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		<title>Montaigne, Michel de -- Essays, Book 3, ch.  9 (3.9), &#8220;Of Vanity [De la vanité]&#8221; (1587) [tr. Frame (1943)]</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[As for the duties of marital love that some people consider injured by absence, I do not believe it. On the contrary, it is a relationship that is readily cooled by too continual association, and harmed by assiduity. Every strange woman seems to us an attractive woman. And every man feels by experience that seeing [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As for the duties of marital love that some people consider injured by absence, I do not believe it. On the contrary, it is a relationship that is readily cooled by too continual association, and harmed by assiduity. Every strange woman seems to us an attractive woman. And every man feels by experience that seeing one another continually cannot match the pleasure of parting and being together again at intervals.</p>
<p><em>[Quant aux devoirs de l’amitié maritale, qu’on pense estre interessez par cette absence: je ne le crois pas. Au rebours, c’est une intelligence, qui se refroidit volontiers par une trop continuelle assistance, &#038; que l’assiduité blesse. Toute femme estrangere nous semble honneste femme: Et chacun sent par experience, que la continuation de se voir, ne peut representer le plaisir que lon sent à se desprendre, &#038; reprendre à secousses.]</em></p>
<br><b>Michel de Montaigne</b> (1533–1592) French essayist<br><i>Essays</i>, Book 3, ch.  9 (3.9), &#8220;Of Vanity <i>[De la vanité]</i>&#8221; (1587) [tr. Frame (1943)] 
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First appeared in the second (1588) edition. See also <a href="https://wist.info/propertius/6952/">Propertius</a> (c. 20 BC), <a href="https://wist.info/la-rochefoucauld-francois/2384/">La Rochefoucauld</a> (1665), <a href="https://wist.info/ouida/37905/">Ouida</a> (1878). <br><br>

(<a href="https://hyperessays.net/gournay/book/III/chapter/9/#:~:text=Quant%20aux%20devoirs,reprendre%20%C3%A0%20secousses.">Source (French)</a>). Alternate translations:<br><br>

<blockquote>Concerning dueties of wedlocke-friendship, which some happily imagine to be interressed or prejudiced by the husbands absence, I beleeve it not. Contrariwise, it is a kinde of intelligence, that easily growes colde by an over continuall assistance, and decayeth by assiduitie; for, <i>to stand still at racke and manger breedeth a saciety.</i> Every strange woman seemeth to us an honest woman: And all feele by experience, that a continuall seeing one another, can not possibly represent the pleasure, men take by parting and meeting againe.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://hyperessays.net/florio/book/III/chapter/9/#:~:text=Concerning%20dueties%20of,and%20meeting%20againe.">Florio</a> (1603)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>As to the Duties of Conjugal Friendship, that some think to be violated by the absence, I am quite of another Opinion; it is on the contrary an <i>Intelligence</i> that easily cools by a too frequent and assiduous Practice. Every strange Woman appears graceful, and every one finds by Experience, that being continually together is not so pleasing, as to part for a time, and meet again.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/essaysmichaelse00cottgoog/page/264/mode/2up?q=%22ConiUMl+Frieridfliip%22">Cotton</a> (1686)] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>As to the duties of conjugal friendship, that some think to be impaired by these absences, I am quite of another opinion. It is, on the contrary, an intelligence that easily cools by a too frequent and assiduous companionship. Every strange woman appears charming, and we all find by experience that being continually together is not so pleasing as to part for a time and meet again.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://hyperessays.net/essays/on-vanity/#:~:text=As%20to%20the%20duties,time%20and%20meet%20again.">Cotton/Hazlitt</a> (1877)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>As for the duties of conjugal friendship, which are thought to be wronged by such absences, I do not believe so; on the contrary, it is an intercourse which easily grows cool with too continuous companionship and which assiduity injures. Every woman who is a strange seems to us a worthy woman; and we all know by experience that continually being together cannot equal the pleasure that we feel in parting and meeting by turns. <br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Book_III_continued/7qPqCeH2qzIC?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22as%20for%20the%20duties%22">Ives</a> (1925)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>As for the duties of conjugal love which are thought to be infringed by such absences, I do not believe that they are. On the contrary: such intercourse can easily be cooled by too continuous a presence and impaired by assiduity: every other woman seems charming then! Everyone knows that seeing each other all the time cannot provide the same pleasure as is given by alternately going away and coming together. <br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/the-complete-essays-montaigne-michel-de-1533-1592/page/1103/mode/2up?q=%22as+for+the+duties%22">Screech</a> (1987)]</blockquote><br>						</span>
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		<title>La Rochefoucauld, Francois -- Réflexions ou sentences et maximes morales [Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims], ¶201 (1665-1678) [pub. Donaldson (1783), ¶93]</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[He who imagines he can do without the world, deceives himself much; but he who fancies the world cannot do without him, is still more mistaken. [Celui qui croit pouvoir trouver en soi-même de quoi se passer de tout le monde se trompe fort; mais celui qui croit qu’on ne peut se passer de lui [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>He who imagines he can do without the world, deceives himself much; but he who fancies the world cannot do without him, is still more mistaken.</p>
<p><em>[Celui qui croit pouvoir trouver en soi-même de quoi se passer de tout le monde se trompe fort; mais celui qui croit qu’on ne peut se passer de lui se trompe encore davantage.]</em></p>
<br><b>François VI, duc de La Rochefoucauld</b> (1613–1680) French epigrammatist, memoirist, noble<br><i>Réflexions ou sentences et maximes morales [Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims]</i>, ¶201 (1665-1678) [pub. Donaldson (1783), ¶93] 
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Present in the 1st (1665) edition. <a href="https://fr.wikisource.org/wiki/%C5%92uvres_de_La_Rochefoucauld_-_T.1/R%C3%A9flexions_ou_sentences_et_maximes_morales#cite_note-325:~:text=Celui%20qui%20croit%20pouvoir%20se%20passer%20de%20tout%20le%20monde.">In manuscript</a>, the beginning read <i>"Celui qui croit pouvoir se passer de tout le monde ..."</i><br></br>

