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		<title>Howell, James -- Paroimiographia [Παροιμιογραφία]: Proverbs, or, Old Sayed Sawes &#038; Adages, &#8220;English Proverbs&#8221; (1659) [compiler]</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Words cutt more than swords. A common proverbial concept before and after. See also the Bible, Shakespeare (1590), Shakespeare (1598), Herbert (1640), Franklin (1744), Irving (1820), Lowell (1914), Sarton (1973), Fry (1997), Ginott (2003).]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Words cutt more than swords.</p>
<br><b>James Howell</b> (c. 1594–1666) Welsh historian and writer<br><i>Paroimiographia [Παροιμιογραφία]: Proverbs, or, Old Sayed Sawes &#038; Adages</i>, &#8220;English Proverbs&#8221; (1659) [compiler] 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://babel.hathitrust.org/cgi/pt?id=njp.32101037070743&seq=639&q1=%22vvORDS+cutt%22" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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A common proverbial concept before and after.  See also the <a href="https://wist.info/bible-ot/5926/">Bible</a>, <a href="https://wist.info/shakespeare-william/37567/">Shakespeare</a> (1590), <a href="https://wist.info/shakespeare-william/21110/">Shakespeare</a> (1598), <a href="https://wist.info/herbert-george/36229/">Herbert</a> (1640), <a href="https://wist.info/franklin-benjamin/35980/">Franklin</a> (1744), <a href="https://wist.info/irving-washington/36292/">Irving</a> (1820), <a href="https://wist.info/lowell-amy/37423/">Lowell</a> (1914), <a href="https://wist.info/sarton-may/49502/">Sarton</a> (1973), <a href="https://wist.info/fry-stephen/64144/">Fry</a> (1997), <a href="https://wist.info/ginott-haim/68361/">Ginott</a> (2003).






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		<title>Thurber, James -- Interview (1959-03-24) by Edward R. Murrow, Small World, CBS-TV</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[By definition, humor is gentle. The savage, the cruel, the harsh would fall under the heading of wit and/or satire, as the lawyers say. Now, my definitions are these: The wit makes fun of other persons; the satirist makes fun of the world; the humorist makes fun of himself, but in so doing, he identifies [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>By definition, humor is gentle. The savage, the cruel, the harsh would fall under the heading of wit and/or satire, as the lawyers say. Now, my definitions are these: The wit makes fun of other persons; the satirist makes fun of the world; the humorist makes fun of himself, but in so doing, he identifies himself with people &#8212; that is, people everywhere, not for the purpose of taking them apart, but simply revealing their true nature.</p>
<br><b>James Thurber</b> (1894-1961) American humorist, cartoonist, writer<br>Interview (1959-03-24) by Edward R. Murrow, <i>Small World</i>, CBS-TV 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://archive.org/details/collectinghimsel00thur/page/220/mode/2up?q=%22definition%2C+humor+is+gentle%22" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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When Siobhan McKenna, one of the other guests, made a comment about "cruel humor."<br><br>

The transcript was printed as "<a href="https://archive.org/details/collectinghimsel00thur/page/258/mode/2up?q=%22girl+in+galway%22">That Girl in Galway</a>" in the next (?) day's <em>New York Post</em>.

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		<title>Lewis, C.S. -- The Screwtape Letters, Letter  3 (1942)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[In civilised life domestic hatred usually expresses itself by saying things which would appear quite harmless on paper (the words are not offensive) but in such a voice, or at such a moment, that they are not far short of a blow in the face.]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In civilised life domestic hatred usually expresses itself by saying things which would appear quite harmless on paper (the words are not offensive) but in such a voice, or at such a moment, that they are not far short of a blow in the face.</p>
<br><b>C. S. Lewis</b> (1898-1963) English writer, literary scholar, lay theologian [Clive Staples Lewis]
<br><i>The Screwtape Letters</i>, Letter  3 (1942) 
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		<title>Ginott, Haim -- Between Parent and Child, Introduction (2003 ed.) [with A. Ginott and H. W. Goddard]</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Like a trained surgeon who is careful where he cuts, parents, too, need to become skilled in the use of words. Because words are like knives. They can inflict, if not physical, many painful emotional wounds. See Howell (1659).]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Like a trained surgeon who is careful where he cuts, parents, too, need to become skilled in the use of words. Because words are like knives. They can inflict, if not physical, many painful emotional wounds.</p>
<br><b>Haim Ginott</b> (1922-1973) Israeli-American school teacher, child psychologist, psychotherapist [b. Haim Ginzburg]<br><i>Between Parent and Child</i>, Introduction (2003 ed.) [with A. Ginott and H. W. Goddard] 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Between_Parent_and_Child_Revised_and_Upd/lN7GG2iKHMIC?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=%22trained%20surgeon%22" target="_blank">Source</a>)
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See <a href="https://wist.info/howell-james/83382/">Howell</a> (1659).




