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		<title>Le Guin, Ursula K. -- Story (1995-11), &#8220;Ether, OR,&#8221; Isaac Asimov&#8217;s Science Fiction, Vol. 19</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I feel like I was walking across Nevada, like the pioneers, carrying a lot of stuff I need, but as I go along I have to keep dropping off things. I had a piano once but it got swamped at a crossing of the Platte. I had a good frypan but it got too heavy [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I feel like I was walking across Nevada, like the pioneers, carrying a lot of stuff I need, but as I go along I have to keep dropping off things. I had a piano once but it got swamped at a crossing of the Platte. I had a good frypan but it got too heavy and I left it in the Rockies. I had a couple ovaries but they wore out around the time we were in the Carson Sink. I had a good memory but pieces of it keep dropping off, have to leave them scattered around in the sage brush, on the sand hills. </p>
<br><b>Ursula K. Le Guin</b> (1929-2018) American writer<br>Story (1995-11), &#8220;Ether, OR,&#8221; <i>Isaac Asimov&#8217;s Science Fiction</i>, Vol. 19 
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<a href="https://archive.org/details/auntluteantholog0002unse/page/576/mode/2up?q=%22walking+across+Nevada%22">Collected</a> in Hogeland and Brawn (eds.), <i>The Aunt Lute Anthology of US Women Writers</i>, Vol. 2 (2008).
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		<title>Shakespeare, William -- Much Ado About Nothing, Act 2, sc. 3, l.  64ff (2.3.64-71) (1598)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[BALTHAZAR: Sigh no more, ladies, sigh no more, Men were deceivers ever, One foot in sea and one on shore, To one thing constant never. Then sigh not so, but let them go, And be you blithe and bonny, Converting all your sounds of woe Into Hey, nonny nonny. &#8220;Hey, nonny nonny&#8221; was a nonsense [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="hangingindent">BALTHAZAR:  Sigh no more, ladies, sigh no more,<br />
<span class="tab">Men were deceivers ever,<br />
One foot in sea and one on shore,<br />
<span class="tab">To one thing constant never.<br />
Then sigh not so, but let them go,<br />
<span class="tab">And be you blithe and bonny,<br />
Converting all your sounds of woe<br />
<span class="tab">Into <em>Hey, nonny nonny.</em></span></span></span></span></p>
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<br><b>William Shakespeare</b> (1564-1616) English dramatist and poet<br><i>Much Ado About Nothing</i>, Act 2, sc. 3, l.  64ff (2.3.64-71) (1598) 
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"Hey, nonny nonny" was a nonsense refrain popular in English music during the Elizabethan era; in context here, it means stop grieving over the guy that dumped you and put that effort instead into some merry-making and song. <a href="https://www.laphamsquarterly.org/music/hey-nonny-nonny">Music historian Ross Duffin</a> believes the form of Balthazar's tune fits a popular song of the Tudor period, "<a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Old_English_popular_music/p_c4AQAAIAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&dq=%22lusty+gallant%22&pg=PA235&printsec=frontcover">The Lusty Gallant</a>."


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		<title>Arnold, Matthew -- &#8220;Resignation,&#8221; The Strayed Reveller and Other Poems (1848)</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yet they, believe me, who await<br />
No gifts from chance, have conquered fate. </p>
<br><b>Matthew Arnold</b> (1822-1888) English poet and critic<br>&#8220;Resignation,&#8221; <i>The Strayed Reveller and Other Poems</i> (1848) 
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		<title>Oliver, Mary -- &#8220;In Blackwater Woods,&#8221; st. 7-9, American Primitive (1983)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[To live in this world you must be able to do three things: to love what is mortal; to hold it against your bones knowing your own life depends on it; and, when the time comes to let it go, to let it go. Originally published in Yankee Magazine.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To live in this world </p>
<p>you must be able<br />
to do three things:<br />
to love what is mortal;<br />
to hold it</p>
<p>against your bones knowing<br />
your own life depends on it;<br />
and, when the time comes to let it go,<br />
to let it go.</p>
<br><b>Mary Oliver</b> (1935-2019) American poet<br>&#8220;In Blackwater Woods,&#8221; st. 7-9, <i>American Primitive</i> (1983) 
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Originally published in <i>Yankee</i> Magazine.
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		<title>Atkinson, Brooks -- Once Around the Sun, &#8220;December 31&#8221; (1951)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Drop the last year into the silent limbo of the past. Let it go, for it was imperfect, and thank God that it can go.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Drop the last year into the silent limbo of the past. Let it go, for it was imperfect, and thank God that it can go.</p>
<br><b>Brooks Atkinson</b> (1894-1984) American drama critic and journalist <br><i>Once Around the Sun</i>, &#8220;December 31&#8221; (1951) 
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		<title>Sarton, May -- &#8220;Gestalt at Sixty,&#8221; sec. 3 (1972)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am not ready to die, But I am learning to trust death As I have trusted life. I am moving Toward a new freedom Born of detachment, And a sweeter grace &#8212; Learning to let go.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am not ready to die,<br />
But I am learning to trust death<br />
As I have trusted life.<br />
I am moving<br />
Toward a new freedom<br />
Born of detachment,<br />
And a sweeter grace &#8212;<br />
Learning to let go.</p>
<br><b>May Sarton</b> (1912-1995) Belgian-American poet, novelist, memoirist [pen name of Eleanore Marie Sarton]<br>&#8220;Gestalt at Sixty,&#8221; sec. 3 (1972) 
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		<title>Pratchett, Terry -- Discworld No. 32, A Hat Full of Sky, ch. 11 &#8220;Arthur&#8221; (2004)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[[I]t was followed by a long scream of rage mixed with a roar of complaint: &#8220;AAaargwannawannaaaagongongonaargggaaaaBLOON!&#8221; which is the traditional sound of a very small child learning that with balloons, as with life itself, it is important to know when not to let go of the string. The whole point of balloons is to teach [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[I]t was followed by a long scream of rage mixed with a roar of complaint: &#8220;AAaargwannawannaaaagongongonaargggaaaaBLOON!&#8221; which is the traditional sound of a very small child learning that with balloons, as with life itself, it is important to know <i>when not to let go of the string.</i>  The whole point of balloons is to teach small children this.</p>
<br><b>Terry Pratchett</b> (1948-2015) English author<br>Discworld No. 32, <i>A Hat Full of Sky</i>, ch. 11 &#8220;Arthur&#8221; (2004) 
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This is apparently the origin of the much more frequently found paraphrase:<br><br>

