Accept modestly; surrender gracefully.
[Ἄτύφως μὲν λαβεῖν, εὐλύτως δὲ ἀφεῖναι.]
Marcus Aurelius (AD 121-180) Roman emperor (161-180), Stoic philosopher
Meditations [To Himself; Τὰ εἰς ἑαυτόν], Book 6, ch. 33 (8.33) (AD 161-180) [tr. Staniforth (1964)]
(Source)
(Source (Greek)). Alternate translations:Receive temporal blessings without ostentation, when they are sent and thou shalt be able to part with them with all readiness and facility when they are taken from thee again.
[tr. Casaubon (1634), 8.31]As to the Case of good Fortune; Take it without Pride, and Resign without Reluctance.
[tr. Collier (1701)]Receive the gifts of fortune, without pride; and part with them, without reluctance.
[tr. Hutcheson/Moor (1742); Hutcheson/Chrystal (1902)]Receive any good fortune which falls to your lot, without being too much elated; and resign it, if necessary, without being dejected.
[tr. Graves (1792), 8.32]Receive [wealth or prosperity] without arrogance; and be ready to let it go.
[tr. Long (1862)]As to the case of good fortune, take it without pride, and resign it without reluctance.
[tr. Collier/Zimmern (1887)]Modestly take, cheerfully resign.
[tr. Rendall (1898)]Accept without arrogance, surrender without reluctance.
[tr. Haines (Loeb) (1916)]Accept without pride, relinquish without a struggle.
[tr. Farquharson (1944)]Accept without arrogance, relinquish without demur.
[tr. Hard (1997 ed.)]To accept it without arrogance, to let it go with indifference.
[tr. Hays (2003)]Accept humbly; let go easily.
[tr. Hammond (2006)]Accept without arrogance, relinquish without a struggle.
[tr. Hard (2011 ed.)]
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Beauty without intelligence is like a hook without bait.
Molière (1622-1673) French playwright, actor [stage name for Jean-Baptiste Poquelin]
(Misattributed)
Widely attributed to Moliere, and usually to his play Tartuffe. An extensive look across multiple translations of that and other Moliere plays finds no reference to any of those four nouns that at all resembles this sentiment.
Instead, the phrase appears to originate from Ninon de Lenclos (1620-1705), French letter writer, courtesan, and salonnière. Moliere knew her when he was a child. Attributed to her is the phrase "La beauté sans grâce est un hameçon sans appât," which sometimes is translated as above, or as "Beauty without grace ...."
