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		<title>Greenwood, Kerry -- Phryne Fisher No. 13, The Castlemaine Murders, ch.  4 (2003)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Conversation is a minefield until you learn the conventions, Jane dear.&#8221; &#8220;I’ll never learn all the rules,&#8221; muttered Jane. &#8220;Yes, you will,&#8221; said Phryne. &#8220;Then you can bend them.&#8221;]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="tab">&#8220;Conversation is a minefield until you learn the conventions, Jane dear.&#8221;<br />
<span class="tab">&#8220;I’ll never learn all the rules,&#8221; muttered Jane.<br />
<span class="tab">&#8220;Yes, you will,&#8221; said Phryne. &#8220;Then you can bend them.&#8221;</p>
<br><b>Kerry Greenwood</b> (b. 1954) Australian author and lawyer<br>Phryne Fisher No. 13, <i>The Castlemaine Murders</i>, ch.  4 (2003) 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://archive.org/details/castlemainemurde00gree/page/46/mode/2up?q=%22learn+all+the+rules%22" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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		<title>Twain, Mark -- Essay (1906), &#8220;The Gorky Incident,&#8221; Letters from the Earth (c. 1909; pub. 1962) [ed. DeVoto (1939)]</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Laws are sand, customs are rock. Laws can be evaded and punishment escaped, but an openly transgressed custom brings sure punishment. The penalty may be unfair, unrighteous, illogical, and a cruelty; no mater, it will be inflicted, just the same. Commenting on the eviction of Maxim Gorky from multiple hotels in New York City because [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Laws are sand, customs are rock. Laws can be evaded and punishment escaped, but an openly transgressed custom brings sure punishment. The penalty may be unfair, unrighteous, illogical, and a cruelty; no mater, it will be inflicted, just the same.</p>
<br><b>Mark Twain</b> (1835-1910) American writer [pseud. of Samuel Clemens]<br>Essay (1906), &#8220;The Gorky Incident,&#8221; <i>Letters from the Earth</i> (c. 1909; pub. 1962) [ed. DeVoto (1939)] 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://archive.org/details/lettersfromearth0000clem/page/156/mode/2up?q=%22laws+are+sand%22" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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Commenting on the <a href="https://twainsgeography.com/node/10439">eviction</a> of <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maxim_Gorky">Maxim Gorky</a> from multiple hotels in New York City because the woman he was traveling with was not his wife. Twain was a supporter of Gorky's efforts to foment revolution in Tsarist Russia.<br><br>

The essay was not published in Twain's lifetime.  It's <a href="https://twainsgeography.com/node/10439#:~:text=in%20Sam%E2%80%99s%20lifetime.-,It%20first%20appeared,-edited%20by%20Bernard">original publication</a> was in the <i>Slavonic and East European Review</i> (1944-08), also edited by DeVoto.

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