(<a href="https://fr.wikisource.org/wiki/%C5%92uvres_de_La_Rochefoucauld_-_T.1/R%C3%A9flexions_ou_sentences_et_maximes_morales#cite_ref-324:~:text=Celui%20qui%20croit%20pouvoir%20trouver%20en%20soi%2Dm%C3%AAme%20de%20quoi%20se%20passer%20de%20tout%20le%20monde%5B319%5D%20se%20trompe%20fort%C2%A0%3B%20mais%20celui%20qui%20croit%20qu%E2%80%99on%20ne%20peut%20se%20passer%20de%20lui%20se%20trompe%20encore%20davantage.%20(%C3%A9d.%201*.)">Source (French)</a>). Other translations:<br><br>

<blockquote>He that fansies such a sufficiency in himself, that he can live without all the World, is mightily mistaken; but he that imagines himself so necessary, that other people cannot live without him, is a great deal more mistaken.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://quod.lib.umich.edu/e/eebo/A49601.0001.001/1:6.202?rgn=div2;view=fulltext">Stanhope</a> (1694), ¶202]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>He who imagines he can do without the world, deceives himself much; but he who fancies the world cannot do without him, is still more mistaken.<br>
[ed. <a href="https://archive.org/details/maximsmoralrefle00larouoft/page/67/mode/1up">Lepoittevin-Lacroix</a> (1797), ¶192] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>He who imagines he can do without the world, deceives himself much: but he who fancies the world cannot do without him, is under a far greater deception. <br>
[ed. <a href="https://babel.hathitrust.org/cgi/pt?id=hvd.32044019833292&view=1up&seq=40&skin=2021&q1=%22without%20the%20world%22">Carvill</a> (1835), ¶81]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>He who thinks he can find in himself the means of doing without others is much mistaken; but he who thinks that others cannot do without him is still more mistaken.<br>
[ed. <a href="https://babel.hathitrust.org/cgi/pt?id=nyp.33433075829600&view=1up&seq=106&skin=2021&q1=210">Gowens</a> (1851), ¶210] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>He who thinks he has the power to content the world greatly deceives himself, but he who thinks that the world cannot be content with him deceives himself yet more.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://gutenberg.org/files/9105/9105-h/9105-h.htm#:~:text=He%20who%20thinks%20he%20has%20the%20power%20to%20content%20the%20world%20greatly%20deceives%20himself%2C%20but%20he%20who%20thinks%20that%20the%20world%20cannot%20be%20content%20with%20him%20deceives%20himself%20yet%20more.">Bund/Friswell</a> (1871), ¶201]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>The man who thinks he can do without the world errs; but the man who thinks the world can do without him is in still greater error.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Maxims_of_Le_Duc_de_La_Rochefoucauld/eq89AQAAMAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&pg=PA42&printsec=frontcover&dq=206">Heard</a> (1917), ¶206]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>It is a great mistake for a man to suppose that he can dispense with the world; but it is a much greater one to suppose that the world cannot dispense with him.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_Maxims_of_Fran%C3%A7ois_Duc_de_La_Rochef/MhZEAAAAYAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22a%20great%20mistake%20for%20a%20man%22">Stevens</a> (1939), ¶201]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>A man who believes that his inner resources are such that he can dispense with his fellow-men is committing a serious mistake: it is not, however, so serious as that of the man who believes himself indispensable to others.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/maximsofducdelar0000laro/page/70/mode/2up?q=%22a+man+who+believes%22">FitzGibbon</a> (1957), ¶201] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>The man who thinks he can do without the world is indeed mistaken: but the man who thinks the world cannot do without him is mistaken even worse.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/maximsoflarochef00laro/page/70/mode/2up?q=%22the+man+who+thinks%22">Kronenberger</a> (1959), ¶201] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>The man who thinks he can find enough in himself to be able to dispense with everybody else makes a great mistake, but the man who thinks he is indispensable to others makes an even greater.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/maxims0000laro/page/58/mode/2up?q=%22the+man+who+thinks+he+can%22">Tancock</a> (1959), ¶201]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>He who believes that he can make do without any one else in the world, is very mistaken; but he who believes that nobody in the world could make do without him, deceives himself still more greatly.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://thomaswhichello.com/a-translation-of-reflections-or-sentences-and-moral-maxims-by-francois-de-la-rochefoucauld/#:~:text=He%20who%20believes%20that%20he%20can%20make%20do%C2%A0without%20any%20one%20else%20in%20the%20world%2C%20is%20very%20mistaken%3B%20but%20he%20who%20believes%20that%20nobody%20in%20the%20world%C2%A0could%20make%20do%20without%20him%2C%20deceives%20himself%20still%20more%20greatly.">Whichello</a> (2016) ¶201]</blockquote><br>						</span>
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		<title>Antrim, Minna -- Sweethearts and Beaux (1905)</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Separations are the tonics of Love, but beware of overdoses.</p>
<br><b>Minna Antrim</b> (1861–1950) American epigrammatist, writer<br><i>Sweethearts and Beaux</i> (1905) 
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See <a href="/propertius/6952/">Propertius</a>.						</span>
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		<title>Thomas a Kempis -- The Imitation of Christ [De Imitatione Christi], Book 1, ch. 23, v.  1 (1.23.1) (c. 1418-27) [tr. Sherley-Price (1952)]</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today a man is here; tomorrow he is gone. And when he is out of sight, he is soon out of mind. [Hodie homo est, et cras non comparet. Cum autem sublatus fuerit ab oculis, etiam cito transit a mente.] See Marcus Aurelius (AD 180). (Source (Latin)). Other translations: For the common proverb is true: [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today a man is here; tomorrow he is gone. And when he is out of sight, he is soon out of mind.</p>
<p><em>[Hodie homo est, et cras non comparet. Cum autem sublatus fuerit ab oculis, etiam cito transit a mente.]</em></p>
<br><b>Thomas à Kempis</b> (c. 1380–1471) German-Dutch priest, author<br><i>The Imitation of Christ [De Imitatione Christi]</i>, Book 1, ch. 23, v.  1 (1.23.1) (c. 1418-27) [tr. Sherley-Price (1952)] 
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See <a href="/marcus-aureleus/79264/">Marcus Aurelius</a> (AD 180).

