POLITENESS, n. The most acceptable hypocrisy.

Ambrose Bierce (1842–1914?) American writer and journalist

“Politeness,” The Devil’s Dictionary (1911)
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Originally published in the "Cynic's Word Book" column in the New York American (1906-03-16) and the "Devil's Dictionary" column in the San Francisco Wasp (1906-03-21).