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		<title>Shain, Merle -- Hearts That We Broke Long Ago, Part 3, ch.  7 (1983)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The conflict between what one is and who one is expected to be touches all of us. And sometimes, rather than reach for what one could be, we choose the comfort of the failed role, preferring to be the victim of circumstance, the person who didn&#8217;t have a chance.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The conflict between what one is and who one is expected to be touches all of us. And sometimes, rather than reach for what one could be, we choose the comfort of the failed role, preferring to be the victim of circumstance, the person who didn&#8217;t have a chance.</p>
<br><b>Merle Shain</b> (1935-1989) Canadian journalist and author<br><i>Hearts That We Broke Long Ago</i>, Part 3, ch.  7 (1983) 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://archive.org/details/heartsthatwebrok00shai/page/60/mode/2up?q=%22comfort+of+the+failed+role%22" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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		<title>Brodsky, Joseph -- Commencement Address, Williams College (24 May 1984)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[If the first blow hasn’t knocked all the wits out of the victim&#8217;s head, he may realize that turning the other cheek amounts to manipulation of the offender’s sense of guilt, not to speak of his karma. The moral victory itself may not be so moral after all, not only because suffering often has a [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If the first blow hasn’t knocked all the wits out of the victim&#8217;s head, he may realize that turning the other cheek amounts to manipulation of the offender’s sense of guilt, not to speak of his karma. The moral victory itself may not be so moral after all, not only because suffering often has a narcissistic aspect to it, but also because it renders the victim superior, that is, better than his enemy. Yet no matter how evil your enemy is, the crucial thing is that he is human; and although incapable of loving another like ourselves, we nonetheless know that evil takes root when one man starts to think that he is better than another.</p>
<br><b>Joseph Brodsky</b> (1940-1996) Russian-American poet, essayist, Nobel laureate, US Poet Laureate [Iosif Aleksandrovič Brodskij] <br>Commencement Address, Williams College (24 May 1984) 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Less_Than_One/N5Nzm2uihkAC?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22better%20than%20another%22&dq=%22small%20comfort%20when%20Evil%20triumphs%22&pg=PA387&printsec=frontcover" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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		<title>Friedman, Thomas -- From Beirut to Jerusalem, ch. 6 (1989)</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2020 21:30:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dave</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Someone who sees himself as a victim will almost never morally evaluate himself or put limits on his own actions. Why should he? He is the victim.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Someone who sees himself as a victim will almost never morally evaluate himself or put limits on his own actions. Why should he? He is the victim.</p>
<br><b>Thomas Friedman</b> (b. 1953) American journalist, columnist, author<br><i>From Beirut to Jerusalem</i>, ch. 6 (1989) 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/From_Beirut_to_Jerusalem/877DR3un9rIC?hl=en&gbpv=1&dq=friedman%20%22almost%20never%20morally%20evaluate%22&pg=PT172&printsec=frontcover&bsq=%22Someone%20who%20sees%20himself%20as%20a%20victim%22" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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