: for then if misfortune comes it is unendurable, it drives you mad. I say that poor people<br>
<span class="tab">Are happier: the little commoners and humble people, the poor in spirit.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/medeafreelyadapt0000robi/page/12/mode/2up?q=%22to+be+born+of%22">Jeffers</a> (1946)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab">The mind of a queen<br>
Is a thing to fear. A queen is used<br>
To giving commands, not obeying them;<br>
And her rage once roused is hard to appease.<br>
To have learnt to live on the common level<br>
Is better.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/medeaotherplays0000euri/page/20/mode/2up?q=%22the+mind+of+a+queen%22">Vellacott</a> (1963)] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>The minds of royalty are dangerous: since they often command and seldom obey, they are subject to violent changes of mood. For it is better to be accustomed to live on terms of equality.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.perseus.tufts.edu/hopper/text?doc=Perseus%3Atext%3A1999.01.0114%3Acard%3D96#:~:text=The%20minds%20of%20royalty%20are%20dangerous%3A%20%5B120%5D%20since%20they%20often%20command%20and%20seldom%20obey%2C%20they%20are%20subject%20to%20violent%20changes%20of%20mood.%20For%20it%20is%20better%20to%20be%20accustomed%20to%20live%20on%20terms%20of%20equality.">Kovacs</a> (1994)] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>They have frightening natures, those of royal blood; because, I imagine, they’re seldom overruled and generally have their way, they do not easily forget a grudge. Better to have formed the habit of living on equal terms with your neighbours.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/medeaotherplays0000euri_d3q9/page/54/mode/2up?q=%22they+have+frightening+natures%22">Davie</a> (1996)] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote><span class="tab">How afraid I am of these royal rages!  It’s so hard for such rages to subside.<br>
<span class="tab">Kings and queens have always been spoiled by power.  They’re not used to taking orders.  No, they’d much rather give them!<br>
<span class="tab">Kings and Queens only do what they want and forget about everyone else!<br>
<span class="tab">Oh, how much better it is to live a balanced life: to be an equal among equals.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://bacchicstage.wpcomstaging.com/euripides/medea/#:~:text=How%20afraid%20I,equal%20among%20equals.">Theodoridis</a> (2004)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Tyrants’ tempers are insufferable: <br>
they are seldom under control, their power is far-reaching.<br>
It is hard for them to swallow their rages. <br>
To get used to living on terms of equality <br>
is better.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://diotima-doctafemina.org/translations/greek/euripides-medea/#:~:text=Tyrants%E2%80%99%20tempers%20are%20insufferable%3A%C2%A0%0Athey%20are%20seldom%20under%20control%2C%20their%20power%20is%20far%2Dreaching.120%0AIt%20is%20hard%20for%20them%20to%20swallow%20their%20rages.%C2%A0%0ATo%20get%20used%20to%20living%20on%20terms%20of%20equality%C2%A0%0Ais%20better.">Luschnig</a> (2007)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>The pride of rulers is something to fear --<br>
they often order men, but seldom listen,   <br>
and when their tempers change it’s hard to bear.<br>
It’s better to get used to living life<br>
as an equal common person.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://johnstoniatexts.x10host.com/euripides/medeahtml.html#:~:text=The%20pride%20of%20rulers%20is%20something%20to%20fear%E2%80%94%0Athey%20often%20order%20men%2C%20but%20seldom%20listen%2C%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%5B120%5D%0Aand%20when%20their%20tempers%20change%20it%E2%80%99s%20hard%20to%20bear.%0AIt%E2%80%99s%20better%20to%20get%20used%20to%20living%20life%0Aas%20an%20equal%20common%20person.">Johnston</a> (2008)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>The temperaments of royalty are fearsome;<br>
because they're almost unrestrained<br>
and are so powerful, it is rare<br>
for them to overcome their rage.<br>
To be accustomed to live in equality<br>
is best.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Euripides_Medea/kNBUEAAAQBAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22the%20temperaments%20of%20royalty%22">Ewans</a> (2022)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Terrible / wonderful <i>[deina]</i> are the tempers of <i>turannoi;</i> maybe because they seldom have to obey, and mostly lord it over others, they change their moods with difficulty. It is better then to have been trained to live in equality. <br>
[tr. <a href="https://chs.harvard.edu/primary-source/euripides-medea/#:~:text=Terrible%20/%20wonderful%20%5Bdeina%5D%20are%20the%20tempers%20of%20turannoi%3B%20%7C120%20maybe%20because%20they%20seldom%20have%20to%20obey%2C%20and%20mostly%20lord%20it%20over%20others%2C%20they%20change%20their%20moods%20with%20difficulty.%20It%20is%20better%20then%20to%20have%20been%20trained%20to%20live%20in%20equality.">Coleridge / Ceragioli / Nagy / Hour25</a>]</blockquote><br>						</span>
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		<title>Billings, Josh -- Josh Billings&#8217; Farmer&#8217;s Allminax, 1870-06 (1870 ed.)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Old dorgs nuss their grudges, but yung purps fite, and then frolick. [Old dogs nurse their grudges, but young pups fight and then frolic.] This aphorism shows up again in Everybody&#8217;s Friend, Or; Josh Billing&#8217;s Encyclopedia and Proverbial Philosophy of Wit and Humor, ch. 156 &#8220;Affurisms: Embers on the Harth&#8221; (1874), with slight spelling changes: [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Old dorgs nuss their grudges, but yung purps fite, and then frolick.</p>
<p>[Old dogs nurse their grudges, but young pups fight and then frolic.]</p>
<br><b>Josh Billings</b> (1818–1885) American humorist, aphorist [pseud. of Henry Wheeler Shaw]<br><i>Josh Billings&#8217; Farmer&#8217;s Allminax</i>, 1870-06 (1870 ed.) 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://gutenberg.org/cache/epub/40191/pg40191-images.html#:~:text=chuck%20him%20in-,yure%20basket.,-JULY%20MONOGRAPH." target="_blank">Source</a>)
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This aphorism <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Everybody_s_Friend_Or_Josh_Billing_s_Enc/7rA8AAAAYAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=yung%20pupps">shows up again</a> in <i>Everybody's Friend, Or; Josh Billing's Encyclopedia and Proverbial Philosophy of Wit and Humor</i>, ch. 156 "Affurisms: Embers on the Harth" (1874), with slight spelling changes:<br><br>