(<a href="https://www.thelatinlibrary.com/kempis/kempis1.shtml#:~:text=Hodie%20homo%20est%2C%20et%20cras%20non%20comparet.%20Cum%20autem%20sublatus%20fuerit%20ab%20oculis%2C%20etiam%20cito%20transit%20a%20mente.">Source (Latin)</a>). Other translations:<br><br>

<blockquote>For the common proverb is true: <i>To-day a man , to-morrow none.</i> And when thou art taken out of sight, thou art anon out of mind, and soon shalt thou be forgotten.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/in.ernet.dli.2015.219519/page/n107/mode/2up?q=%22taken+out+of+sight%22">Whitford/Raynal</a> (1530/1871)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>For the common proverb is true: Today a man; tomorrow none. When you are out of sight you are soon out of mind, and soon will be forgotten.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/imitationofchri200thom/page/62/mode/2up?q=%22out+of+sight%22">Whitford/Gardiner</a> (1530/1955)]</blockquote><br>



<blockquote>To day a man, tomorrow none, and out of sight, out of mind.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://quod.lib.umich.edu/e/eebo/A13699.0001.001/1:4.23?rgn=div2;view=fulltext#:~:text=To%20day%20a%0Aman%2C%20to%20morrow%20none%2C%20and%20out%20of%20sight%2C%0Aout%20of%20mind.">Page</a> (1639)]</blockquote><br>



