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		<title>La Rochefoucauld, Francois -- Réflexions ou sentences et maximes morales [Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims], ¶199 (1665-1678) [tr. Tancock (1959)]</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Desire to appear clever often prevents our becoming so. [Le désir de paraître habile empêche souvent de le devenir.] Found in the 1st (1665) ed. In manuscript, it added: &#8230; parce qu’on songe plus à le paroître aux autres qu’à être effectivement ce qu’il faut être. &#160; [&#8230; because we think more about appearing so [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Desire to appear clever often prevents our becoming so.</p>
<p><em>[Le désir de paraître habile empêche souvent de le devenir.]</em></p>
<br><b>François VI, duc de La Rochefoucauld</b> (1613-1680) French epigrammatist, memoirist, noble<br><i>Réflexions ou sentences et maximes morales [Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims]</i>, ¶199 (1665-1678) [tr. Tancock (1959)] 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://archive.org/details/maxims0000laro/page/58/mode/2up?q=199" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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Found in the 1st (1665) ed. In <a href="https://fr.wikisource.org/wiki/%C5%92uvres_de_La_Rochefoucauld_-_T.1/R%C3%A9flexions_ou_sentences_et_maximes_morales#cite_note-323:~:text=parce%20qu%E2%80%99on%20songe%20plus%20%C3%A0%20le%20paro%C3%AEtre%20aux%20autres%20qu%E2%80%99%C3%A0%20%C3%AAtre%20effectivement%20ce%20qu%E2%80%99il%20faut%20%C3%AAtre.">manuscript</a>, it added:<br><br>

<blockquote>... parce qu’on songe plus à le paroître aux autres qu’à être effectivement ce qu’il faut être.
&nbsp;
[... because we think more about appearing so to others than actually being what we must be.]</blockquote><br>

The theme of seeming/appearing runs all through La Rochefoucauld's maxims. See also ¶<a href="/la-rochefoucauld-francois/74642/">127</a>, ¶<a href="/la-rochefoucauld-francois/2368/">134</a>, ¶<a href="/la-rochefoucauld-francois/7157/">245</a>, ¶<a href="https://gutenberg.org/files/9105/9105-h/9105-h.htm#:~:text=Nothing%20prevents%20our%20being%20unaffected%20so%20much%20as%20our%20desire%20to%20seem%20so.">431</a>, ¶<a href="https://gutenberg.org/files/9105/9105-h/9105-h.htm#:~:text=We%20should%20gain%20more%20by%20letting%20the%20world%20see%20what%20we%20are%20than%20by%20trying%20to%20seem%20what%20we%20are%20not.">457</a>.<br><br>

(<a href="https://fr.wikisource.org/wiki/%C5%92uvres_de_La_Rochefoucauld_-_T.1/R%C3%A9flexions_ou_sentences_et_maximes_morales#:~:text=Le%20d%C3%A9sir%20de%20paro%C3%AEtre%20habile%20emp%C3%AAche%20souvent%20de%20le%20devenir">Source (French)</a>). Other translations:<br><br>

<blockquote>The desire to be thought a wise Man, oftentimes hinders ones coming to be really such.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://quod.lib.umich.edu/e/eebo/A49601.0001.001/1:6.200?rgn=div2;view=fulltext">Stanhope</a> (1694), ¶200]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>The desire of appearing to be persons of ability often prevents our being so.<br>
[pub. <a href="https://archive.org/details/maximsandmoralr00rochgoog/page/n15/mode/2up?q=%22dcfirt+of+appearing%22">Donaldson</a> (1783), ¶1, ed. <a href="https://archive.org/details/maximsmoralrefle00larouoft/page/67/mode/1up">Lepoittevin-Lacroix</a> (1797), ¶190] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>Never are we made so ridiculous by the qualities we have, as by those we affect to have. An affectation of wisdom often prevents our becoming wise.<br>
[ed. <a href="https://babel.hathitrust.org/cgi/pt?id=hvd.32044019833292&view=1up&seq=20&skin=2021&q1=wise">Carvill</a> (1835), ¶19]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>The desire of appearing clever often prevents our becoming so. <br>
[ed. <a href="https://babel.hathitrust.org/cgi/pt?id=nyp.33433075829600&view=2up&seq=104&skin=2021&q1=appearing">Gowens</a> (1851), ¶208]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>The desire to appear clever often prevents our being so.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://gutenberg.org/files/9105/9105-h/9105-h.htm#:~:text=The%20desire%20to%20appear%20clever%20often%20prevents%20our%20being%20so.">Bund/Friswell</a> (1871), ¶199; tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Maxims_of_Fran%C3%A7ois_Duc_de_La_Rochefouca/7RtLAQAAIAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=desire%20prevents">Stevens</a> (1939), ¶199]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>The desire to appear clever often prevents a man from being so.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/maximsofducdelar0000laro/page/70/mode/2up?q=%22199%22">FitzGibbon</a> (1957), ¶199] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>The desire to seem clever often prevents our being so.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://archive.org/details/maximsoflarochef00laro/page/68/mode/2up?q=%22desire+to+seem+clever%22">Kronenberger</a> (1959), ¶199] </blockquote><br>