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		<title>Shakespeare, William -- Much Ado About Nothing, Act 2, sc. 1, l. 244 (2.1.244) (1598)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[BENEDICK: She speaks poniards and every word stabs. See Howell (1659).]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>BENEDICK: She speaks poniards and every word stabs.</p>
<br><b>William Shakespeare</b> (1564-1616) English dramatist and poet<br><i>Much Ado About Nothing</i>, Act 2, sc. 1, l. 244 (2.1.244) (1598) 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://shakespeare.folger.edu/shakespeares-works/much-ado-about-nothing/entire-play/#:~:text=She%20speaks%20poniards,%C2%A0word%20stabs." target="_blank">Source</a>)
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See <a href="https://wist.info/howell-james/83382/">Howell</a> (1659).						</span>
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		<title>Irving, Washington -- &#8220;Rip Van Winkle,&#8221; The Sketch Book (1820)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[A sharp tongue is the only edged tool that grows keener with constant use. See Howell (1659).]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A sharp tongue is the only edged tool that grows keener with constant use.</p>
<br><b>Washington Irving</b> (1783-1859) American author [pseud. for Geoffrey Crayon]<br>&#8220;Rip Van Winkle,&#8221; <i>The Sketch Book</i> (1820) 
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See <a href="https://wist.info/howell-james/83382/">Howell</a> (1659).						</span>
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		<description><![CDATA[A soft Tongue may strike hard. See Howell (1659).]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A soft Tongue may strike hard.</p>
<br><b>Benjamin Franklin</b> (1706-1790) American statesman, scientist, philosopher, aphorist<br><i>Poor Richard</i> (1744 ed.) 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://founders.archives.gov/documents/Franklin/01-02-02-0100#:~:text=A%20soft%20Tongue%20may%20strike%20hard." target="_blank">Source</a>)
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See <a href="https://wist.info/howell-james/83382/">Howell</a> (1659).

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		<title>Bible, Vol. 1. Old Testament -- Book 22b. Sirach (Ecclesiasticus) 28:17ff (Sir 28:17-18) [KJV (1611)]</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The stroke of the whip maketh marks in the flesh: but the stroke of the tongue breaketh the bones. Many have fallen by the edge of the sword: but not so many as have fallen by the tongue. [πληγὴ μάστιγος ποιεῖ μώλωπα, πληγὴ δὲ γλώσσης συγκλάσει ὀστᾶ. πολλοὶ ἔπεσαν ἐν στόματι μαχαίρας, καὶ οὐχ ὡς [&#8230;]]]></description>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The stroke of the whip maketh marks in the flesh: but the stroke of the tongue breaketh the bones. Many have fallen by the edge of the sword: but not so many as have fallen by the tongue.</p>
<p>[πληγὴ μάστιγος ποιεῖ μώλωπα, πληγὴ δὲ γλώσσης συγκλάσει ὀστᾶ. πολλοὶ ἔπεσαν ἐν στόματι μαχαίρας, καὶ οὐχ ὡς οἱ πεπτωκότες διὰ γλῶσσαν.]</p>
<br><b>The Bible (The Old Testament)</b> (14th - 2nd C BC) Judeo-Christian sacred scripture [Tanakh, Hebrew Bible], incl. the Apocrypha (Deuterocanonicals) <br>Book 22b. <i>Sirach (Ecclesiasticus)</i> 28:17ff (Sir 28:17-18) [KJV (1611)] 
									<br>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(<a href="https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Ecclesiasticus-28-17/#:~:text=The%20stroke%20of%20the%20whip%20maketh%20marks%20in%20the%20flesh%3A%20but%20the%20stroke%20of%20the%20tongue%20breaketh%20the%20bones.%2018Many%20have%20fallen%20by%20the%20edge%20of%20the%20sword%3A%20but%20not%20so%20many%20as%20have%20fallen%20by%20the%20tongue." target="_blank">Source</a>)
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See <a href="https://wist.info/howell-james/83382/">Howell</a> (1659). <br><br>

(<a href="https://tips.translation.bible/tip_verse/sir-2817/">Source (Greek)</a>). Alternate translations:<br><br>

<blockquote>The stroke of a whip maketh a blue mark: but the stroke of the tongue will break the bones. Many have fallen by the edge of the sword, but not so many as have perished by their own tongue.<br>
[<a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Sirach+28%3A21-22&version=DRA">DRA</a> (1899); 28:21-22]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>A stroke of the whip raises a weal, but a stroke of the tongue breaks bones. Many have fallen by the edge of the sword, but many more have fallen by the tongue.<br>
[<a href="https://bibledoctrine.us/sirach-ecclesiasticus/#:~:text=A%20stroke%20of,by%20the%20tongue.">JB</a> (1966)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>A whip can raise a welt, but a vicious tongue can break bones. More people have died as a result of loose talk than were ever killed by swords.<br>
[<a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Sirach+28%3A17-18&version=GNT">GNT</a> (1976)]</blockquote><br>

<blockquote>The blow of a whip raises a welt, but a blow of the tongue crushes the bones. Many have fallen by the edge of the sword, but not as many as have fallen because of the tongue.<br>
[<a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Sirach+28%3A17-18&version=NRSVUE">NRSV</a> (1989 ed.)]</blockquote><br>
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