<blockquote>Old dorgs nuss their grudges, but yung pupps fight and then frolik.<br>
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		<title>Addison, Joseph -- Cato, Act 2, sc. 5, l. 136ff (1713)</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="hangingindent">SYPHAX: Young men soon give and soon forget affronts;<br />
Old age is slow in both.</p>
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<br><b>Joseph Addison</b> (1672–1719) English essayist, poet, statesman<br><i>Cato</i>, Act 2, sc. 5, l. 136ff (1713) 
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		<title>Franklin, Benjamin -- Poor Richard  (1747 ed.)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Write Injuries in Dust, Benefits in Marble. As with so much else of Franklin&#8217;s, this phrase is not without earlier forms, e.g.: Thomas More, History of King Richard III (1513): For men use, if they have an evil turn, to write it in marble; and whosoever does us a good turn, we write it in [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<br><b>Benjamin Franklin</b> (1706–1790) American statesman, scientist, philosopher, aphorist<br><i>Poor Richard </i> (1747 ed.) 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://founders.archives.gov/documents/Franklin/01-03-02-0045#:~:text=Write%20Injuries%20in%20Dust%2C%20Benefits%20in%20Marble." target="_blank">Source</a>)
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As with so much else of Franklin's, this phrase is not without earlier forms, e.g.: <a href="http://medieval.ucdavis.edu/YORK.DURHAM/Richard.III.html#:~:text=For%20men%20use%2C%20if%20they%20have%20an%20evil%20turn%2C%20to%20write%20it%20in%20marble%3B%20and%20whosoever%20does%20us%20a%20good%20turn%2C%20we%20write%20it%20in%20dust%2C">Thomas More</a>, <i>History of King Richard III</i> (1513):<br><br>

<blockquote>For men use, if they have an evil turn, to write it in marble; and whosoever does us a good turn, we write it in dust.</blockquote><br>

