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		<title>Carlyle, Thomas -- (Attributed)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I don&#8217;t like to talk much with people who always agree with me. It is amusing to coquette with an echo for a little while, but one soon tires of it. Widely attributed to Carlyle, but not found in his writings. This quotation first appears in the late 19th Century &#8212; overlapping Carlyle&#8217;s actual life [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t like to talk much with people who always agree with me. It is amusing to coquette with an echo for a little while, but one soon tires of it.</p>
<br><b>Thomas Carlyle</b> (1795–1881) Scottish essayist and historian<br>(Attributed) 
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Widely attributed to Carlyle, but not found in his writings.  

This quotation first appears in the late 19th Century -- overlapping Carlyle's actual life -- but I cannot find it any of his written works, and no references I could find provide a source. The likely (non-exclusive) options:<br><br>

<ul>
	<li>It was recorded (in an unknown source) from something Carlyle said in conversation or in a lecture not elsewhere recorded.</li>
	<li>The phrasing was early on distorted from Carlyle's actual speech or writing, e.g., for simplification, and that's the version that stuck in popular culture.</li>
</ul>

Even the early sources I do find use it as column filler, as a stand-alone quotation, or in passing in another writing.<br><br>

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<li><i>New England Journal of Education,</i> Vol. 6, No. 10 (<a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/New_England_Journal_of_Education/drdJAQAAMAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&dq=thomas+carlyle+%22coquette+with+an+echo%22&pg=PA111&printsec=frontcover">1877-09-13</a>)</li>
	<li><i>Queen's Collage Journal (Supplement)</i>, Vol. 5, No. 12 (<a href="https://archive.org/details/queensjournal05/page/10/mode/2up?q=%22but+one+soon+tires+of+it%22">1878-04-27</a>)</li>
	<li><i>The Argonaut</i> (<a href="https://archive.org/details/argonaut21878sanf/page/10/mode/2up?q=%22but+one+soon+tires+of+it%22">1878-07-06</a>) </li>
	<li>Edward C. Bass (ed.), Biographical Hand-Book of the Gem Portrait Gallery, "Gems of Prose and Poetry" (<a href="https://archive.org/details/biographicalhand00bass/page/108/mode/2up?q=%22coquette+with+an+echo%22">1886</a>)</li>
	<li>Tryon Edwards (ed.), <i>Dictionary of Thoughts</i>, "Conversation" (<a href="https://archive.org/details/dictionaryofthou00edwa/page/88/mode/2up?q=%22coquette+with+an+echo%22">1891</a>)</li>
	<li>Ann Bachelor (ed.), The Carlyle Year-Book, February 6 (<a href="https://archive.org/details/carlyleyearbook00carl/page/18/mode/2up?q=%22coquette+with+an+echo%22">1900</a>)</li></ul>

In sum, Carlyle very likely said this, or something like it, but it's original source is not recorded online at the present time.







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