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		<title>Martial -- Epigrams [Epigrammata], Book  4, epigram  38 (4.38) (AD 89) [tr. Elphinston (1782), Book 12, ep. 195]</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Galla, deny; and render passion strong: But, prudent Galla, don&#8217;t deny too long. [Galla, nega: satiatur amor nisi gaudia torquent: sed noli nimium, Galla, negare diu.] (Source (Latin)). Alternate translations: Galla deny, be not too eas&#8217;ly gain&#8217;d, For Love will glut with Joys too soon obtain&#8217;d. [tr. Cotton (1686)] Galla, say &#8220;No:&#8221; love is soon [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Galla, deny; and render passion strong:<br />
But, prudent Galla, don&#8217;t deny too long.</p>
<p><em>[Galla, nega: satiatur amor nisi gaudia torquent:<br />
sed noli nimium, Galla, negare diu.]</em></p>
<br><b>Martial</b> (AD c.39-c.103) Spanish Roman poet, satirist, epigrammatist [Marcus Valerius Martialis]<br><i>Epigrams [Epigrammata]</i>, Book  4, epigram  38 (4.38) (AD 89) [tr. Elphinston (1782), Book 12, ep. 195] 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_Epigrams_of_M_Val_Martial/vksOAAAAQAAJ?gbpv=1&bsq=%22render%20passion%20strong%22" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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(<a href="http://www.perseus.tufts.edu/hopper/text?doc=Perseus%3Atext%3A2008.01.0506%3Abook%3D4%3Apoem%3D38">Source (Latin)</a>). Alternate translations:<br><br>

<blockquote>Galla deny, be not too eas'ly gain'd,<br>
For Love will glut with Joys too soon obtain'd.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/martialinenglish00mart/page/118/mode/2up">Cotton</a> (1686)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Galla, say "No:" love is soon sated, unless our pleasures are mixed with some pain; <br>
but do not continue, Galla, to say "No" too long.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.tertullian.org/fathers/martial_epigrams_book04.htm#:~:text=Galla%2C%20say%20%22No%3A%22%20love%20is%20soon%20sated%2C%20unless%20our%20pleasures%20are%20mixed%20with%20some%20pain%3B%20but%20do%20not%20continue%2C%20Galla%2C%20to%20say%20%22No%22%20too%20long.">Bohn's Classical</a> (1859)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Refuse me, Galla; love cloys if its pleasures torture not:<br>
but refuse not, Galla, too long.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Epigrams/w4ZfAAAAMAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22love%20cloys%22">Ker</a> (1919)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Galla, say "no" -- Tease love and you renew it.<br>
But prithee, Galla, do not overdo it.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/martialtwelveboo0000tran/page/118/mode/2up?q=%22tease+love%22">Pott & Wright</a> (1921)]</blockquote><br>



<blockquote>Say you won't Galla: For passion cloys<br>
if its joys are not tormenting<br>
But don't take too long in relenting!<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/epigramsofmartia0000mart_q2h6/page/178/mode/2up?q=%22passion+cloys%22">Bovie</a> (1970)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Galla, say no, for love, unless<br>
It teases, cloys with happiness.<br>
Don't take too long, though, to say yes.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/epigrams0000mart/page/56/mode/2up?q=galla">Michie</a> (1972)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Galla, say no. Love palIs, unless its joys are torture. But Galla, don't say no for too long.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://dokumen.pub/martial-epigrams-spectacles-books-1-5-1-0674995554-9780674995550.html#:~:text=Galla%2C%20say%20no.%20Love%20palIs%2C%20unless%20its%20joys%20are%20torture.%20But%20Galla%2C%20don%27t%20say%20no%20for%20too%20longe">Shackleton Bailey</a> (1993)]</blockquote><br>