<blockquote>To Day the Man is vigorous, and gay, and flourishing, and to Morrow he is cut down, withered and gone. A very little time carries him out of our Sight, and a very little more out of our Remembrance.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/christianspatte00thomgoog/page/n75/mode/2up?q=%22carries+him+out+of+our+Sight%22">Stanhope</a> (1696; 1706 ed.)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>To-day man is, and to-morrow he is not seen; And when he is once removed from the fight of others, he soon passeth from their remembrance.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/imitationchrist01kempgoog/page/n90/mode/2up?q=%22once+removed+from+the+fight%22">Payne</a> (1803)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>To-day the man is here; to-morrow he hath disappeared. And when he is out of sight, quickly also is he out of mind.<br>
[ed. <a href="https://archive.org/details/ofimitationofchr00thom_0/page/54/mode/2up?q=%22when+he+is+out+of+sight%22">Parker</a> (1841)] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Man is here to-day, and gone to-morrow: and when once removed from sight, soon perishes from remembrance.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Of_the_Imitation_of_Jesus_Christ/qBZwsQJdQ2QC?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22once%20removed%20from%20fight%22">Dibdin</a> (1851)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>A man is here to-day, and to-morrow he is no longer seen. And when he is taken away from the sight, he is also quickly out of mind.<br>
[ed. <a href="https://archive.org/details/ofimitationofchr00thom_2/page/42/mode/2up?q=%22taken+away+from+the+sight%22">Bagster</a> (1860)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>To-day man is, and to-morrow he will be seen no more. And being removed out of sight, quickly also he is out of mind.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://gutenberg.org/cache/epub/1653/pg1653-images.html#chap23:~:text=To%2Dday%20man%20is%2C%20and%20to%2Dmorrow%20he%20will%20be%20seen%20no%20more.%20And%20being%20removed%20out%20of%20sight%2C%20quickly%20also%20he%20is%20out%20of%20mind.">Benham</a> (1874)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>To-day we are here, to-morrow we disappear, and when we are gone, quickly also we are out of mind.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Of_the_Imitation_of_Christ/Book_I/Chapter_XXIII#:~:text=To%2Dday%20we%20are%20here%2C%20to%2Dmorrow%20we%20disappear%2C%20and%20when%20we%20are%20gone%2C%20quickly%20also%20we%20are%20out%20of%20mind.">Anon</a>. (1901)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Today we live; tomorrow we die and are quickly forgotten.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.leaderu.com/cyber/books/imitation/imb1c21-25.html#RTFToC61:~:text=Today%20we%20live%3B%20tomorrow%20we%20die%20and%20are%20quickly%20forgotten.">Croft/Bolton</a> (1940)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Today man is; and tomorrow he has vanished. But when he is taken out of sight he also soon passes out of mind.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/imitationofchris0000unse_r2o4/page/28/mode/2up?q=%22today+man+is%22">Daplyn</a> (1952)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Here man is today; tomorrow, he is lost to view; and once a man is out of sight, it's not long before he passes out of mind.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/imitationofchris00knox/page/56/mode/2up?q=%22here+man+is+today%22">Knox-Oakley</a> (1959)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>A man is here today and gone tomorrow, and once he is out of our sight it is not long before he is out of our minds as well.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/imitationofchris0000thom_o4e9/page/72/mode/2up?q=%22a+man+is+here%22">Knott</a> (1962)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Today a man is and tomorrow he is gone. When he has been removed from our sight he is soon out of mind as well.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/imitationofchris0000unse_e5i0/page/32/mode/2up?q=%22today+a+man+is%22">Rooney</a> (1979)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Today we are, and tomorrow we are gone. And when we are taken out of sight, we soon pass out of mind.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_Imitation_of_Christ/JI7AA0GAbUgC?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22out%20of%20sight%22">Creasy</a> (1989)]</blockquote><br>
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		<title>Bukowski, Charles -- Hollywood, ch. 4 (1989)</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Money is like sex. It seems much more important when you don&#8217;t have any.</p>
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<br><b>Charles Bukowski</b> (1920–1994) German-American author, poet<br><i>Hollywood</i>, ch. 4 (1989) 
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		<title>Teller, Edward -- Memoirs, ch. 5 (2002)</title>
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<br><b>Edward Teller</b> (1908–2003) Hungarian-American theoretical physicist <br><i>Memoirs</i>, ch. 5 (2002) 
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		<title>Ciardi, John -- &#8220;Of Time and Chances: A Parental Reverie,&#8221; Saturday Review (1972-03-18)</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Every parent is at some time the father of the unreturned prodigal, with nothing to do but keep his house open to hope.</p>
<br><b>John Ciardi</b> (1916–1986) American poet, writer, critic<br>&#8220;Of Time and Chances: A Parental Reverie,&#8221; <i>Saturday Review</i> (1972-03-18) 
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		<title>Mirabeau, Victor de -- (Attributed)</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Short absence quickens love; long absence kills it.</p>
<br><b>Victor de Riqueti, Marquis de Mirabeau</b> (1715–1786) French economist <br>(Attributed) 
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<a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/A_Thousand_Flashes_of_French_Wit_Wisdom/Ris3AAAAMAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&dq=mirabeau%20%22short%20absence%20quickens%22&pg=PA1&printsec=frontcover&bsq=mirabeau%20%22short%20absence%20quickens%22">Attributed</a> in J. De Finod (ed. and tr.), <i>A Thousand Flashes of French Wit, Wisdom, and Wickedness</i> (1881)<br><br>

See <a href="/propertius/6952/">Propertius</a>.						</span>
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		<title>Stark, Freya Madeline -- The Freya Stark Story (1953)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Absence is one of the most useful ingredients of family life, and to do it rightly is an art like any other. See Propertius.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Absence is one of the most useful ingredients of family life, and to do it rightly is an art like any other. </p>
<br><b>Freya Stark</b> (1893–1993) Franco-British explorer, travel writer [Freya Madeline Stark]<br><i>The Freya Stark Story</i> (1953) 
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See <a href="/propertius/6952/">Propertius</a>.						</span>
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		<title>Millay, Edna St. Vincent -- Letter to Whitter &#8220;Hal&#8221; Bynner and Arthur Davidson Ficke (1920)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Where you used to be, there is a hole in the world, which I find myself constantly walking around in the day-time, and falling into at night.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Where you used to be, there is a hole in the world, which I find myself constantly walking around in the day-time, and falling into at night. </p>
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<br><b>Edna St. Vincent Millay</b> (1892–1950) American poet<br>Letter to Whitter &#8220;Hal&#8221; Bynner and Arthur Davidson Ficke (1920) 
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		<title>~Other -- Anne Shaw, But Such Is Life (1931)</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Oct 2017 00:13:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Fond as we are of our loved ones, there comes at times during their absence an unexplained peace. See Propertius.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fond as we are of our loved ones, there comes at times during their absence an unexplained peace. </p>
<br>(Other Authors and Sources)<br>Anne Shaw, <i>But Such Is Life</i> (1931) 
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		<title>Reade, Charles -- Foul Play, ch. 44 (1869)</title>
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<br><b>Charles Reade</b> (1814–1884) English novelist and dramatist<br><i>Foul Play</i>, ch. 44 (1869) 
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		<title>Ouida -- Friendship, ch. 11 (1878)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The longest absence is less perilous to love than the terrible trials of incessant proximity. Often attributed to Edna St. Vincent Millay (1892-1950). See Propertius.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The longest absence is less perilous to love than the terrible trials of incessant proximity.</p>
<br><b>Ouida</b> (1839–1908) English novelist [pseud. of Maria Louise Ramé]<br><i>Friendship</i>, ch. 11 (1878) 
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<a href="https://www.literaryladiesguide.com/author-quotes/quotes-by-edna-st-vincent-millay/#:~:text=The%20longest%20absence%20is%20less%20perilous%20to%20love%20than%20the%20terrible%20trials%20of%20incessant%20proximity">Often</a> <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Roget_s_Thesaurus_of_Words_for_Intellect/cg_tDQAAQBAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&dq=millay+%22trials+of+incessant+proximity%22&pg=PA350&printsec=frontcover">attributed</a> to <a href="/author/millay-edna-st-vincent/">Edna St. Vincent Millay</a> (1892-1950).<br><br>

