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		<title>Fowler, Gene -- (Attributed)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[What is success? It is a toy balloon among children armed with pins. This is attributed in multiple sources to Fowler&#8217;s Skyline: A Reporter&#8217;s Reminiscence of the 1920s (1961), but searches of two copies do not find this text. In her biography The Whole Truth and Nothing But (1963), Hollywood columnist Hedda Hopper wrote: One [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What is success? It is a toy balloon among children armed with pins.</p>
<br><b>Gene Fowler</b> (1890-1960) American journalist, author, and dramatist. [b. Eugene Devlan]<br>(Attributed) 
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This is <a href="https://archive.org/details/casselldictionar0000gree/page/266/mode/2up?q=%22toy+balloon+among+children%22">attributed in</a> <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Says_Who/xUwOAQAAMAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22toy%20balloon%22%20skyline">multiple</a> <a href="https://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Gene_Fowler#:~:text=What%20is%20success%3F%20It%20is%20a%20toy%20balloon%20among%20children%20armed%20with%20pins">sources</a> to Fowler's <i>Skyline: A Reporter's Reminiscence of the 1920s</i> (1961), but searches of <a href="https://archive.org/details/skyline0000gene/">two</a> <a href="https://archive.org/details/skylinereporters00fowl/">copies</a> do not find this text.<br><br>

In her biography <i>The Whole Truth and Nothing But</i> (1963), Hollywood columnist <a href="https://archive.org/details/wholetruthnothi00hopp/page/42/mode/2up?q=%22toy+balloon+among%22">Hedda Hopper wrote</a>:<br><br>

<blockquote>One of the men I loved most above all others was Gene Fowler. He once wrote me a letter from London. “What is success?" he asked. “I shall tell you out of the wisdom of my years. It is a toy balloon among children armed with sharp pins."</blockquote><br>

The line is also shows up in <a href="https://archive.org/details/ninelivesofmicha1958cohn/page/182/mode/2up?q=%22toy+balloon+among+children%22">Art Cohn, <i>The Nine Lives of Michael Todd</i></a>, ch. 19 "I Love You" (1958).

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		<title>Fowler, Gene -- Skyline: A Reporter&#8217;s Reminiscence of the 1920s, ch.  8 (1961)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Men are not against you, they are merely for themselves.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Men are not against you, they are merely for themselves.</p>
<br><b>Gene Fowler</b> (1890-1960) American journalist, author, and dramatist. [b. Eugene Devlan]<br><i>Skyline: A Reporter&#8217;s Reminiscence of the 1920s</i>, ch.  8 (1961) 
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		<title>Russell, Bertrand -- Conquest of Happiness, Part 1, ch.  3 &#8220;Competition&#8221; (1930)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[What people mean, therefore, by the struggle for life is really the struggle for success. What people fear when they engage in the struggle is not that they will fail to get their breakfast next morning, but that they will fail to outshine their neighbours.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What people mean, therefore, by the struggle for life is really the struggle for success. What people fear when they engage in the struggle is not that they will fail to get their breakfast next morning, but that they will fail to outshine their neighbours.</p>
<br><b>Bertrand Russell</b> (1872-1970) English mathematician and philosopher<br><i>Conquest of Happiness</i>, Part 1, ch.  3 &#8220;Competition&#8221; (1930) 
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		<title>Cox, Marcelene -- &#8220;Ask Any Woman&#8221; column, Ladies&#8217; Home Journal (1948-02)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[One sure way to lose another woman&#8217;s friendship is to try to improve her flower arrangements. This was a regularly revisited aphorism for Cox: One sure way to lose another woman&#8217;s friendship is to try to improve her husband. (1955-12) The quickest way to lose another woman&#8217;s friendship is to endeavor to improve her husband, [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One sure way to lose another woman&#8217;s friendship is to try to improve her flower arrangements.</p>
<br><b>Marcelene Cox</b> (1900-1998) American writer, columnist, aphorist<br>&#8220;Ask Any Woman&#8221; column, <i>Ladies&#8217; Home Journal</i> (1948-02) 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://archive.org/details/ladieshomejourna65janwyet/page/n353/mode/2up" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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This was a regularly revisited aphorism for Cox:<br><br>