<blockquote>A "No" can build love's piquancy,<br>
But don't, too long, say "No" to me.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Martialed_arguments/dhQIAAAAQAAJ">Ericsson</a> (1995)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Galla, say no. Love is satiated unless pleasures torment.<br>
But, Galla, do not say no for too long!<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Martial_s_Epigrams_Book_Two/WC38cQPn17QC?hl=en&gbpv=1&pg=PA52&printsec=frontcover&bsq=%22unless%20pleasures%20torment%22">Williams</a> (2004)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>"No" is enticing; so is wooing slow.<br>
But nothing works till you stop saying "No."<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Martial_s_Epigrams/13X80r3_zQIC?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=4.38">Wills</a> (2007)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Galla, say no. Some torment makes love stronger.<br>
But, Galla, don’t keep saying no much longer.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://books.google.ie/books?id=SQwwBQAAQBAJ&lpg=PR7&pg=PR7#v=onepage&q=%22some%20torment%22&f=false">McLean</a> (2014)] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Galla, tell me "No": love stales unless its joys bring pain.<br>
But, Galla, don't say "No" for very long.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Epigrams/AqHKBwAAQBAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&pg=PR4&printsec=frontcover&bsq=%22love%20stales%22">Nisbet</a> (2015)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Without a wait<br>
<span class="tab">or some hard trial,<br>
love won’t amuse me.<br>
So hesitate<br>
<span class="tab">(just for a while ...)<br>
[tr. <a href="https://briefpoems.wordpress.com/2016/06/11/bedside-lamps-brief-poems-by-martial/#:~:text=Galla%2C%20Refuse%20me,A.%20M.%20Juster">Juster</a> (2016)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Galla, say No, for Love will cloy<br>
<span class="tab">Without some torments mixed with joy.<br>
But, Galla, do not get me wrong --<br>
<span class="tab">Please don’t say No to me too long.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://briefpoems.wordpress.com/2016/06/11/bedside-lamps-brief-poems-by-martial/#:~:text=Galla%2C%20say%20No,Mollie%20Barger">Barger</a>]</blockquote><br>						</span>
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		<title>Chesterfield (Lord) -- Letter to his son, #183 (22 May 1749)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Some people are to be reasoned, some flattered, some intimidated, and some teased into a thing; but, in general, all are to be brought into it at last, if skillfully applied to, properly managed, and indefatigably attacked in their several weak places.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some people are to be reasoned, some flattered, some intimidated, and some teased into a thing; but, in general, all are to be brought into it at last, if skillfully applied to, properly managed, and indefatigably attacked in their several weak places.</p>
<br><b>Lord Chesterfield</b> (1694-1773) English statesman, wit [Philip Dormer Stanhope]<br>Letter to his son, #183 (22 May 1749) 
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		<title>Watterson, Bill -- Calvin and Hobbes (1987-04-18)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[CALVIN: Dad, how do people make babies? CALVIN&#8217;S DAD: Most people just go to Sears, buy the kit, and follow the assembly instructions. CALVIN: I came from Sears?? CALVIN&#8217;S DAD: No, you were a Blue Light Special at K Mart. Almost as good, and a lot cheaper. CALVIN: AAUUGHHH! CALVIN&#8217;S MOM [off panel]: Dear, what [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="hangingindent">CALVIN:  Dad, how do people make babies?</p>
<p class="hangingindent">CALVIN&#8217;S DAD:  Most people just go to Sears, buy the kit, and follow the assembly instructions.</p>
<p class="hangingindent">CALVIN:  <i>I came from <b>Sears??</b></i></p>
<p class="hangingindent">CALVIN&#8217;S DAD:  No, <i>you</i> were a Blue Light Special at K Mart.  Almost as good, and a lot cheaper.</p>
<p class="hangingindent">CALVIN:  <i>AAUUGHHH!</i></p>
<p class="hangingindent">CALVIN&#8217;S MOM [off panel]: <i>Dear, what are you telling Calvin now?!</i></p>
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<br><b>Bill Watterson</b> (b. 1958) American cartoonist<br><i>Calvin and Hobbes</i> (1987-04-18) 
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