<blockquote>There are times in life when people must know when not to let go. Balloons are designed to teach small children this.</blockquote><br>

This shorter form has been used, among other places, in <a href="https://www.change.org/p/death-bring-back-terry-pratchett">a Change.org petition</a> to Death to reinstate Pratchett after the author's passing. It is possible Pratchett may have used it somewhere else, but I am unable to find it (it does not show up in the <em><a href="https://groups.google.com/g/alt.fan.pratchett">alt.fan.pratchett</a></em> board in any message from him).<br><br>

See also <a href="https://wist.info/cox-marcelene/63731/">Cox</a>.

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		<title>Heywood, John -- Ballad (1576), &#8220;Be Merry Friends,&#8221; st. 17</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Let the world slide, let the world go: A fig for care, and a fig for woe! If I can&#8217;t pay, why, I can owe; And death makes equal the high and low. Be merry, friends! Collected in John Payne Collier (ed.), A Book of Roxburghe Ballads (1847), which includes more history about it. This [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Let the world slide, let the world go:<br />
A fig for care, and a fig for woe!<br />
If I can&#8217;t pay, why, I can owe;<br />
And death makes equal the high and low.<br />
<span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab">Be merry, friends!</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></p>
<br><b>John Heywood</b> (1497?-1580?) English playwright and epigrammist<br>Ballad (1576), &#8220;Be Merry Friends,&#8221; st. 17 
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Collected in John Payne Collier (ed.), <i>A Book of Roxburghe Ballads</i> (1847), which includes <a href="https://babel.hathitrust.org/cgi/pt?id=loc.ark:/13960/t9863sh7k&seq=177">more history</a> about it.<br><br>

This quote from the final stanza of the ballad (as reconstructed) was popularized when <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/A_Collection_of_Familiar_Quotations_with/aCFYAAAAcAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&dq=heywood+%22fig+for+care%22&pg=PA140&printsec=frontcover">quoted in <i>Bartlett's Familiar Quotations</i></a>, 5th Ed. (1870) and subsequent editions.<br><br>

The ballad also shows up in a collection of James Orchard Halliwell (ed.), <a href="https://babel.hathitrust.org/cgi/pt?id=mdp.39015049193108&seq=625"><i>The Moral Play of Wit and Science</i></a> (1848) for the Shakespeare Society. This has an <a href="https://babel.hathitrust.org/cgi/pt?id=mdp.39015049193108&seq=742">earlier version of the ballad</a>, which does not include this stanza.  (It also wavers in spelling between "mery" / "merye" and "frends" / "freendes.") This is in turn endnoted with five contemporary English stanzas, replacing the last two given, which <a href="https://babel.hathitrust.org/cgi/pt?id=mdp.39015049193108&seq=765&q1=%22fig+for+woe%22">includes that quoted above</a>. <br><br>

"Let the world slide" is used by the Beggar (Sly) in Shakespeare's <a href="https://www.folger.edu/explore/shakespeares-works/the-taming-of-the-shrew/read/#:~:text=let%C2%A0the%C2%A0world%0A%C2%A0slide"><i>Taming of the Shrew</i></a>, Induction, sc. 1 (c. 1590).<br><br>



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