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		<title>~Proverbs and Sayings -- English proverb</title>
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<br><b>Proverbs, Sayings, and Adages</b><br>English proverb 
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		<title>Lamartine, Alphonse de -- &#8220;Solitude [L&#8217;isolement],&#8221;Poetic Meditations [Méditations Poétiques] (1820) [tr. J. Churchill]</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The cots, the palaces and valleys here, Are nought to me, their charm, alas! is fled; Floods, rocks, and forests, solitudes so dear One soul is wanting, and all else seems dead [Que me font ces vallons, ces palais, ces chaumières, Vains objets dont pour moi le charme est envolé? Fleuves, rochers, forêts solitudes si [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The cots, the palaces and valleys here,<br />
Are nought to me, their charm, alas! is fled;<br />
Floods, rocks, and forests, solitudes so dear<br />
One soul is wanting, and all else seems dead</p>
<p><em>[Que me font ces vallons, ces palais, ces chaumières,<br />
Vains objets dont pour moi le charme est envolé?<br />
Fleuves, rochers, forêts solitudes si chères,<br />
Un seul être vous manque et tout est dépeuplé!]</em></p>
<br><b>Alphonse de Lamartine</b> (1790–1869) French poet and statesman<br>&#8220;Solitude <i>[L&#8217;isolement]</i>,&#8221;<i>Poetic Meditations [Méditations Poétiques]</i> (1820) [tr. J. Churchill] 
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Alt. trans. ["Isolation"]:<br>
"What for me do these valleys, these palaces, these cottages,<br>
Vain objects of which for me the charm has fled?<br>
Streams, rocks, forests, solitudes so dear,<br>
One single being from you is missing, and everything is depopulated."<br><br>

Alt. trans.:<br>
"Sometimes, when one person is missing, the whole world seems depopulated."						</span>
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		<title>Johnson, Samuel -- Essay (1758-09-23), The Idler, No.  23</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Friendship, like love, is destroyed by long absence, though it may be increased by short intermissions.</p>
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<br><b>Samuel Johnson</b> (1709–1784) English writer, lexicographer, critic<br>Essay (1758-09-23), <i>The Idler</i>, No.  23 
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See <a href="/propertius/6952/">Propertius</a>.

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		<title>Cowper, William -- &#8220;Hope, like the short-lived ray that gleams awhile&#8221;</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Absence from whom we love is worse than death,<br />
And frustrate hope severer than despair.</p>
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<br><b>William Cowper</b> (1731–1800) English poet<br>&#8220;Hope, like the short-lived ray that gleams awhile&#8221; 
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		<title>Cervantes, Miguel de -- Don Quixote, Part 1, Book 3, ch. 10 (1605) [tr. Motteux (1701)]</title>
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<br><b>Miguel de Cervantes</b> (1547–1616) Spanish novelist<br><i>Don Quixote</i>, Part 1, Book 3, ch. 10 (1605) [tr. Motteux (1701)] 
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See <a href="/propertius/6952/">Propertius</a>.						</span>
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		<title>Bowen, Elizabeth -- The Death of the Heart (1938)</title>
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<br><b>Elizabeth Bowen</b> (1899–1973) Irish author<br><i>The Death of the Heart</i> (1938) 
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See <a href="/propertius/6952/">Propertius</a>.						</span>
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		<title>Scalzi, John -- Old Man&#8217;s War (2005)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[For as much as I hate the cemetery, I&#8217;ve been grateful it&#8217;s here, too. I miss my wife. It&#8217;s easier to miss her at a cemetery, where she&#8217;s never been anything but dead, than to miss her in all the places where she was alive.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For as much as I hate the cemetery, I&#8217;ve been grateful it&#8217;s here, too. I miss my wife. It&#8217;s easier to miss her at a cemetery, where she&#8217;s never been anything but dead, than to miss her in all the places where she was alive.</p>
<br><b>John Scalzi</b> (b. 1969) American writer<br><i>Old Man&#8217;s War</i> (2005) 
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		<title>Huxley, Aldous -- Beyond the Mexique Bay (1934)</title>
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<br><b>Aldous Huxley</b> (1894–1963) English novelist, essayist and critic<br><i>Beyond the Mexique Bay</i> (1934) 
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		<title>Propertius -- Elegies, Book 2, Elegy 33, l.  41ff (2.33.41-44) [tr. Moore (1870); 3.25]</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yet loneliness shall weary thee, and still Love torture thee with longings nought can fill. Absence makes passion&#8217;s tide have double sway, Possession cloys the love of every day. [Nulla tamen lecto recipit se sola libenter: Est quiddam, quod vos quaerere cogat Amor. Semper in absentes felicior aestus amantes: Elevat assiduos copia longa viros.] This [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yet loneliness shall weary thee, and still<br />
Love torture thee with longings nought can fill.<br />
<span class="tab">Absence makes passion&#8217;s tide have double sway,<br />
Possession cloys the love of every day.</p>
<p><em>[Nulla tamen lecto recipit se sola libenter:<br />
<span class="tab">Est quiddam, quod vos quaerere cogat Amor.<br />
Semper in absentes felicior aestus amantes:<br />
<span class="tab">Elevat assiduos copia longa viros.]</span></span></em></span></p>
<br><b>Propertius</b> (50–16 BC) Roman elegiac poet [Sextus Propertius]<br><i>Elegies</i>, Book 2, Elegy 33, l.  41ff (2.33.41-44) [tr. Moore (1870); 3.25] 
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This quote (the third line) appears to be the origin of the English proverb, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder."  The first use of those exact words appear to be from a song by T. H. Bayly, "Isle of Beauty, Fare Thee Well" (1826?). For more discussion of the origin (and variants) of that phrase see <a href="https://english.stackexchange.com/questions/139744/who-is-the-author-of-absence-makes-the-heart-grow-fonder" title="etymology - Who is the author of &quot;Absence makes the heart grow fonder&quot;? - English Language &amp; Usage Stack Exchange">etymology - Who is the author of &quot;Absence makes the heart grow fonder&quot;? - English Language &amp; Usage Stack Exchange</a>.<br><br>