<blockquote>The desire to <i>appear</i> intelligent, often prevents us from actually becoming so.<br>
[tr. <a href="https://thomaswhichello.com/a-translation-of-reflections-or-sentences-and-moral-maxims-by-francois-de-la-rochefoucauld/#:~:text=The%20desire%20to%20appear%C2%A0intelligent%2C%20often%20prevents%20us%20from%20actually%20becoming%20so.">Whichello</a> (2016) ¶199]</blockquote><br>						</span>
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		<title>Billings, Josh -- Everybody&#8217;s Friend, Or; Josh Billing&#8217;s Encyclopedia and Proverbial Philosophy of Wit and Humor, ch. 156 &#8220;Affurisms: Embers on the Harth&#8221; (1874)</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>“Happy as a king,”</i> iz a libel on happiness, and on the king to.</p>
<p><i>[&#8220;Happy as a king,&#8221;</i> is a libel on happiness, and on the king, too.]</p>
<br><b>Josh Billings</b> (1818-1885) American humorist, aphorist [pseud. of Henry Wheeler Shaw]<br><i>Everybody&#8217;s Friend, Or; Josh Billing&#8217;s Encyclopedia and Proverbial Philosophy of Wit and Humor</i>, ch. 156 &#8220;Affurisms: Embers on the Harth&#8221; (1874) 
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		<title>Rothfuss, Patrick -- The Name of the Wind, ch. 92 &#8220;The Music That Plays&#8221; [Bast] (2007)</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You see, there’s a fundamental connection between seeming and being. Every Fae child knows this, but you mortals never seem to see. We understand how dangerous a mask can be. We all become what we pretend to be.</p>
<br><b>Patrick Rothfuss</b> (b. 1973) American author<br><i>The Name of the Wind</i>, ch. 92 &#8220;The Music That Plays&#8221; [Bast] (2007) 
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		<title>Cicero, Marcus Tullius -- Laelius De Amicitia [Laelius on Friendship], ch. 26 / sec. 98 (44 BC)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Few are those who wish to be endowed with virtue rather than to seem so. [Virtute enim ipsa non tam multi praediti esse quam videri volunt.] Common translation. Alternates: &#8220;For not so many desire to be endowed with virtue itself, as to seem to be so.&#8221; [tr. Edmonds (1871)] &#8220;For there are not so many [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Few are those who wish to be endowed with virtue rather than to seem so.</p>
<p><em>[Virtute enim ipsa non tam multi praediti esse quam videri volunt.]</em></p>
<br><b>Marcus Tullius Cicero</b> (106-43 BC) Roman orator, statesman, philosopher<br><i>Laelius De Amicitia [Laelius on Friendship]</i>, ch. 26 / sec. 98 (44 BC) 
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Common translation. Alternates:<ul>
<br>

	<li>"For not so many desire to be endowed with virtue itself, as to seem to be so." [tr. <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Cicero_s_Three_Books_of_Offices_and_Othe/xZEZAAAAYAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&pg=PA211&printsec=frontcover&bsq=%22not%20so%20many%20desire%22">Edmonds</a> (1871)]</li>


	<li>"For there are not so many possessed of virtue as there are that desire to seem virtuous." [tr. <a href="https://oll.libertyfund.org/title/cicero-on-friendship-de-amicitia#Cicero_0041-03_123:~:text=for%20there%20are%20not%20so%20many%20possessed%20of%20virtue%20as%20there%20are%20that%20desire%20to%20seem%20virtuous.">Peabody</a> (1887)]</li>


	<li>"For many wish not so much to be, as to seem to be, endowed with real virtue." [tr. <a href="http://www.perseus.tufts.edu/hopper/text?doc=Perseus%3Atext%3A2007.01.0041%3Asection%3D98#text_main:~:text=For%20many%20wish%20not%20so%20much%20to%20be%2C%20as%20to%20seem%20to%20be%2C%20endowed%20with%20real%20virtue.">Falconer</a> (1923)]</li>
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		<title>Shakespeare, William -- Merchant of Venice, Act 2, sc. 7, l.  73ff [Morocco] (1597)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[MOROCCO: All that glisters is not gold; Often have you heard that told. Usually modernized as &#8220;All that glitters is not gold.&#8221; See Herbert.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="hangingindent">MOROCCO: All that glisters is not gold;<br />
Often have you heard that told.</p>
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<br><b>William Shakespeare</b> (1564-1616) English dramatist and poet<br><i>Merchant of Venice</i>, Act 2, sc. 7, l.  73ff [Morocco] (1597) 
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Usually modernized as "All that glitters is not gold."<br><br>

See <a href="https://wist.info/herbert-george/70571/">Herbert</a>.						</span>
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		<title>Hawthorne, Nathaniel -- The Scarlet Letter, ch. 17 (1850)</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have laughed in bitterness and agony of heart, at the contrast between what I seem and what I am! </p>
<br><b>Nathaniel Hawthorne</b> (1804-1864) American writer<br><i>The Scarlet Letter</i>, ch. 17 (1850) 
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