You can’t save others from themselves because those who make a perpetual muddle of their lives don’t appreciate your interfering with the drama they’ve created. They want your poor-sweet-baby sympathy, but they don’t want to change. This is a truth I never seem to learn.
Sue Grafton (1940-2017) American novelist, screenwriter “T” is for Trespass, ch. 9 (2007)
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