Not surprisingly, the idea of absence increasing (or decreasing) ardor is a a frequently discussed theme. See <a href="https://wist.info/montaigne-michel-de/84773/">Montaigne</a> (1587); <a href="https://wist.info/proverbs/37870/">English Proverb</a>; <a href="https://wist.info/cervantes-miguel-de/37551/">Cervantes</a> (1605); <a href="https://wist.info/rabutin-roger/801/">Rabutin</a> (1660); <a href="https://wist.info/la-rochefoucauld-francois/2384/">La Rochefoucauld</a> (1678); <a href="https://wist.info/johnson-samuel/37697/">Johnson</a> (1758); <a href="https://wist.info/mirabeau-victor-de/42400/">Mirabeau</a> (1770); <a href="https://wist.info/ouida/37905/">Ouida</a> (1878); <a href="https://wist.info/antrim-minna/74843/">Antrim</a> (1905); <a href="https://wist.info/other/38028/">Shaw</a> (1931); <a href="https://wist.info/bowen-elizabeth/37298/">Bowen</a> (1938); <a href="https://wist.info/stark-freya-madeline/38092/">Stark</a> (1953).<br><br>

Propertius' elegies, as handed down, are something of a mess, and the assignment to them in particular books has been of sharp debate.  This passage is currently considered a fragment, connected to 2.33 (and called 2.33A, or 2.33B, or 2.33C by different translators); similarly, the line numbering is sometimes carried across the entire 2.33, other times broken between the fragments. This fragmentary nature is also why the two couplets here appear in different order between different translations.<br><br>

Nineteenth Century sources, based on the manuscript traditions of the time, assign this as 3.25.<br><br>

(<a href="https://www.thelatinlibrary.com/prop2.html#33a:~:text=nulla%20tamen%20lecto%20recipit%20se%20sola%20libenter%3A%0A%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0est%20quiddam%2C%20quod%20vos%20quaerere%20cogat%20Amor.%0Asemper%20in%20absentis%20felicior%20aestus%20amantis%3A%0A%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0%C2%A0elevat%20assiduos%20copia%20longa%20viros.">Source (Latin)</a>). Other translations:<br><br>


<blockquote>Yet loath to bed her way lone maiden wends,<br>
<span class="tab">Love keeps her brooding o'er forbidden joys;<br>
More deeply yearns the heart for absent friends:<br>
<span class="tab">Even of the leal [loyal] the long possession cloys.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://babel.hathitrust.org/cgi/pt?id=hvd.32044010369999&seq=374&q1=%22loath+to+bed%22">Cranstoun</a> (1875); 3.25]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>But no one retires with good will to her solitary couch. There is something that Love forces you to miss. There is always a more favourable disposition towards absent lovers; long possession lowers the value even of the devoted. <br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/elegies00prop/page/70/mode/2up?q=%22always+a+more%22">Gantillon</a> (1884);  3.25]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote><span class="tab">No woman takes herself cheerfully to bed alone though: there is something which Love makes you fain to look for.<br>
<span class="tab">Desire always burns kindlier toward absent lovers: long plenty of opportunity makes cheap the never-failing suitor.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://babel.hathitrust.org/cgi/pt?id=uc2.ark:/13960/t83j3gr9k&seq=104&q1=%22burns+kindlier%22">Phillimore</a> (1906); 2.33]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Yet no woman ever betakes her willingly to a lonely bed; there is a somewhat that Love compels all to seek. Woman's heart is kinder always towards absent lovers; long possession takes from the worth of the persistent wooer.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/LoebClassicalLibraryL018/page/n185/mode/2up?q=%22absent+lovers%22">Butler</a> (Loeb) (1912); 2.33]</blockquote><br>




