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		<title>Sarton, May -- At Seventy: A Journal, &#8220;Wednesday, June 23rd&#8221; (1973)</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Oct 2021 17:48:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A garden is always a series of losses set against a few triumphs, like life itself.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A garden is always a series of losses set against a few triumphs, like life itself.</p>
<br><b>May Sarton</b> (1912-1995) Belgian-American poet, novelist, memoirist [pen name of Eleanore Marie Sarton]<br><i>At Seventy: A Journal</i>, &#8220;Wednesday, June 23rd&#8221; (1973) 
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		<title>McLaughlin, Mignon -- The Neurotic&#8217;s Notebook, ch.  4 (1963)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m afraid to win, and afraid to lose; I hate a draw and can&#8217;t stop competing; otherwise I&#8217;m fine.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m afraid to win, and afraid to lose; I hate a draw and can&#8217;t stop competing; otherwise I&#8217;m fine.</p>
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<br><b>Mignon McLaughlin</b> (1913-1983) American journalist and author<br><i>The Neurotic&#8217;s Notebook</i>, ch.  4 (1963) 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://archive.org/details/neuroticsnoteboo00mcla/page/54/mode/2up?q=%22afraid+to+win%22" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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		<title>Kissinger, Henry -- &#8220;The Viet Nam Negotiations,&#8221; Foreign Affairs (Jan 1969)</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 May 2017 03:16:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We fought a military war; our opponents fought a political one. We sought physical attrition; our opponents aimed for our psychological exhaustion. In the process we lost sight of one of the cardinal maxims of guerrilla war: the guerrilla wins if he does not lose. The conventional army loses if it does not win. Sometimes [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We fought a military war; our opponents fought a political one. We sought physical attrition; our opponents aimed for our psychological exhaustion. In the process we lost sight of one of the cardinal maxims of guerrilla war: the guerrilla wins if he does not lose. The conventional army loses if it does not win.</p>
<br><b>Henry Kissinger</b> (1923-2024) German-American diplomat<br>&#8220;The Viet Nam Negotiations,&#8221; <i>Foreign Affairs</i> (Jan 1969) 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://www.foreignaffairs.com/articles/asia/1969-01-01/viet-nam-negotiations" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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Sometimes paraphrased as "A conventional army loses if it does not win. The guerrilla army wins if he does not lose."						</span>
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		<title>Lewis, Carl -- (Attributed)</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Dec 2015 15:26:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dave</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you don&#8217;t have confidence, you&#8217;ll always find a way not to win.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you don&#8217;t have confidence, you&#8217;ll always find a way not to win.</p>
<p><a href="https://wist.info/wp/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/Lewis-confidence-wist_info-quote.jpg"><img decoding="async" src="https://wist.info/wp/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/Lewis-confidence-wist_info-quote.jpg" alt="Lewis - confidence - wist_info quote" width="605" height="306" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-31877" srcset="https://wist.info/wp/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/Lewis-confidence-wist_info-quote.jpg 605w, https://wist.info/wp/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/Lewis-confidence-wist_info-quote-300x152.jpg 300w" sizes="(max-width: 605px) 100vw, 605px" /></a></p>
<br><b>Carl Lewis</b> (b. 1961) American Olympic athlete<br>(Attributed) 
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		<title>Johnson, Lyndon -- Quoted in Philip Geyelin, Lyndon B. Johnson and the World, ch. 6 (1966)</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Feb 2004 16:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dave</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[While you&#8217;re saving your face, you&#8217;re losing your ass. Geyelin said the phrase came up during &#8220;an august gathering of his most distinguished advisers when the question arose whether to honor an apparent US commitment to a proposition which Congress seemed unlikely to accept. Face-saving, the President observed, was not his major purpose in life,&#8221; [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While you&#8217;re saving your face, you&#8217;re losing your ass.</p>
<br><b>Lyndon B. Johnson</b> (1908-1973) American politician, educator, US President (1963-69)<br>Quoted in Philip Geyelin, <em>Lyndon B. Johnson and the World</em>, ch. 6 (1966) 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://archive.org/details/lyndonbjohnsonth00geye/page/156/mode/2up?q=%22losing+your+ass%22" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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Geyelin said the phrase came up during "an august gathering of his most distinguished advisers when the question arose whether to honor an apparent US commitment to a proposition which Congress seemed unlikely to accept. Face-saving, the President observed, was not his major purpose in life," followed by the quote.						</span>
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		<title>Colton, Charles Caleb -- Lacon: Or, Many Things in Few Words, Vol. 1, § 265 (1820)</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Feb 2004 16:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dave</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[To know a man, observe how he wins his object, rather than how he loses it; for when we fail, our pride supports us; when we succeed, it betrays us.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To know a man, observe how he <em>wins</em> his object, rather than how he loses it; for when we fail, our pride supports us; when we succeed, it betrays us.</p>
<br><b>Charles Caleb "C. C." Colton</b> (1780-1832) English cleric, writer, aphorist<br><i>Lacon: Or, Many Things in Few Words</i>, Vol. 1, § 265 (1820) 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Lacon_Or_Many_Things_in_Few_Words/PHMlAAAAMAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22know%20a%20man%22" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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		<title>Carlin, George -- Book (1997), Brain Droppings, &#8220;Short Takes [Part 2]&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Feb 2004 16:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you can&#8217;t beat them, arrange to have them beaten.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you can&#8217;t beat them, arrange to have them beaten.</p>
<br><b>George Carlin</b> (1937-2008) American comedian<br>Book (1997), <i>Brain Droppings</i>, &#8220;Short Takes [Part 2]&#8221; 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://archive.org/details/isbn_9780786883219/page/192/mode/2up?q=%22haue+them+beaten%22" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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