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		<title>Martial -- Epigrams [Epigrammata], Book  9, epigram  53 (9.53) (AD 94) [tr. Hay (1755), ep. 54]</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I would send such trifles as I can; You stop me short; you arbitrary man! But I submit. Both may our orders give; And do what both like best: let me receive. [Natali tibi, Quinte, tuo dare parva volebam Munera; tu prohibes: inperiosus homo es. Parendum est monitis, fiat quod uterque volemus Et quod [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I would send such trifles as I can;<br />
<span class="tab">You stop me short; you arbitrary man!<br />
But I submit. Both may our orders give;<br />
<span class="tab">And do what both like best: let me receive.</p>
<p><em>[Natali tibi, Quinte, tuo dare parva volebam<br />
Munera; tu prohibes: inperiosus homo es.<br />
Parendum est monitis, fiat quod uterque volemus<br />
Et quod utrumque iuvat: tu mihi, Quinte, dato.]</em></span></span></p>
<br><b>Martial</b> (AD c.39-c.103) Spanish Roman poet, satirist, epigrammatist [Marcus Valerius Martialis]<br><i>Epigrams [Epigrammata]</i>, Book  9, epigram  53 (9.53) (AD 94) [tr. Hay (1755), ep. 54] 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Select_Epigrams_of_Martial/guUNAAAAYAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&dq=martial%20epigrams%20hay&pg=PA127&printsec=frontcover&bsq=%22send%20such%20trifles%22" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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(<a href="http://data.perseus.org/citations/urn:cts:latinLit:phi1294.phi002.perseus-lat1:9.53">Source (Latin)</a>). Alternate translations:<br><br>



<blockquote>On your birth-day, Quintus, I wished to make you a small present: you forbade me; you are imperious. I must obey your injunction: let that be done which we both desire, and which will please us both. Do you, Quintus, make me a present.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.tertullian.org/fathers/martial_epigrams_book09.htm#:~:text=On%20your%20birth-day%2C%20Quintus%2C%20I%20wished%20to%20make%20you%20a%20small%20present%3A%20you%20forbade%20me%3B%20you%20are%20imperious.%20I%20must%20obey%20your%20injunction%3A%20let%20that%20be%20done%20which%20we%20both%20desire%2C%20and%20which%20will%20please%20us%20both.%20Do%20you%2C%20Quintus%2C%20make%20me%20a%20present.">Bohn's Classical</a> (1897)]</blockquote><br>



<blockquote>Your birthday I wished to observe with a gift;<br>
Your forbade and your firmness is known.<br>
<span class="tab">Every man to his taste:<br>
<span class="tab">I remark with some haste,<br>
May the Third is the date of my own.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/romanwitepigrams00mart/page/100/mode/2up?q=birthday">Nixon</a> (1911)]</blockquote><br>



<blockquote>On your birthday, Quintus, I was wishing to give you a small present; you must forbid me; you are an imperious person! I must obey your monition. Let be done what both of us wish, and what pleases both. Do you, Quintus, make <i>me</i> a present!<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Epigrams/RIxiAAAAMAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22make%20me%20a%20present%22&pg=PA111&printsec=frontcover">Ker</a> (1919), Ep. 53]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>I wished to send you for your birthday<br>
<span class="tab">A gift, a small thing really.<br>
But you said, "No, I want no gift," <br>
<span class="tab">And meant it most sincerely.<br>
Let both our wishes be esteemed.<br>
<span class="tab">Why invite a rift<br>
Between us? When <i>my</i> birthday comes,<br>
<span class="tab">Please send <i>me</i> a gift.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/martialselectede0000unse/page/102/mode/2up?q=%22to+quintus%22">Marcellino</a> (1968)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>I wished to give you a trifling birthday present, Quintus. You forbid it. you are an imperious fellow; I must obey your admonition. Let it be as both of us will wish, as gives both of us pleasure: you give me something, Quintus.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://dokumen.pub/martial-epigrams-books-6-10-2-0674995562-9780674995567.html">Shackleton Bailey</a> (1993)]</blockquote><br>
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