Or see <a href="https://shakespeare.folger.edu/shakespeares-works/henry-viii/entire-play/#:~:text=Men%E2%80%99s%20evil%20manners%20live%20in%20brass%3B%20their%20virtues%0A%C2%A0We%20write%20in%20water.">Shakespeare</a>, <i>Henry VIII</i> 4.2.45-46 (1613):<br><br>

<blockquote>Men's evil manners live in brass, their virtues<br>
We write in water.</blockquote><br>

Variants include "but kindnesses in marble" or "but kindness in marble."<br><br>

This also shows up as a <a href="https://www.proverbes-francais.fr/citations-injure/#:~:text=%C3%89crivez%20les%20injures%20sur%20le%20sable%2C%20gravez%20les%20bienfaits%20sur%20le%20marbre.">French saying</a> in various forms: <br><br>

<ul>
	<li><em>"Ecrivez les injures sur le sable, mais les bienfaits sur le marbre."</em></li>
	<li><em>"Écrivez les injures sur le sable, gravez les bienfaits sur le marbre."</em></li>
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		<title>Tolkien, J.R.R. -- The Lord of the Rings, Vol. 1: The Fellowship of the Ring, Book 2, ch.  4 &#8220;A Journey in the Dark&#8221; (1954)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8216;Those were happier days, when there was still close friendship at times between folk of different races, even between Dwarves and Elves.&#8221; &#8220;It was not the fault of the Dwarves that the friendship waned,&#8221; said Gimli. &#8220;I have not heard that it was the fault of the Elves,&#8221; said Legolas. &#8220;I have heard both,&#8221; said [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="tab">&#8216;Those were happier days, when there was still close friendship at times between folk of different races, even between Dwarves and Elves.&#8221;<br />
<span class="tab">&#8220;It was not the fault of the Dwarves that the friendship waned,&#8221; said Gimli.<br />
<span class="tab">&#8220;I have not heard that it was the fault of the Elves,&#8221; said Legolas.<br />
<span class="tab">&#8220;I have heard both,&#8221; said Gandalf; &#8220;and I will not give judgement now.&#8221;</p>
<br><b>J.R.R. Tolkien</b> (1892–1973) English writer, fabulist, philologist, academic [John Ronald Reuel Tolkien]<br><i>The Lord of the Rings, Vol. 1: The Fellowship of the Ring</i>, Book 2, ch.  4 &#8220;A Journey in the Dark&#8221; (1954) 
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		<title>LaBelle, Patti -- Patti&#8217;s Pearls: Lessons in Living (2001) [with Laura Randolph Lancaster]</title>
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<br><b>Patti LaBelle</b> (b. 1944) American singer, author, actress [stage name for Patricia Louise Holt-Edwards]<br><i>Patti&#8217;s Pearls: Lessons in Living</i> (2001) [with Laura Randolph Lancaster] 
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		<title>Keillor, Garrison -- &#8220;Could I Have Been Any More Inept?&#8221; Salon.com (26 Oct 1999)</title>
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<br><b>Garrison Keillor</b> (b. 1942) American entertainer, author<br>&#8220;Could I Have Been Any More Inept?&#8221; Salon.com (26 Oct 1999) 
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		<title>Buddha -- (Attributed)</title>
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<br><b>Buddha</b> (c.563–483 BC) Indian mystic, philosopher [b. Siddharta Gautama]<br>(Attributed) 
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		<title>Bronte, Charlotte -- Jane Eyre, ch. 6 [Helen Burns] (1847)</title>
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<br><b>Charlotte Brontë</b> (1816–1855) British novelist [pseud. Currer Bell]<br><i>Jane Eyre</i>, ch. 6 [Helen Burns] (1847) 
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		<title>Roosevelt, Eleanor -- Column (1944-01-07), &#8220;My Day&#8221;</title>
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<br><b>Eleanor Roosevelt</b> (1884–1962) First Lady of the US (1933–1945), politician, diplomat, activist<br>Column (1944-01-07), &#8220;My Day&#8221; 
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		<title>~Other -- William H. Walton</title>
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