<blockquote>One sure way to lose another woman's friendship is to try to improve her husband.<br>
(<a href="https://archive.org/details/ladieshomejourna72julwyet/page/n1023/mode/2up">1955-12</a>)</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>The quickest way to lose another woman's friendship is to endeavor to improve her husband, her children, or her flower arrangements.<br>
(<a href="https://archive.org/details/ladieshomejourna76janwyet/page/182/mode/2up">1959-05</a>)</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>One sure way to lose another woman's friendship is to try to improve either her children or her flower arrangements.<br>
(<a href="https://archive.org/details/ladieshomejourna78julwyet/page/n85/mode/2up">1961-07</a>)</blockquote><br>
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		<title>Shakespeare, William -- Pericles, Act 1, sc. 2, l.  84ff (1.1.84-86) (1607) [with George Wilkins]</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[PERICLES:But thou know’st this: ’Tis time to fear when tyrants seems to kiss.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="hangingindent">PERICLES:<span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab"><span class="tab">But thou know’st this:<br />
’Tis time to fear when tyrants seems to kiss.</p>
<p></p>
<br><b>William Shakespeare</b> (1564-1616) English dramatist and poet<br><i>Pericles</i>, Act 1, sc. 2, l.  84ff (1.1.84-86) (1607) [with George Wilkins] 
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		<title>Aeschylus -- Agamemnon</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hell to ships, hell to men, hell to cities. Speaking of Helen of Troy. The literal translation is &#8220;Ship-destroyer, man-destroyer, city-destroyer.&#8221;]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hell to ships, hell to men, hell to cities.</p>
<br><b>Aeschylus</b> (525-456 BC) Greek dramatist (Æschylus)<br><i>Agamemnon</i> 
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Speaking of Helen of Troy. The literal translation is "Ship-destroyer, man-destroyer, city-destroyer."
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		<title>Einstein, Albert -- Speech, French Philosophical Society, Paris (6 Apr 1922)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[If my theory of relativity is proven successful, Germany will claim me as a German and France will declare that I am a citizen of the world. Should my theory prove untrue, France will say that I am a German and Germany will declare that I am a Jew.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If my theory of relativity is proven successful, Germany will claim me as a German and France will declare that I am a citizen of the world. Should my theory prove untrue, France will say that I am a German and Germany will declare that I am a Jew.</p>
<br><b>Albert Einstein</b> (1879-1955) German-American physicist<br>Speech, French Philosophical Society, Paris (6 Apr 1922) 
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		<title>Lincoln, Abraham -- Essay (1862-09-02?), &#8220;Meditation on the Divine Will&#8221; (frag.)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[In great contests each party claims to act in accordance with the will of God. Both may be, and one must be, wrong. God cannot be for and against the same thing at the same time. In the present civil war it is quite possible that God&#8217;s purpose is something different from the purpose of [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In great contests each party claims to act in accordance with the will of God. Both <i>may</i> be, and one <i>must</i> be, wrong. God cannot be <i>for</i> and <i>against</i> the same thing at the same time.  In the present civil war it is quite possible that God&#8217;s purpose is something different from the purpose of either party.</p>
<br><b>Abraham Lincoln</b> (1809-1865) American lawyer, politician, US President (1861-65)<br>Essay (1862-09-02?), &#8220;Meditation on the Divine Will&#8221; (frag.) 
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This fragment was found and preserved by John Hay, one of Lincoln's personal secretaries. Hay, and John Nicolay (another of his secretaries) indicated it was a private note, never meant for publication, labeled it as possibly dated 30 September, though their account implies it was during his consideration of the Preliminary Emancipation Proclamation of 22 September. The editors of the <i>Collected Works of Abraham Lincoln</i> push the date as early as 2 September, following Second Bull Run. More detailed analysis of the date <a href="https://quod.lib.umich.edu/l/lincoln/lincoln5/1:893?rgn=div1;sort=occur;subview=detail;type=simple;view=fulltext;q1=meditation#:~:text=the%20contest%20proceeds.-,Annotation,-%5B1%5D%C2%A0%C2%A0%20AD%2DP">here</a>.


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