<blockquote>No woman's bed is by her own choice lonely;<br>
love marks the goal toward wich all men must strive;<br>
the restless heart swings toward the absent lover.<br>
It is not constancy keeps love live.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/poemsofpropertiu0000unse_a4j4/page/110/mode/2up?q=%22no+woman%27s+bed%22">Carrier</a> (1963); 2.33]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Yet no girl likes to retire to a lonely bed;<br>
They all, at Love's insistance, look for something more.<br>
For the lover who's missing the tide of passion runs strong;<br>
The length of his tenure serves to diminish<br>
The constant lover.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/propertius-elegies-musker.txt/page/123/mode/2up?q=%22yet+no+girl+likes%22">Musker</a> (1972); 2.33B]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Woman's heart is ever fonder towards an absent lover: long possession lessens the appeal of the persistent wooer. Yet no woman willingly retires to bed alone: there is something which Love compels you all to seek.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/elegiespropertiu0000prop/page/208/mode/2up?q=%22towards+an+absent+lover%22">Goold</a> (Loeb) (1990); frag. 2.33C]</blockquote><br>



<blockquote>Passion is always warmer towards absent lovers; <br>
<span class="tab">Availability cheapens men-in-waiting. <br>
Still, no girl likes retiring to a lonely bed; <br>
<span class="tab">At love's insistence you all miss something else.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/poems0000prop_b2d5/page/68/mode/2up?q=%22passion+is+always%22">Lee</a> (1992); 2.33B]</blockquote><br>




<blockquote>No girl ever willingly goes to bed alone: something there is desire leads us all to search for.  Passion is often greater in absent lovers: endless presence reduces the man who’s always around.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.poetryintranslation.com/PITBR/Latin/PropertiusBkTwo.php#anchor_Toc201112290:~:text=No%20girl%20ever%20willingly%20goes%20to%20bed%20alone%3A%20something%20there%20is%20desire%20leads%20us%20all%20to%20search%20for.%20Passion%20is%20often%20greater%20in%20absent%20lovers%3A%20endless%20presence%20reduces%20the%20man%20who%E2%80%99s%20always%20around.">Kline</a> (2001); 2.33A]</blockquote><br>



<blockquote>Passion helps the absent lover: long persistence <br>
<span class="tab">elevates the assiduous man.<br>
No man gladly goes to bed alone, for Amor<br>
<span class="tab">gives us something all must seek. <br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.ocasopress.com/pdf/sextus_propertius_elegies_translation.pdf#page=193">Holcombe</a> (2009); frag. 2.33C]</blockquote><br> 


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		<title>La Rochefoucauld, Francois -- Réflexions ou sentences et maximes morales [Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims], ¶276 (1665-1678) [tr. Stevens (1939)]</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Absence weakens ordinary passions, but inflames great ones, as the wind extinguishes a candle, but fans a fire. [L’absence diminue les médiocres passions, et augmente les grandes, comme le vent éteint les bougies et allume le feu.] Present in the 1st (1665) edition. The manuscript reads: L’absence fait que les médiocres passions diminuent, et que [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Absence weakens ordinary passions, but inflames great ones, as the wind extinguishes a candle, but fans a fire.</p>
<p><em>[L’absence diminue les médiocres passions, et augmente les grandes, comme le vent éteint les bougies et allume le feu.]</em></p>
<br><b>François VI, duc de La Rochefoucauld</b> (1613–1680) French epigrammatist, memoirist, noble<br><i>Réflexions ou sentences et maximes morales [Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims]</i>, ¶276 (1665-1678) [tr. Stevens (1939)] 
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Present in the <a href="https://fr.wikisource.org/wiki/%C5%92uvres_de_La_Rochefoucauld_-_T.1/R%C3%A9flexions_ou_sentences_et_maximes_morales#cite_ref-456:~:text=allume%20le%20feu.-,(%C3%A9d.%201*.),-CCLXXVII">1st (1665) edition</a>. The <a href="https://fr.wikisource.org/wiki/%C5%92uvres_de_La_Rochefoucauld_-_T.1/R%C3%A9flexions_ou_sentences_et_maximes_morales#cite_note-456:~:text=L%E2%80%99absence%20fait%20que%20les%20m%C3%A9diocres%20passions%20diminuent%2C%20et%20que%20les%20grandes%20croissent%2C%20comme%20le%20vent%20%C3%A9teint%E2%80%A6%20(Manuscrit.)">manuscript</a> reads:<br><br>

<blockquote><em>L’absence fait que les médiocres passions diminuent, et que les grandes croissent, comme le vent éteint les bougies et allume le feu.</em></blockquote><br>

See <a href="https://wist.info/rabutin-roger/801/">Bussy-Rabutin</a> (1660), and a related theme from <a href="https://wist.info/propertius/6952/">Propertius</a> (c. 20 BC). <br><br>

(<a href="https://fr.wikisource.org/wiki/%C5%92uvres_de_La_Rochefoucauld_-_T.1/R%C3%A9flexions_ou_sentences_et_maximes_morales#:~:text=L%E2%80%99absence%20diminue%20les%20m%C3%A9diocres%20passions%2C%20et%20augmente%20les%20grandes%2C%20comme%20le%20vent%20%C3%A9teint%5B446%5D%20les%20bougies%2C%20et%20allume%20le%20feu.">Source (French)</a>). Other translations:<br><br>

<blockquote>Absence cools Moderate Passions, and Enflames Violent ones; Just as the Wind blows out Candles, but Kindles Fires.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://quod.lib.umich.edu/e/eebo/A49601.0001.001/1:6.277?rgn=div2;view=fulltext">Stanhope</a> (1694), ¶277; (<a href="https://archive.org/details/moralmaximsrefle00larouoft/page/86/mode/2up?q=absence">1706</a>), ¶276]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Absence destroys small passions, and increases great ones; as the wind extinguishes tapers, and kindles fires.<br>
[pub. <a href="https://archive.org/details/maximsandmoralr00rochgoog/page/n105/mode/2up?q=fires">Donaldson</a> (1783), ¶334; ed. <a href="https://archive.org/details/maximsmoralrefle00larouoft/page/94/mode/2up">Lepoittevin-Lacroix</a> (1797), ¶257]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Absence destroys small passions, and increases great ones; the wind extinguishes tapers, and kindles fires.<br>
[ed. <a href="https://babel.hathitrust.org/cgi/pt?id=hvd.32044019833292&view=2up&seq=82&skin=2021&q1=absence">Carvill</a> (1835), ¶295]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Absence diminishes moderate passions and increases great ones, as the wind extinguishes tapers and adds fury to fire.<br>
[ed. <a href="https://babel.hathitrust.org/cgi/pt?id=nyp.33433075829600&view=2up&seq=131&skin=2021&q1=absence">Gowens</a> (1851), ¶286] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Absence extinguishes small passions and increases great ones, as the wind will blow out a candle, and blow in a fire.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://gutenberg.org/files/9105/9105-h/9105-h.htm#:~:text=Absence%20extinguishes%20small%20passions%20and%20increases%20great%20ones%2C%20as%20the%20wind%20will%20blow%20out%20a%20candle%2C%20and%20blow%20in%20a%20fire.">Bund/Friswell</a> (1871), ¶276] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>The same wind snuffs candles yet kindles fires; so, where absence kills a little love, it fans a great one.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Maxims_of_Le_Duc_de_La_Rochefoucauld/eq89AQAAMAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22absence%20kills%22">Heard</a> (1917), ¶284]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Absence diminishes small loves and increases great ones, as the wind blows out the candle and blows up the bonfire.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/maximsofducdelar0000laro/page/86/mode/2up?q=276">FitzGibbon</a> (1957), ¶276] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Absence weakens lukewarm feelings but intensifies great ones, as wind snuffs out candles but feeds fire.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/maximsoflarochef00laro/page/86/mode/2up?q=%22absence+weakens%22">Kronenberger</a> (1959), ¶276]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Absence lessens moderate passions and intensifies great ones, as the wind blows out a candle but fans up a fire.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/maxims0000laro/page/70/mode/2up?q=%22276+absence%22">Tancock</a> (1959), ¶276]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Absence diminishes mediocre passions and increases great ones, as the wind blows out candles and fans fire.<br>
<a href="https://archive.org/details/familiarquotatio0000unse_m9v7/mode/2up?q=%22Absence+diminishes+mediocre+passions%22">Bartlett's</a> (1980), ¶276; < <a href="https://archive.org/details/regulus1973newt/page/138/mode/2up?q=%22Absence+diminishes+mediocre+passions%22">1973</a>?)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Absence diminishes moderate passions and magnifies great ones, as the wind blows out candles but kindles fire.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://thomaswhichello.com/a-translation-of-reflections-or-sentences-and-moral-maxims-by-francois-de-la-rochefoucauld/#:~:text=Absence%20diminishes%20moderate%C2%A0passions%20and%20magnifies%20great%20ones%2C%20as%20the%20wind%20blows%20out%20candles%20but%20kindles%20fire.">Whichello</a> (2016) ¶276]</blockquote><br>						</span>
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		<title>Bussy-Rabutin, Roger -- Histoire amoureuse des Gaules, &#8220;Maximes d&#8217;amour [Maxims of Love]&#8221; (1660)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Absence is to love what wind is to fire; It extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great. [L&#8217;absence est a l&#8217;amour ce qu&#8217;est au feu le vent; Il eteint le petit, il allume le grand.] See La Rochefoucauld (1665), and in a similar theme, Propertius.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Absence is to love what wind is to fire;<br />
It extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great.</p>
<p><em>[L&#8217;absence est a l&#8217;amour ce qu&#8217;est au feu le vent;<br />
Il eteint le petit, il allume le grand.]</em></p>
<br><b>Roger de Rabutin, Comte de Bussy</b> (1618–1693) French soldier, libertine, writer [a.k.a. Roger Bussy-Rabutin]<br><i>Histoire amoureuse des Gaules</i>, <i>&#8220;Maximes d&#8217;amour</i> [Maxims of Love]&#8221; (1660) 
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		<title>Mead, Margaret -- (Attributed)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the oldest human needs is having someone to wonder where you are when you don&#8217;t come home at night. Sometimes given &#8220;Having someone wonder where you are when you don&#8217;t come home at night is a very old human need.&#8221;]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the oldest human needs is having someone to wonder where you are when you don&#8217;t come home at night.</p>
<br><b>Margaret Mead</b> (1901–1978) American anthropologist<br>(Attributed) 
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Sometimes given "Having someone wonder where you are when you don't come home at night is a very old human need."
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